Your Guide to Getting Your EX Back 75pg illustrated Guide

Table of Contents

Forward
Introduction
Relationships
Why you're here
You - and your Ex
Breaking up is hard to do
A few do's and don'ts
Clean up your act
Act normally
Keep your dignity
Keep a smile on your face
Do the unexpected
Try these two little words - I'm sorry
Don't make the same mistake twice
Don't act like a shrew
Don't be clingy
Be flexible
Go out with your friends and get some fresh air
Don't turn into the ex from hell
Don't beg - it's unseemly
Stay away from asking questions about your ex
Keep things simple - don't play the blame game
Don't use sex
Be honest
It's crunch time
Revenge isn't all it's cracked up to be
Who dumped whom?
If you were the dumper
If you were the dumpee
Be strong
Be positive about things
Don't get discouraged
Look for the silver lining
Fight for what you want
Have patience - it might take time
Use humor
What you want to do, and what you should do
Don't become a stalker
Don't give in to the urge to recriminate
Don't wail and rant and rave
Don't come on too strong
Don't become a doormat
Don't contact your ex's family for information
Don't hit on your ex's friends
Don't do a "Ross"
What you can do to get your ex back
Be yourself
Give your ex some breathing space
Hold your tongue
Pride has its place - learn where it goes
Classy begging
Strive for lightheartedness
Keep things on a friendly footing
Bring back happy memories, if at all
Touching memories
Make your ex feel special
Use everything you've got
Jealousy can work - sometimes
Start over, go back to the beginning
And if all else fails, try humble honesty
Try couples counseling
Sex - to use it or not
When to use sex
Remember the good times you used to have
Create a special bond with your ex
Show your ex what they're missing without you
Get your ex to share their troubles with you
Learn when to let go
What happens after you get back together
In conclusion

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Honesty, Integrity & Strength

In order to win back your ex, make sure to do so in a manner that is not harmful to you personally. We mentioned no drugs, no alcohol, etc - no vices. Now here are some other tips for you:

1) Be honest with your self and your situation. It takes two people to have a relationship, two people to fight. So note that you are not perfect.

2) Have some integrity as you work through your relationship and future issues. Give yourself credit for your past efforts and tasks well done. Don't be too hard on yourself.

3) Find inner strength to have patience and go on. Yet do not be a doormat.

4) Contacting your Ex's relatives to find out info isn't wise. Nothing personal, but relatives tend to stick together and this could make you feel worse unnecessarily.

5) Instead of ranting, raving and stalking follow that Golden Rule. Be kind and seek inner peace with what's bothering you. Get professional help, if you need to for understanding and dealing with complicated issues. There's no shame in getting help!

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Wants and Shoulds

Here are some helpful tips about what you should do or should not do, what you may want to do but maybe should do instead.

1) Even though you may want to now go out with the friend's or relatives of your Ex, don't! This is not wise, especially if you get back together with your Ex.

2) And even if your Ex went out on you, don't think you "should" do the same in return to get even. You may need a break or short time apart. Don't go sleeping around. Stay true to your self. Spend time with family or others but not in a sexual relationship at this time.

3) Exercise forgiveness and be kind while trying to resolve your relationship problems. Don't act like your mom or dad, or get all controlling. Take a time out, chill and problem solve in a positive, adult manner.

4) Add some humor to your days and recall happy memories, sharing them with your Ex, too. Take time outs for light comedies on TV, comics in the Sunday newspaper, etc. Lighten up the atmosphere.

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Take Action!

Here are some helpful tips about what you should do or should not do, what you may want to do but maybe should do instead.

1) Don't wait any longer. Get help as needed to deal with issues you've been facing with regards to your Ex. If you need self help books, check some out from the library. If you need professional help, get some. If you need group help, help facing jealousy issues, help from co-dependency like Al-Anon or Alcoholics Anon, get info online and get the help you need. Take charge and work on your own issues first. If something affects your Ex, learn about it NOW. You need to care about each other. Learn to grow or let it go.

