How To Attract Men And Get The Guy That You Dream About...A Male's Perspective!
Hello there! Welcome!
So you're here. Now what?
You're probably wondering- Why in the world would a guy have a lens about attracting men, getting guys, picking up men and stuff like this right? Two reasons really.
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One: I'm writing this lens to offer my perspective as a guy to all the clueless but wonderful females all around our ozone depleted world who are tearing their hair out trying to figure what us guys want in a girl and stuff- but aren't getting answers..
I know know how that feels! ( yes, even I can sometimes find myself wishing I understood more about the fairer sex..) So I'm really here to help! Here you''ll get tips about what attracts a man and why we are the way we are- so hang on and tune in every couple of weeks to gain invaluable insights into the workings of the mind of a man!
Hey, no need to thank me girls! I'm noble that way!
You've heard of wing girls...Just think of me as your wing man then okay?
Disclaimer : I'm not an expert or anything nor will I be representing the views and opinions guys all around the world. ( So guys, please do not send bomb threats to me yo! ) And girls, read on at your own risk!
Two: I recently came across the single, most engrossing and accurate guide that offers advice on attracting men - The Get A Guy Guide by Mirabelle Summers. ( Pictured bottom... To read more about it just scroll right to the bottom where I've written a short review about it..
But don't go away just yet! You don't have to buy the book if you don't want to because you can get tons of free tips from yours truly here every other week so that you can better understand what us guys look for and are attracted to in a girl.. :)
Now where were we....?
Ohh yes, even a cool guy like me will occasionally read books by women authors on attraction out of curiosity to generally :
(a) get a good laugh ( Don't get mad, there really is a whole lot of amusing material out there- besides, I'm only human...)
(b) To give it the thumbs up if they get it right - and if it's any good- recommend it!
But only if it offers any real value and it works! Since I'm a guy, I figure I would know if the advice is any good. Right? Right!!
Well, you'll find a link to that very book at the bottom. It will offer you, the female , a wonderful insight and perspective on how a fella's mind works so that you can of course essentially attract the man that you desire. How cool is that?
Can't wait? Check out the guide now!
And of course I am selling this guide- but hey, a guy's got to make a living right?
Once more, you don't have to buy the book if you don't want to because you can get tons of free tips from yours truly here every other week.
Fair enough?
Cool....Let's have fun here!
Want more tips on how to attract a guy? Why not sign up for this free mini course by Mirabelle Summers! Only greatness awaits! Click here..
Contents at a Glance
So Who Am I?
Urmmm... Just your average guy who just wants to help?
Ladies, I suppose an introduction is in order!Well, like I said above, I'm no guru on the matters of relationships and more so on the matters of the heart- and god knows; I've made my share of boo boos, mistakes and burnt a couple of bridges along the way in my life. Maybe more so than anyone I've known. But I'm exciting that way.
Before we go on- The fact that you're here says that
you're looking for information on what goes on
inside a guy's head so that you can better
understand guys and that's just what you're going to get.
I won't hold anything back here- nothing. (And don't expect the regular "attract men" type of sites and lens you're used to though..because it can get a bit weird here at times!) So be warned. Okay then, since you're here, I thought it'd be a great idea to just share a little about who I am and what I do for a living and stuff like that. I'm certain you do want to know about the guy who's giving you advice on what works for guys in general right? So here goes-
Firstly, this is not what I am:
I am not a relationship guru.I am not an expert on the whole dating thingy.
I do not have a degree or a PHD on the matters of the heart and stuff.
I am not a serial killer like that fella Dexter on tv.
This is what I am:
I'm just your average joe.
I'm not a millionaire.
I'm a fun loving guy.
I'm brutally straightforward.
I'm adventurous.
I'm (ahem) quite attractive as you can see from my picture.
Girls obviously love me.
I'm a fun loving guy. Oops I said that already haven't I?
I'm shy.
And cute.
I can be a pain in the butt sometimes.
I have a full time job as a sales guy and a couple of websites that I'm working on.
I was married.
And I just recently broke up with someone I really cared for. (sigh....) So there you go. I've said everything that you'll ever need to know about me. Write me if you want to know more and I'll share.Now that you know this is not going to be your average blog on dating and relationships and what not and you know that I'm not a perfect person- why should you listen to what I say? Well, the last I checked, I'm still a guy.
