My Grandmother Turns 100
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My 100th Lens
My 100th lens is dedicated to my grandmother, who is 100 years old
on October 11, 2009.
Callie Perna Penland Stewart

Grannie, about age 80
Grannie - Early Years
Unassailable family legend has it that Grannie's great-grandmother was a Cherokee.
She married at age 16, had a baby at 17, and was widowed by age 19 when her husband caught scarlet fever. With Hazel, her two-year-old daughter, in tow, she caught the eye of two brothers: Charlie and Clarence Stewart. Strong, silent Clarence won out over his elder brother, outgoing Charlie. Clarence and Callie eloped and came home married, to everyone's surprise. She was 21; he was 19 - nearly scandalous at the time!My grandfather Clarence and my great-uncle Charlie. Clarence is the skinny, squinty one on the right.

Clarence and Callie, shortly after their wedding.
Clarence and Charlie lived on the family homestead outside Boerne, Texas, and worked together as cedar choppers and charcoal burners. Cedar burned while green does not reduce to fine ash, but to a hard char which can be shaped into charcoal briquettes. The cedar is placed in a deep pit and covered with earth to seal out air, and burned over two to three days, carefully tended.

Clarence (left) and Charlie preparing a cedar burn.
Callie and Clarence moved into a home on the family spread with Hazel, Callie's two-year-old daughter. Charlie soon had a wife, Lilly, and they moved into their own home on the land; and Hazel soon had a baby brother, Herbert.

[back] Clarence & Callie, Charlie & Lilly,
[front] my great-grandparents George Washington "Babe" Stewart and Laura Mertz Stewart holding my aunt Hazel and my uncle Herbert.
The well-stocked root cellar is to the left.
More babies came along until there were five: Hazel, Herbert, Annie Laura, Travis, and Mary Lou. Their fourth child, Travis, is my father. It never occured to me until I was grown that his name "Travis" was wildly out of step with his siblings' very plain names of Hazel, Herb, Ann, and Mary. I discovered that my uncle Herb, six at the time, was given the privilege of choosing a name for his baby brother. He chose to name him after Colonel Travis of the Alamo.

Grannie's five children: my dad Travis in front blocking his brother Herbert, Hazel with puppy, and Ann holding Mary.
This is my great-grandmother Laura with two of her other grandchildren, Charlie's kids Violet and Bill.I include it here because of the interesting fact that my great-aunt Lilly was very ill after Violet was born, and was unable to nurse the baby. Violet and my father Travis were born within a few days of each other, so several times a day Charlie would carry Violet down the hill to my grandmother who nursed Violet along with her own baby, Travis.
My great-grandmother assisted as a granny-midwife at the births of most of her grandchildren. Callie also helped her friends and family as a granny-midwife, and all of her own children were born at home. In fact, my father was born in the same house, in the same room, in the same bed that his father was born in.
Though Grannie had only an 8th-grade education, and my grandfather went to school for only three or four years, they were very proud of the fact that all five of their children graduated from high school, and four of them also graduated from college. The collegial exception was the oldest, Hazel, who married at 17. Her first child, Shirley, is only a few years younger than her own youngest sister, Mary. My cousin Shirley's first child is my age.

Grannie holding her first grandchild, Shirley;
with her two youngest children Travis and Mary.
Descendants
Paw and Grannie have
five children,
fifteen grandchildren,
and more than 100
great-, great-great,
and great-great-great
grandchildren.
Grannie's Mother

Rhoda Cupps Penland on her 76th birthday in 1949.
All of my great-grandmothers lived into their 90s,
and I was privileged to know each of them.
Has Anyone in Your Family Reached 100?
Grannie's Sons

I just had to include this picture of my dreamboat Uncle Herb with his rascally looking Tom Sawyer-like younger brother - my father. Pretty sure he's sticking out his tongue.
Psalm 100
Shout for joy to the LORD, all the earth. Worship the LORD with gladness; come before him with joyful songs.
Know that the LORD is God. It is he who made us, and we are his; we are his people, the sheep of his pasture.
Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name.
For the LORD is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations.
Grannie - Later Years

Paw and Granny in 1976,
with my older sister Laura on the horse.
My grandparents continued to live on lots of acreage (though not the original family homestead) and had a hard-working life. Not to gross anyone out too much, but for all of my life until just a few years ago, my grandparents and my dad (later just my dad and grandmother) ran a day hunting business on 1,500 acres, so I grew up seeing sights like this one. Because they drove each hunter to a blind to sit and hunt rather than letting them walk around freely, they never had any accidents in all those years.

