How To Get Your Girlfriend Back

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Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back

If you've recently been dumped by your girlfriend, following the below advice will dramatically increase the odds you actually get her back. It's not 100%, but it's the best chance you've got.

Start Dating Other Women 

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This page is about getting your girlfriend back and I'm telling you to date other women... There is method to my madness I assure you. Read on!

Date other women immediately after your break-up. Ask that cute girl in accounting out. Whatever. Just make sure you do not sulk around all day thinking you'll never get another girl like your ex. You can and you will. It is important that you maintain that attitude.

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Jealousy is Your Best Friend When Getting Your Girlfriend Back 

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The reason you are dating other women is to show that you can easily move on. It is to demonstrate that you do not need her. Women are genetically programmed to seek out high value men who do not actually need them. This is considered being "needy" and it is very unattractive to women.

When you're out on a date, make sure to make it known.

* If you use an instant messaging program, make your away name "on a date".

* If you use Facebook or MySpace, do the same.

* Casually mention to one of her friends that you're going on a date.

If you can't manage to actually land a date, then fake it if you have to. If you absolutely must, pretend you're on a date.

WARNING: Do not brag or make it obvious that you're doing this to make your girlfriend jealous. Read that sentence over again if you must. You need to allude to your dating activities in a not so obvious way. Almost as though you don't even want her knowing you're out dating but it just slipped up.

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If Your Ex Girlfriend Contacts You 

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If she is the one to make contact with you via phone or instant messenger (very probable if you are following the above advice) do not get overly excited and try to win her back with words. Words never work.

What I want you to do, is end the conversation first. Make small talk with her and don't be an all out asshole to her. Talk for a few minutes about what's new in your life (don't brag about anything!) and then casually say:

"Ah, she's here. I have to take off but I'll give you a call back later".

Then you don't call her back. Notice how you alluded to going out on a date as opposed to all out saying "well I'm going on a date with another girl". That would just come across as though you were trying to make her jealous and she probably wouldn't believe you to begin with.

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After Three Weeks 

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When you reach the three week mark, it's very likely she will have either already contacted you, or will be ready to be contacted by you.

Simply call her up and say you think you should both hang out. Don't forget to remain cool and collected about everything. At this point, she will more than likely be acting very flirtatious. If she is, you're IN.

Just remain cool, calm and collected, and let things naturally work themselves out from that point on.

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Why She Broke Up With You 

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In order to get your girlfriend back, you must first come to understand why she broke up with you in the first place. If you actually do get her back, this information will be critical to keeping her.

You see, men are primarily attracted to a womens physical appearance. When she is no longer beautiful, the attraction fades. Women on the other hand are primarily attracted to a mans behavior. He must behave in an masculine manner in order to keep attraction levels high. I would venture to guess that your girlfriend was slowly becoming more and more dominant, while you were becoming more and more submissive.

First of all, you need to adopt the traits of a masculine man:

#1. Leader

#2. Self-Assured

#3. Decisive

#4. Self-Controlled

These are but the main traits. Adopt them and make them part of your personality.

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Success Story #1 

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Hey Matt!

I went ahead and downloaded the eBook you recommended. It contained really "aha" information and helped me get my ex back. I really worked at it and it paid off dramatically. So much of the stuff you teach is counter-intuitive; yet it works so damn well.

Keep up the awesome work Matt!
Thank You!

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Success Story #2 

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Awesome eBook Matt. I really enjoyed enjoyed it. After following the
step by step system you teach, my ex girlfriend came crawling back, just like you said she would. Female psychology is so weired!

-Mike

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Success Story #3 

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Hey, I really liked the books matt. The techniques you teach are awesome and yet so counter intuitive. I felt like such an IDIOT after reading it. I was literally doing everything wrong! Now, she's begging for my attention again.

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