We're off to a great start don't you think? And guys, what are you still doing here? Shoo! It's just me and the gals now yo! Dig? Cool.
Of Attracting Men, Sugar and Spice And Everything Nice.....
This Week! Types Of Guys. And what you really need to know. Honest.
Warning: The views expressed below are my opinions only and in no way are meant to demean or offend anyone or any parties. If I do offend anyone, it is not intentional nor will I apologize for merely stating my views and opinions on the subject matter below....So do read on at your own risk.You have been warned.
IS HE YOUR TYPE?
I cannot believe how another week has gone by. Time sure flies when you're having fun. And when you're not. Can you believe we're already into May? And it sure can be scary when you think about how when today is over, you're never getting it back.
So live life already and have some fun.
Go out and get the man that you want already. Life is too short I say!
So if you're looking to attract a guy that you really like or you've just met-
Knowing his type can save you lots of time and more importantly, a truckload of hurt. How so?
First off- there are five types of men in general.
I categorize them this way:
JOE NICEGUY or PEE WEE for short...
He is the man every girl should bring home to their parents and marry right away. So how do you tell a Pee Wee apart from the rest ?Why, he'll be the nicest and sweetest guy you'll ever meet. And he'll treat you with the utmost respect and will do everything that you say and will never give you grief.
He'll even bring you flowers and nice chocolates and shower you with gifts every other day and snap to your every whim and command!
Chances are, he'll be the most boring guy you'll ever know. (Unfortunately. ) He'd be pretty bad when it comes to chatting up girls and can even come across as weird at times. He may also appear to be lacking in self confidence. He's likely to be rather unambitious as well.
But he'll be loyal to you and will never cheat on you per say. At least most Pee Wees that I know never do. I'm not saying that every Mr. Niceguy would never cheat- some may, especially after being in a relationship for many years but that's the exception rather than the norm and altogether another story.
Essentially, this is the guy that other guys would probably call a "wuss" ( there's another term but this is a G rated lens! ) because he'll always have to get permission to do anything from his girlfriend or wife to hang out with the guys.., etc etc..
(As you can see, other types actually do not like Mr. Joe Niceguy very much. )
Some girls take to a guy like this because they're easy and predictable. And pushovers. ( It's true.) Some girls end up marrying a guy like this even if he was never someone they were really attracted to or wanted in the first place. Even if there was never any chemistry in that relationship. ( also very important! )
Some couples I know who were this way are now married happily! Or at least I'd like to think so.
Then of course, there are others that are not and suffer in silence with their partners never knowing if things would have been better with another guy. And that's why it's important to know the type of man you're dating. The sweet guy will never surprise you, or challenge you and he will always for most part be the same predictable guy you first met many, many years ago.
Only go for a guy like this if you think you can be happy with him the way he is. Because, he's never going to be any different and you must never expect him to.
Method of attraction: If he's shy, ( and chances are, they all are...) you'll have to find out if he's into you.
The rest is easy..
Only go for a guy like this if you think you can be happy with him the way he is. Because, he's never going to be any different and you must never expect him to.
JOE GOODGUY
Joe Goodgguy is just that. He's nice, ( just like Joe Niceguy) and will do anything for the girl he "loves". He'll wait on her, pick her up from work, shower her with gifts and send her flowers and will do her every bidding.Let's just say he's the "bolder" version of Joe Niceguy. He's pretty confident and comfortable when it comes to chatting up girls and he'll even call you ( unlike Joe Niceguy) if he likes you.
Here's more on how you can tell if a guy is Joe Goodguy-
He's always nice.
He's always caring. ( A good thing of course..)
He'll buy you TEDDY BEARS ...
He'll always ask how your day at the office or school was.
He'll ask how your parents are doing.
He'll ask if your little brother's grades are up or down...
He'll listen to you talk if you want him to...
He'll never challenge you.
Nor will he tease you.
He'll be predictable.
He'll be boring. Just like Joe Niceguy!
He'll tell you how he feels in no time about you.
He'll be loyal to you... A good thing I'm sure.
So if you meet a Joe Goodguy just understand that just like Joe Niceguy, Joe Goodguy will never change.
But he'd make a great lime time partner and husband!
Method of attraction: Find out what he's really into and get him talking about it ( which will not be hard because they love talking about themselves..) and you'll soon connect!
