Help Baby Sleep Good

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Get your baby to sleep longer and more frequently!

As a new parent it is general assumed your going to encounter some lack of sleep. While this statement is true, you really do have a choice in the quality of sleep your baby gets and this can be a major factor in the length or frequency your baby sleeps. Some suggestions and tips may seem obvious to some but may be a huge awakening for others(by awakened I mean enlightened, trust me your going to get more sleep!) Your baby's diet, sleeping situation and natural stages (among other things) can play a major factor in the length of sleep. Exploring all of your options as far as creating sleep associations is very helpful. Getting your baby on a regular routine makes them feel secure and safe helping them to sleep much better. If your baby has an allergy or food intolerance this can also effect the quality and length of time in which your baby sleeps. So read on, learn and get some rest! Feel free to share with us how some of these suggestions have helped you!

We know how you feel! 

So here we are! You really aren't alone, as you can see in this photo we are pretty tired especially my hubby just look at those poor eyes struggling to just be open! This is the first day or two home with our beautiful son. After the exhausting experience of birth and LONG 20 something hour labor length we were pretty pooped. As we became accustom to being new parents we learned that there were so many little things to do to help our little man sleep better, longer and more comfortably! So keep on reading as I share some tips with ya!:)

 

Create Routine & Bedtime Ambiance

Baby's love routine! It makes them feel safe and secure when they know what to expect next, this can make for a baby that sleeps great and is content during wake time hours. More on this below.

 

Build Sleep Associations

Create and Follow A Routine everyday and bedtime will become significantly easier. Your child will know that these cues mean bedtime is soon. Its very important to create a variety of sleep associations so your child doesn't become dependent on any one thing (Ex; being nursed to sleep every night). You will notice that not only does your baby sleep better but they are also less whinny and generally happier.

  • Dim Lights
  • Toy Cleanup
  • Warm bath
  • Good Nights To Everyone
  • A story or familiar song
  • A rock in the chair
  • Have your child get his/her teddy or blanket
  • Infant Massage

 

Beware Of Baby Trainers

Watch out for the "cry it out" sleep training. If this is done on too young a child this can lead to sleep anxiety causing not only problems for baby but you as well. When this method is used to young a baby learns to fear going to sleep and staying asleep. Your baby needs you to parent them to sleep not just simply put to sleep. Following this rigid "Cry It Out" plan especially, the first 6 months of life can be detrimental to not only the baby but to you as well. You lose the ability to learn your baby's cues and needs. You lose the ability to learn how to find a nighttime parenting style that fits you and your child. Baby loses the opportunity to build trust in his care giving environment. This may even cause you and your doctor to overlook a medical issue that may be going on.Why not value your own biological cues, your judgment, instead of following the message of someone who has no biological attachment, nor investment, in your infant?

 

Try Sounds


  • White Noise (Ex; Ceiling Fan, Vacuum, White Noise Machine, Air Purifier)
  • Soothing Music
  • Is it too quiet? Many people think that a babies need complete silence to sleep but think about the fact that our baby was in our womb for 9 months and the last thing it is in there is quiet! Babies like familiarity so a little sound may not be such a bad idea. Why not give it a try?
  • Okay its not a sound but its something to consider:
    Keep sunlight out: Babies seem to be a lot like roosters when that sun is up and shinning!

 

Swaddle For A Better Sleeper

When I was younger I didn't understand why they "straight jacketed" babies, LOL! Not to worry, I get it now and I am sharing what I have learned over the years about swaddling .
Swaddling your baby and doing it correctly may be your saving grace. Swaddling has many benefits and most babies sure do love it! Here you will begin to understand how swaddling can help baby sleep longer. .

  • Security: It recreates the hold of the womb making baby feel secure and at home.
  • Helps Jerk Reflex: Prevents baby from starting themselves with there jerky arm movements.
  • Warmth: Keeps baby nice and warm

Swaddle Time 

Books That Can Offer A Plether Of help 

Reading is knowledge

Books can offer a ton Of help but Finding the right book to support you can be a little overwhelming so below you will find some great suggestions on quality books that have helped many new parents out there. A good relaxing CD will benefit you and baby.