2) Move if you need to. Get space. Give space. Take time to be apart, if necessary. Maybe you or your Ex is around the wrong crow. Get in the right one and don't be lazy. Move!

3) Move towards being friendly first, then back to a closer, loving relationship. You need to be friends first. So build by sending cards, asking how you can help, etc. Be a friend; make a friend.

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Letting Go

Let go with help from these tips:

1) Don't even think about the make-up sex stuff. You'll get caught up in games, not even be facing reality issues and end up feeling worse and used.

2) It's possible to split and be friends, so allow yourself the freedom to let go. If it's truly meant to be, you'll get back together.

3) Remember that when you let go - like letting a butterfly or anything beautiful and alive go - it can and does often return to you. The same thing happens with people. Love is letting go, as you do with children as they grow older and mature, so you can do with adults. Risk it: let and let live.

4) Just as you learn when to not fall into the same hole when you're walking around the block, don't fall into the same relationships. Learn from your mistakes, even those in your relationship, and move on to better places.

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Don't become a Stalker

Your intentions might be pure and your heart full of hope, but if you go around following your ex, trying to get an "audience" with them, some people will see this as harassment pure and simple, and you can even be branded as a stalker.

You need to be careful that your actions don't speak louder than words in this case, because if people mistake your sincere attempts to get back together with your ex again, for harassment, then you could be in jail and slapped with a restraining order faster than you can say, "Do not pass Go, do not collect $200!" (I've always wanted to say that!)

That aside, if you are still suffering from having broken up, and you want only to catch a glimpse of your ex to soothe your broken heart, please don't go around to their house every morning and lurk in the bushes waiting until your get that all important look at them first thing in the morning.

Besides being seriously creepy, it is also seriously disturbing to think that you need someone to such an extent that you can't do without even the sight of them first thing in the morning.

If this is case, then you might want to try therapy to help you get over your fascination with your ex, or you might just want to wake up with a picture of your ex on the table next to you.

Stay away from doing things that could brand you as a stalker and you will be better able to carry out a proper plan of trying to win your ex back.

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Hold your tongue

No, nothing kinky going on here! In this case, the saying "If you don't have anything to good to say about somebody, then say nothing at all" holds a lot of water.

If you have nothing good to say about your ex, and all that comes to your mind every time that you think about him/ her, are things that are unprintable, you need to keep your mouth shut.

If this is your reaction to breaking up, then you will more than likely say something that you don't mean to, something that can't be taken back.

Words spoken in anger can be more hurtful even if they aren't the truth, because they are chosen with precision to do the most damage possible. So hold your tongue if ever you feel like saying something that is unkind.

Chances are that you will regret it almost as soon as you say it, and at that point I'm afraid there is no going back on them. You will need to do more than a quick two-step in order to get back in the good graces of your ex.

Actually, it is best to keep whatever nasty remark you are feeling, inside you, regardless of whether you want to get back together with your ex or not.

Part on a friendly footing if you can, no hard feelings. This is really the best solution if you can manage it.

And if you feel the urge to verbally hurt your ex in any way at all, then you might want to keep away from him/ her. Otherwise you will surely find yourself succumbing sooner or later to all the hatred within you.

You might even want to seek counseling to help you resolve your feelings if they continue unabated for too long.

This type of attitude can even become self destructive and without anyone or anything handy on which to inflict your hatred you might find that you are directing it towards yourself instead.

Before we wrap up this section, I would also just like to say that if your thoughts every time you see ex are along these lines, where you want to spit in their eye or tell them what you really think of them, then you might also want to reconsider your decision to try and get back together with your ex.

There are obviously some very strong negative feelings here and until your resolve them, you might not want to go back into the same relationship.

So hold your tongue and say only good things about your ex if want to. Or better yet, say nothing at all. In this way, you not only keep from hurting yourself and your ex with your angry words, but you also preserve your dignity.

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