Remember: He's a sweet and nice guy. Just don't expect him to be spontaneous and do something that may surprise you! He'll always be predictable.
He'll listen to you talk if you want him to...
He'll never challenge you.
Nor will he tease you.
He'll be predictable.
He'll be boring. Just like Joe Niceguy!
JOE CHARMING
Now Joe Charming will come across as being very engaging and attractive once you get to know him. He knows how to chat up girls and will always come across as a very interesting individual. He also has very high confidence and can easily attract women because of that.Chances are, a couple of Joe Charmings that you know today may have once been former Pee Wees themselves~ Past individual experiences in their lives may have caused the change to happen and although it can be rare for a true blue Pee Wee to change to a Joe Charming, it can of course happen.
Some people can change as they go on in their lives because of an experience ( good or bad..) and then again there are people that will never change no matter the experience.
Anyways, here's the deal with Joe C.
He'll challenge you.
He'll fascinate you.
He'll engage you..
He'll talk about the stuff you love. ( because he'll talk about your most favorite topic: YOU. )
He may forget your birthday .
He won't say yes every time.
He can be very passionate and romantic.
He'll be good in the bedroom.
He'll hang out with his buddies and will never ask you permission.
Other girls may find him appealing.
So how do you know if he likes you?
He'll flirt with you if he likes you.
He knows about women and how to appeal to them. ( Some will read books to improve "their game" with women or to understand them better....)
In any relationship, it's so important to establish a very strong connection with your partner- especially in the early stages of the relationship- And if you keep Joe engaged and interested from the start, more often than not- he'll be faithful and loyal to you always. ( come back for more tips on how to do just that straight from the horses' mouth as they say...)
This is the guy a lot of girls enjoy company with and will always remain special to a girl even if she's fallen out of a relationship with him. For whatever reasons.
To attract Joe C : You must be interesting! You must know how to tease, challenge him and use your "charms" as a woman and play it up at times to appeal to his instincts as a guy. Play up the puppy dog "look" routine at times and surprise him with sudden gestures of affection. ( like taking a hold of one of his arm and putting it around you in the movies..) Challenge him sometimes! Pout your lips when you disagree with him intentionally in a "cute" way sometimes just to get a reaction. Don't be predictable you hear?
Joe C loves that. Then again, which guy doesn't?
It doesn't matter how times have changed or how you think a woman is supposed to be "perceived" or act in today's times. You can be "cute" and "adorable" at times because by doing this, you will appeal to a man. ( You can't beat centuries of programming and genetics! )
Keep it fresh by not overdoing your "cutesy" routine though!
It's so important to establish a very strong connection and bond in all areas of your relationship with your man- right from the very beginning of the relationship.
And if you keep Joe engaged and interested from the start, more often than not- he'll be faithful and loyal to you always.
JOE PLAYER
While Joe Charming may jump into bed with another girl if an opportunity arises, - if you do not keep him engaged and satisfied mentally and physically- ( but so would Joe Niceguy or any guy for the matter ... but we're not going to into this ages old and much debated "heated" subject now...) Joe P will never hesitate at any given moment. Never.The term "playboy" will describe Joe Hefner to a great deal. Here's the guy that will have all the qualities of Joe Charming and then some. Myth: He's always tall dark and handsome. Joe P may or may not always have this one single quality- but girls, he will know how to appeal to you as a guy that you must have.
Here's the deal with Joe P:
He's only motivated by one thing and one thing alone: To get as many women into his bed as possible and try to beat Elvis at this game- ( who was rumored to have slept with at least 20,000 girls in his life... )
He's the guy who will love one night stands and a great party!
He'll know how to seduce a women.
He'll appear to be very self confident!
He can be actually a nice and decent guy who just loves fun or is still seemingly looking for the " right" girl. ( Even though he probably already has a steady girlfriend ..)
He may or may never have read books on how to improve his "game" with women- often using "manipulation" and "mind games" to get his way with a woman.
By the way girls, not all Joe Ps have a stereotype "bad boy" look so you can forget about looking out for a Joe P that way. They come in all shapes and sizes and some even have nice, clean shaven "good boy" looks.
The only way to find out is to listen closely to his friends ( to see if he is indeed a "player" ) and look out for signals such as other girls calling him every other minute or so.