Sleep Solutions (The Calming Collection)

Amazon Price: $10.99 (as of 01/02/2010) Buy Now

The No-Cry Sleep Solution: Gentle Ways to Help Your Baby Sleep Through the Night

Amazon Price: $10.85 (as of 01/02/2010) Buy Now

Delta Sleep Solution: Sleepy Rain

Amazon Price: $10.99 (as of 01/02/2010) Buy Now

 

Check Baby's Sleeping Situation

Just a few ideas about your baby's sleeping situation

  • Are you co-sleeping? This may help if your not and trying to sleep seperate if you are may also be a solution. While most babies seem to like to sleep close to mum there still are the ones that like their space.
  • Is the bed to soft/hard?
  • Is baby too warm/cold?
  • Is baby in a crib or hammock style bed that recreates the womb?

Amby Baby Motion Bed 

Helping your baby sleep better, longer

Baby Hammock Motion Bed Set - Blue

Finally, a solution for your fussy baby! The Amby Baby Motion Bed helps babies and parents get the sleep they need with it's womb-like design and gentle motion that babies love. Endorsed by Dr. Sears, the Amby Baby beds are specially helpful for babies with reflux(GER), colic and even preemies.

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Baby Hammock Motion Bed Set -Natural

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Note to Self

GET ME AN AMBY BED!

More on Amby Bed 

Read More About Amby Baby's Features
Get your questions answered here and see how Amby can help you!

"Amby helped my Colicky daughter! Don't know what I would have done without it!
-Christina"

Hushamok A Modern 

More Of A Modern Stylish Look

Hushamok Experience Baby Hammock - Green

The next generation in baby furniture.

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hushamok%u2122 also guards against potentially serious health concerns that can arise during baby's sleep. The innovative design of hushamok%u2122 enables baby to sleep soundly on their backs, which is a key recommendation in the prevention of SIDs. hushamok%u2122 creates a restful and nurturing sleep environment, and is designed to reduce the incidence of flat head syndrome.

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The Knock Offs 

Save some $$ on a less known brand

MamaLittleHelper Baby Hammock Motion Bed Cradle - WHITE

* The SLEEP SOLUTION for babies!
* MamaLittleHelper helps your baby sleep & helps with reflux.
* MamaLittleHelper makes it affordable now to own a Baby Hammock, why pay more for the same?
* A sleepless night is like a year...
* When your baby is sleeping, SO ARE YOU!!!

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A little laughter goes a long way...

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    KristenFR KristenFR Oct 1, 2009 @ 9:55 pm
    This is so on-target! I would only differ in that many moms I know have found that the Ferber method of sleep training is really useful. And it isn't a "cry-it-out" method per se. You go in at ever-increasing intervals so you baby doesn't feel abandoned. I wrote up my own tips for helping babies sleep - I'd love some feedback http://www.squidoo.com/baby2sleep. It's my first try at this sort of thing and I gave it a lot of thought.
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    sandyspider sandyspider Aug 5, 2009 @ 1:50 am
    Great resource of information. Wish I had this when my daughter was a baby.
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    24websurf 24websurf May 3, 2009 @ 9:31 pm
    A wealth of info! Thank you!
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    NaturalMommys NaturalMommys May 3, 2009 @ 5:47 pm | in reply to ChineseKitesforKids
    funny you should say that because I have some things too add surrounding that, just as soon as I get a moment! Thanks for the great advice and feedback.
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    ChineseKitesforKids ChineseKitesforKids May 3, 2009 @ 10:48 am
    I agree with Evelyn, "you have to sleep when the baby sleeps" or prepare to be very tired and irriatable.
    On this same sleepy note I think you should add in something about babies sleeping with COLDS too. I have a three month old in my daycare who has been sick since he was born. Terrible cold, always congested and there are particular ways he has to sleep in order for him to breath. Just a suggestion. Lovely lens. Babies are so beautiful. Just precious gifts from God and when I see parents writing lenses to improve their lives (in any way) it's so touching to the soul. Thank you for this lens and thank you for caring about God's children.
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