My brother Brady in the snazzy plaid pants, my grandparents with a buck, a friend, and my sister on the horse.
Visiting the ranch was always a high point. Why, I could get bitten by geese, chased by javelinas, have my hand stepped on by a horse, or be trampled by an entire herd of sheep! But not all in one visit of course. Yes, all those things really did happen to me, but I still loved going to the ranch. The sheep mostly jumped over me, and the javelina was a half-tame one caught by my much older boy cousins, and if I had only stopped running it would have stopped chasing me ... but when you're three, that kind of logic just doesn't work.

Jenny the donkey carrying my sister Laura,
me in the middle, and my brother Brady.
I learned to sew at my grandmother's house. When she knew I was coming, Grannie always would have my absolute favorite baked beans - she was a wonderful cook! And, though she has pretty much quit cooking altogether in these later years, she still makes the most incredible biscuits I've ever eaten. Sheer heaven! (And yes, I am trying to get the recipe to post here!)

Grannie in 1985 at my wedding, with my younger brother.

Grannie in 1995 with my first baby.
My grandfather died at age 79, and by this time my grandparents were living in "town" but still had their 1,500-acre hunting lease. I say "town" in quotation marks because Reagan Wells is 20 houses in a spot on a road that goes up into the foothills and nowhere after that. But at least they had some neighbors!
Grannie lives in that house still, although as she became more frail, one of her three children who lived near or occasionally a grown grandchild would move in with her for a while to help out (though she still lived on her own - by her choice! - for long stretches until she was past 90). My father lived with her for several years after my mother died, and now she and my youngest aunt, Mary, live together on a permanent basis.
Grannie still gets around, sometimes with a cane. She had a mild stroke earlier this year and there was some concern that her 100th birthday would be a remembrance rather than a birthday party, but when her daughter told her it was three months until her birthday, she responded cheerfully, "Oh, I can make it that long!"
What's the Secret?
Who knows what the secret is to getting to 100? My dad and I joke that for Grannie, it's because
she's always "doing better."
Whenever we call and ask how
she is, her invariable answer is,
"Oh, I'm doing better!"
"Better than what" is a moot
question, but we know
Grannie is always doing better!
Callie Perna Penland Stewart

Grannie in 2006, age 96.
Birthday Pictures Soon!
I'l be going to Texas to celebrate my grandmother's 100th birthday in a couple of weeks. As soon as I get back, I'll post pictures here!
Leave Your Birthday Wishes Here!

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- Anthony Simms Anthony Simms Nov 5, 2009 @ 8:16 pm
- Very Rare to see that, I liked the photo gallery throughout the lens.
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- kim lim kim lim Oct 13, 2009 @ 4:09 pm
- wow, a wonderful memories :-)
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- maryannk maryannk Oct 9, 2009 @ 9:48 am
- Wonderful, Carma! Has your grandmother seen it yet? Lucky lady. :-)
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- tagsforkids tagsforkids Oct 9, 2009 @ 6:22 am
- A wonderful lens, and big birthday wishes to Grannie. My Grannie turns 96 next month and looking good to make the century mark herself. I hope I can write a tribute as touching!
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- Heather426 Heather426 Oct 7, 2009 @ 7:34 pm
- Such a sweet tribute lens! Family lenses like this make me cry. Very well done, I love it!
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- aerie aerie Oct 6, 2009 @ 10:14 pm
- awww, what a sweet tribute! Happy birthday, Grannie!
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- WindyWinters WindyWinters Oct 6, 2009 @ 12:09 am
- Happy 100th Birthday to your Grannie! Congratulations on your much deserved Purple Star! :)
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- puzzlemaker puzzlemaker Oct 1, 2009 @ 5:39 pm
- Happy happy birthday to Grannie. Thank you for sharing your family memories. I love the humor thrown in too. Have a wonderful trip. Today is Oct. 1 so it won't be long!
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- drifter0658 drifter0658 Sep 30, 2009 @ 7:20 am
- Spectacular! I loved the whole story. Not a better 100th lens or birthday tribute to be found.
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- GrowWear GrowWear Sep 29, 2009 @ 11:54 pm
- Beautiful lens. Happy 100th birthday to Miss Callie.
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