So if you know he's a Joe P and you're just not into a guy like this- do stay away. Or you may wind up with a lot of grief! Even if you manage to "tame" him, you can never be sure.
Attracting a Joe P will not be a challenge if he's into you. He'll show you, flirt with you and send you flowers if he's attracted to you. Flirting, teasing him in kind will attract him to you.
Strangely enough, some Joe Players may actually stay away from girls that they consider to be "good" or "innocent" girls because they don't want to hurt them or take away their "innocence".
Essentially, Joe P just wants to have fun. Tons of it. And I am in the opinion that there's nothing wrong with that. Every one has a right to live life the way they see fit.
By understanding what drives Joe P, you'll be better equipped to make a informed decision and know if you want to have a relationship with him or not at all.
By the way girls, not all Joe Ps have a stereotype "bad boy" look so you can forget about looking out for a Joe P that way. They come in all shapes and sizes and some even have nice, clean shaven "good boy" looks.
JOE SAVAGE
You can spot a Joe Savage from miles away! You can probably even hear him from a distance! He'll be loud, crude and will behave in a brutish manner that will remind you of a pre-historic caveman. Or worse, Godzilla himself.While Joe Charming and Joe Player can be attractive with their boyish charms, humor and interesting banter, these are the traits and qualities that a Joe Savage certainly does not possess! But think he's does!
He's primarily motivated by the same desire as Joe Player to drive as many women to his bedroom as he possibly can- but with a difference. For most part, he's not choosy and anyone will do. Even "good" girls!
Here's how you can spot him!
He'll be brash and straightforward.
He'll laugh at his own jokes..
He might even break wind in front of you and think it's funny..
He's aggressive and won't take no for an answer!
He's not concerned about what folks around him thinks.
He can actually be a very kind and caring guy.
Or not.
He can be funny at times!
So there you go..
Method of attracting him? You're kidding right?
Seriously, not every male that you meet that fits the above description may actually be a jerk or is interested only in one thing..
And even most Joe Savages can be extremely geniune nice people when you get to know them.
The above male types are based on real life people that I know but there are always exceptions. Not every male that you'll meet in your life will fall strictly into any of the above male type categories and there will be males that simply fall somewhere in between the various categories.
Final word: Once more, the above views are based on my own observations on the various male types and what drives them- I've talked about these types so that you'll know what to expect from each individual type to better select a partner that you'll be happy with for a long time!
Happy Hunting!!
p.s- Come back in a couple of week's time when I share some more "secrets" and "techniques" that you can use to attract the man that you want!
If nothing else, I promise you it'll at least fun...
He'll laugh at his own jokes..
He might even break wind in front of you and think it's funny..
He's aggressive and won't take no for an answer!
He's not concerned about what folks around him thinks.
He can actually be a very kind and caring guy.
Hola! So are you a hug person or a kiss person?
Me? I love to kiss! Which type are you?
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Things That Guys Love. The Secret Top Ten List. ( that you may not want to know about but should...)

The Secret Top Ten List- Things that guys love!
- Sex
- Fast Cars
- Sex
- Spending Money
- Sex
- The NFL
- Sex
- uhhh....Cheerleaders?
- And another apartment our girlfriends has no clue about?
- uhh..Sex?
Question: Is A Man With Money More Desireable Than A Gorgeous One Without Moolah?
Ladies, what do you think about men and money?
Ah! The subject of money invokes emotions and desires like no other subject matter in the known universe with the exception of sex and possibly American Idol! ( Shame on you Simon, for not giving Scott McIntyre another chance! )
Money is important- we all know that. People have died for less money than the price of a hairdo styled by far famed hair stylish mogul Jonathan Antin!
Question: If you had to choose between two guys who's in love with you which would you choose?
The first guy is someone with tons of money ..( think Donnie Trump or someone rich you know...)
And the second is just your average middle class income earner Joe whom you think is incredibly delicious and absolutely gorgeous but flat broke! ( He's willing and promises to make something of himself soon of course..)
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Donnie I'm fabulously rich Trump!
So there! Tell us which you would go for! Be honest now, and think hard before putting in your vote now, gorgeous!
Yes! Homer Simpson Is In The House! (Did you maybe expect Rachel Ray here?) You Did? Awww,,shucks!
Ahh,,, the man's man. Well maybe not. At least Homer is funny... Just don't take his advice on attracting men!
