How to Get Your Ex To Return Your Call!

Hello...

My name is Dink. I write this with a simple message. If there's one thing that happens to all of us...it's a break-up.

Break-ups happen for a variety of reasons. Sometimes we just don't get along with our sweeties, or other problems may arise. However, the love and passion really never go away, and I can show you some tips on how to get your ex to call you. Chances are, he/she may be sitting by the phone too, you know. :-)

I've been asked by countless people: "Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?"

I know all of this sounds hard to believe, but there ARE words you can say to him/her that will all but cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call! Sounds pretty cool huh?...

Well, I want to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get from people just like you that are trying to put their relationships back together. To say nothing of the fact that I, too, have been there and know what it feels like. So I will give you a simple answer to a simple question..."How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"

In the Magic Of Making Up, there is a complete strategy laid out for you, to help you along. I will warn you, if you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call...or WORSE. So I will elaborate a little more.

Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works, and worse...puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.

These things usually fall into 2 categories....let me explain.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like: "Jim, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

And the EMERGENCY- "Holly, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."

I assume you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?

If you answered yes, there is no need for me go on and on...but I must say one thing...

It's no big secret that two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are Curiosity & Self Interest.

And here's the BIG SECRET! When you put the two together, you have a recipe that WILL work wonders...it will work 'magic'!

So...Let's look at what you can say to your ex that works nearly EVERY TIME. It's worked for me, and I know it can work for you as well!

In a friendly tone:

"Hi Jim. It's Holly. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."

Do you see how Holly uses BOTH curiosity and self interest when she calls? Jim will NOT be able to resist! Right away, the gears in Jim's head start grinding: "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now...

Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. I know you can do it. It can be any small thing in the world...a dinner, a gift, a very special time you spent together...but it needs to be plausible.

But more importantly...AND I STRESS THIS! Please have an underlying strategy like the one laid out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call. If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.

You see what I'm saying, friends?

All I am trying to tell you is...How you conduct yourself before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call. Does that make good sense or what?

Do the right thing...Have a PLAN! Here are some more things you can try to your advantage!

Best Wishes,
Dink