Mirror, Mirror On The Wall, Who Is The Sexiest Of Them All......
Celebrities! They have it all! Money, fame, fortune and looks to boot! The lucky devils!
OMG! He's soooo hot! Like I could melt right now like ice cream on a hot stove if he so much looks my way!!
Yummy~ So many guys, so little time! Which of the below male hunks do you think should take the coveted award for being the sexiest male celeb of all time? Cast your vote ladies.....I'm waiting! (did I actually write all that? Now I'm worried!)
The Greatest Romantic Movies Of All Time!
Told you this wouldn't be your average "attract men" or how to get a guy type of lens...
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Rhett...dammit..I said no tongue!
Ahhh LOVE!
" LOVE" this gif? Go here...No other subject matter has over the course of history and in any age, time and civilization has been more passionately and thoroughly sung about, written about, inspired, debated upon, murderous acts and crimes of passion committed over and not to mention all the countless wars fought through out the centuries - and all in the name of one word and one word alone:
LOVE. Ahhhh.... why, the very mention of the word sends a wave of countless emotions coursing through my very veins, seemingly eager to burst and explode right from underneath my skin.. leaving only an exposed and naked shell of once used to be a man.. (Ok.So I'm not going to be a best selling novelist. And who cares anyways right? Right.)
Anyways, I ask you of this: Who on the face of this crazy planet does not enjoy a well crafted and grand romantic tale of epic and majestic proportions- to inspire the hopeless romantic in all of us? To remind us that anything is possible in life and true love prevails, no matter the odds and that the hero inevitably ends up with the heroine, holding her in his strong and rugged arms and riding into the sunset never to be seen again!
Anyways!
The American Film Institute (AFI) revealed a list of what they thought were the best and greatest 100 love stories of all time on June 11, 2002 during their "100 Years...100 Passions," a three-hour special television event. And this is their list...
And the winners were....
1. "Casablanca" - 1942
2. "Gone with the Wind" - 1939
3. "West Side Story" - 1961
4. "Roman Holiday" - 1953
5. "An Affair to Remember" - 1957
6. "The Way We Were" - 1973
7. "Doctor Zhivago" - 1965
8. "It's a Wonderful Life" - 1946
9. "Love Story" - 1970
10. "City Lights" - 1931
11. "Annie Hall" - 1977
12. "My Fair Lady" - 1964
13. "Out of Africa" - 1985
14. "The African Queen" - 1951
15. "Wuthering Heights" - 1939
16. "Singing' in the Rain" - 1952
17. "Moonstruck" - 1987
18. "Vertigo" - 1958
19. "Ghost" - 1990
20. "From Here to Eternity" - 1953
21. "Pretty Woman" - 1990
22. "On Golden Pone" - 1981
23. "Now, Voyager" - 1942
24. "King Kong" - 1933
25. "When Harry Met Sally" - 1989
26. "The Lady Eve" - 1941
27. "The Sound of Music" - 1965
28. "The Shop Around the Corner" - 1940
29. "An Officer and a Gentleman" - 1982
30. "Swing Time" - 1936
31. "The King and I" - 1956
32. "Dark Victory" - 1939
33. "Camille" - 1937
34. "Beauty and the Beast" - 1991
35. "Gigi" - 1958
36. "Random Harvest" - 1942
37. "Titanic" - 1997
38. "It Happened One Night" - 1934
39. "An American in Paris" - 1951
40. "Ninotchka" - 1939
41. "Funny Girl" - 1968
42. "Anna Karenina" - 1935
43. "A Star is Born" - 1954
44. "The Philadelphia Story" - 1940
45. "Sleepless in Seattle" - 1993
46. "To Catch a Thief" - 1955
47. "Splendor in the Grass" - 1961
48. "Last Tango in Paris" - 1972
49. "The Postman Always Rings Twice" - 1946
50. "Shakespeare in Love" - 1998
51. "Bringing Up Baby" - 1938
52. "The Graduate" - 1967
53. "A Place in the Sun" - 1951
54. "Sabrina" - 1954
55. "Reds" - 1981
56. "The English Patient" - 1996
57. "Two for the Road" - 1967
58. "Guess Who's Coming to Dinner" - 1967
59. "Picnic" - 1955
60. "To Have and Have Not" - 1944
61. "Breakfast at Tiffany's" - 1961
62. "The Apartment" - 1960
63. "Sunrise" - 1927
64. "Marty" - 1955
65. "Bonnie and Clyde" - 1967
66. "Manhattan" - 1979
67. "A Streetcar Named Desire" - 1951
68. "What's Up, Doc?" - 1972
69. "Harold and Maude" - 1971
70. "Sense and Sensibility" - 1995
71. "Way Down East" - 1920
72. "Roxanne" - 1987
73. "The Ghost and Mrs. Muir" - 1947
74. "Woman of the Year" - 1942
75. "The American President" - 1995
76. "The Quiet Man" - 1952
77. "The Awful Truth" - 1937
78. "Coming Home" - 1978
79. "Jezebel" - 1939
80. "The Sheik" - 1921
81. "The Goodbye Girl" - 1977
82. "Witness" - 1985
83. "Morocco" - 1930
84. "Double Indemnity" - 1944
85. "Love is a Many-Splendored Thing" - 1955
86. "Notorious" - 1946
87. "The Unbearable Lightness of Being" - 1988
88. "The Princess Bride" - 1987
89. "Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf" - 1966
90. "The Bridges of Madison County" - 1995
91. "Working Girl" - 1988
92. "Porgy and Bess" - 1959
93. "Dirty Dancing" - 1987
94. "Body Heat" - 1981
95. "Lady and the Tramp" - 1955
96. "Barefoot in the Park" - 1967
97. "Grease" - 1978
98. "The Hunchback of Notre Dame" - 1939
99. "Pillow Talk" - 1959
100. "Jerry Maguire" - 1996
To get the whole story, why not go here!
Below is my very own and personal favorite list of what I think to be the best ever romantic movies made, ( but then, what do I know ..) and the number one spot goes to drum roll please!.. ONLY YOU starring Robert Downey JR. and Marisa Tomei - both of which played their roles to perfection!
Please feel free to add to the list if you don't see your favorite romance movie and if you don't agree that ONLY YOU was and still is the best romantic movie ever made ( sob, sob.. ) then please vote for your own personal favorite all the way to the top.
Have fun!!
My Best Friend's Wedding (Special Edition)
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While You Were Sleeping
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When Harry Met Sally
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Titanic (10th Anniversary Edition)
Leonardo DiCaprio and Oscar-nominatee Kate Winslet more...0 points
Forrest Gump (Two-Disc Special Collector's Edition)
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Ever Secretly Wish You Were A Super Heroine? Really? Awesome. Me Too!
Just for fun~ If you could be a super heroine, which super dudette would you be?
Who wants to be a Super Heroine?
You've seen them on TV, movies and may have read about them in the funny books once!
Super heroines! STOP THE PRESSES! Sexy, super and dangerous! You don't want to mess with them! Did you notice that there are just so many great looking and really hot super heroines in the crazy realm of comic books? Well, i did!

If you look below, you'll see a list of some of my favorites and the hottest super gals in the comic book kingdom- (if your favorite isn't on the list, please write and let me know..and I'll add it if possible..) and it's so much fun to know which super heroine you wanna be!
Talk about GIRL POWER! Now go get the bad guys!
Another Poll!??! And What's With The Superhero Thingy?!?! What Are You? Some Kind Of Comic Book Geek??
Well.. uh..yes..But that's not the point...Because what could possibly be more fun than a silly and ridiculous poll about dating Super Heroes?
Superheroes! What would we do without them? Got a cat at stuck in the tree? Call them! A building on fire? NO problem! Be there in a flash! Damsels in distress? Up up and away! Helping a senior citizen cross a busy street? That's easy!
Thought: Wouldn't it be nice if there were real super folks around? Sure it would be!
And if there were real life super dudes around- they'd probably be celebrity of sorts! And that's got to be cool right?
Besides, think of all the fun that you could have with someone with super powers!
Question: Which spandex wearing Super Hero would you be attracted to? And which one of the below would you date?
I have to know!
Winston Churchill
The pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. The optimist sees opportunity in every difficulty.
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Warning: Shameless Plug: Mirabelle Summers' - The Get A Guy Guide: An Honest Review! Really!
And why I think it's such a darn fabulous guide.. read on!
Ouch! Talk about relationship and dating problems! Oh, the pain!
More often than not, it may be a case of not being able to hang on to them for more than a few dates.
One wonders if it's the classic case of feeling as though all the "quality" men have been snapped up and the only ones that are left are the ones that you aren't attracted to!
They feel as though all of this is sometimes out of their control and the ones that they are actually attracted to are already married or in relationships, and the single ones that they do end up dating never seem to last.
Have you ever felt this way?
Many feel that they are never going to get "the one."
When these women share their dating and attraction issues with me, I can't help but think of the all material that I've personally read- those that were on "loan" to me by some of my girlfriends and the others that were sent to me for a review-
And how they would all "teach" the same stuff. Things like how to dress, act, behave, even down to how you hold your body. ( which are important stuff of course..)
but many women follow this advice blindly, in the hopes that they can be convincing enough to get a guy's attention.
But! Isn't a relationship more than just about getting the guy?
That's where author Mirabelle Summers has a striking point of difference.
In the book the first thing she professes is that it's not about getting the guy-
as it is gaining the knowledge, skills and ability to be authentic, creative, and irresistibly attractive.
Rather than catching the guy, it's about freeing yourself from your past limitations and getting in touch with your most attractive self, and to living the lifestyle of your wildest dreams.
Empowering stuff huh?
When I started reading through the book, I couldn't help but realize how practical her stuff was. And more importantly- applicable. And how much it made sense!
And if what you're reading doesn't get through completely, she reinforces those thoughts and ideas with powerful exercises, called "Actionable Attraction Challenges."
It's an awesome way of reinforcing the strong mindsets and concepts that her revolutionary book shows.
Not only that- but It's bursting with dating and attraction advice, and important tips that will without doubt- turn your life around.
You'll swear she was there, holding your hand and walking you through her powerful stuff.
check it out...
Question: So why would you be interested in it?
Maybe the approaches that you've taken to dating and attraction hasn't worked for you yet. Maybe you've felt all along that you've never been able to attract the man that you want and desire in your life.
Maybe you're wondering why he never calls you after the first date or why you've never had a lucky break and all the guys that you've genuinely liked never seemed to be attracted to you.
You may have achieved success in other endeavors in your life, like your career and your friends, but your relationships have remained in the great unknown.
Now it's time to find out what YOU can do to empower and prepare yourself for the right man and relationship when it comes along. And it will!
What's interesting with Mirabelle's book and different is that instead of the usual hocus-pocus on focusing on finding out what men want, finding out what it is that men do wrong, and finding ways to trick them into wanting you, her book actually shows you the methods to develop your attitude and inner attraction- so that you are able to see attraction when it happens, and most importantly- to keep your relationship fresh for a long, long time!
Another question: Do you want to simply observe your love life, or do you want to participate? If you are serious about making positive changes in your approach to men and getting to the bottom of attraction, then Mirabelle's book is essential to helping you move forward.
Everybody has areas in their life that they feel they can improve on or wish they could do better, and the first step is in believing that change is possible. Really, the next step is to read this guide.
More questions for you:
Do you want to discover more about the kind of man you want?
Do you want to recognize the ideal man when he comes along?
Do you want to let go of the baggage and misconceptions that have previously held you back?
Do you want to learn how to attract the right type of man into your life?
Do you want to learn how to develop the right mindset that is going to draw men to you in a way you have never experienced?
When you do attract him, do you want to know when to take it to the next level without jeopardizing your chances?
Do you want to know what to expect from him, and what he expects from you in return, when you are in a relationship?
Even for people that think they have what it takes already, there is still heaps in this book that can guide you towards making further improvements and keep your relationship thriving.
With a whopping 250+ pages, it's attractively laid out, professionally designed, and contains everything you need to make concrete changes and bold steps toward dating success in your life.
Final words: Get this guide and get your guy! Now! Life is too short to wait any longer.
Comments?..urmmm...Anyone?
Feel free to leave a comment or a complaint.. ( ulp..)
I would love to hear from you! If you have something to add, or something that you want to know about guys, do let me know! I won't charge you a penny i promise!
I'll even promise to reply as soon as I can. I may sometimes take a couple of days but you can be sure I will respond! ( Like you, I'm a busy little bee- so do bear with me! )
A message for the guys: What are you still doin' here?
p.s- Remember, be gentle with me! I cry easily! And you don't want to see a grown man cry! Especially not me!
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