Grooms Speeches - Say the Right Words at the Right Time!

You have the small matter of your wedding to plan - which involves: booking the service, booking the venue, organizing seating arrangements, organizing catering, organizing transport, organizing photography or videoing, organizing flowers, sending out invites, buying your wedding outfit, buying your wedding rings.

You also have to choose key people to take part in your wedding, such as a best man, a maid of honor, bridesmaids etc.

You may also have a honeymoon to arrange - which involves finding and booking a holiday, arranging transport, and buying new clothing. If you plan on holidaying in another country this may also extend to include: checking passport validity or obtaining new ones, arranging travel insurance, exchanging currency, and arranging car hire and insurance.

You may also have certain lifestyle changes to arrange such as moving home, arranging a mortgage, notifying people of change of address and telephone number, changing banking and payment details, the list really does go on!

In amongst all of this organized (hopefully) mayhem, there will come a moment of panic when you are reading your checklist of 'wedding things to do' and you come across those two dreaded words Grooms Speeches.

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Notwithstanding all of the above demands and pressures placed on you the poor groom, grooms speeches are seen as the most important speech of the entire wedding. More important even than father of the brides' speeches or best mans speeches.

The father of the bride's speech usually consists of telling the audience that his daughter has married a fine and upstanding man. The best man's speech is usually light hearted and laced with anecdotes and stories aimed at causing maximum embarrassment to you the groom.

In terms of entertainment value your grooms speech should ideally fall somewhere between the father of the brides' more serious speech and the best man's more humorous speech. It needs to be functional and sincere with just the right amount of humor.

This is a delicate balance to achieve, and why your speech is the hardest to both write and to deliver, and because of this grooms speeches always require a certain amount of pre-planning and rehearsing. The earlier you can start working on this the better, as it will give you more time to jot down material that you can later use.

Grooms speeches are pivotal to the success and enjoyment of the day. You've sweated blood for this occasion so it would be criminal to let the other speech makers steal the day, it is your day after all. A good grooms speech will put you in a good light in the eyes of your new bride, which can't be bad news for the wedding night!!!

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Speaking in front of a large group of people can be a daunting task at the best of times, but it's made even worse because you have very little time to plan for your grooms speech as there is so much else happening in your life at the same time.

Professional speech writers and speech makers generally consider wedding crowds to be one of the most difficult audiences around due to their huge diversity. They consist of different age groups, different sexes, different religions, and can all be at different stages of inebriation!

In addition the audience will usually consist of different social groups from both the bride's side and the groom's side. There will usually be immediate family, more distant family, close friends, acquaintances, work colleagues, and possibly neighbors.

The bringing together of all of these various social groups from both the bride's side and the groom's side invariably means that many people do not know each other, or really have that much in common with each other, apart from an acquaintance with the happy couple. One thing that does unite every audience member is that every single one of them is highly significant to the bride or to the groom or to both.

Given all of this is it any wonder that the writing and presenting of grooms speeches is almost universally dreaded by grooms everywhere, so fear not as you are in good company!

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The wedding ceremony is over, you are at the reception venue, the father of the bride has given his speech, and now it's your turn. Take a deep breath .......

Remember that although it is known as a grooms speech, you are actually making the speech on behalf of yourself and your new wife, so it is good practice to start and end the speech by referring to 'my wife and I'.

You need to personally thank both sets of parents, and all of the people who were involved in the wedding preparations. You also need to give thanks and gifts to the best man, the maid of honor, and the rest of the bridal party. Also thank all of your guests who have come along to help you and your new bride to celebrate the start of your married life together.

You should then acknowledge your new father-in-law's speech, and promise to take on board his points and comments. However unless you can see his speech beforehand you are going to have to ad-lib this part. Use this part of your speech to prove to your father-in-law that you really do care about his daughter and you will look after her.

This leads you in nicely to talking about how you first met your wife, what experiences you shared together, and what made you decide that this person was so special that you wanted to spend the rest of your life with her.

Mention how beautiful your new wife looks today, but for goodness sake look at her when you say this, and don't appear to be reading it from your speech! Tell her how exited you are about starting a new life together, and how much you are looking forward to a happy life together.

You could end your grooms speech with a gentle and humorous dig at the best man, after all it's his turn to give a speech next and he'll almost certainly have a pop at you, so you may has well get in first. Finish by inviting the best man to give his speech, and ask him to go easy on you (he won't!).

There. Your bit's now over. Relax.

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Well I hope you have enjoyed reading my tips on grooms speeches, and I hope you have found at least some of it useful.

If reading the above has made you think that making a really good grooms speech is child's play you really need to think again, as there is so much you can do wrong that will turn your speech into an absolute disaster.

If you are like most men you have had difficulty expressing your feelings to your loved one. Now, in front of a room full of people you are expected to express your love and devotion to your new bride. It's not easy, there are so many things going against you.

You have enough on your plate organizing the wedding, the reception, the honeymoon, and the rest of your life together. You are probably not a professional speech writer or speaker. You need to overcome your nervousness in speaking before a large audience. You need to reveal your heartfelt emotions to your family and friends. You need to be humorous without being offensive. You need help.

I had been a guest at many friends' weddings before it came around to my turn. I saw some really good grooms speeches, and some really bad ones that left the audience cringing. I even saw someone walking out during one. So when it came to my own wedding I knew I had to get my grooms speech right.

I scoured the internet for information on how to write a good grooms speech and found some useful stuff, but much of it was superficial rubbish frankly. I also purchased a few books via the internet, these were slightly better, but there was not one source that had all of the information I was looking for.

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I wanted to see a selection of professionally written grooms speeches, with loads of funny and poignant toasts. I wanted the speeches to be written so that I could easily individualize them for my own purposes, by just insetting the appropriate names and places. I wanted a speech that is guaranteed to evoke emotion and have everyone in stitches for several minutes.

I also wanted to know how to use to use humor to the best possible effect, plus a selection of one-liners and funny quotes that would have everyone falling out of their seats with laughter.

I wanted all the speech material needed to deliver a knockout, one-of-a-kind speech that'll have everyone reminiscing for days afterwards. Not only that, but I also wanted all of the information that I needed to write a complete speech from scratch should I wish to.

And if all of that wasn't enough of a tall order, I also wanted detailed information and practical tips on how to overcome stage fright and public-speaking fears, and information on planning and preparing adequately for the speech so that I could pull it off flawlessly and with the absolute minimum of pre-speech making nerves.

And most of all I wanted to download it now so I could start using it straight away. Hey I'm a busy man; I've got a wedding to organize.

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I did eventually find a book that met all of my demands, and much, much more. It is the best grooms speeches book that I could find, and it was the one that I used for my own grooms speech, which was a roaring success. If you are looking for one source which has all of the information you require, this is it. I recommended it to a few of my close friends and they have all thanked me for it.

The book is called 'Groom Speeches - Say the Right Words at the Right Time', by Dan Stevens. This book is available as an instant downloadable eBook or as a traditional printed book.

'Groom Speeches - Say the Right Words at the Right Time' contains 20 professionally written sample speeches and step-by-step tips and techniques for writing a memorable wedding speech guaranteed to make the bride and guests proud.

The main book also comes complete with three free useful bonuses: an audio program on Unstoppable Confidence, a Stress Busters ebook, and a Bachelor Party ideas eBook. But there is one final bonus which to me was the absolute clincher, and that is a free email consultation with the author Dan Stevens to iron out any issues that you may have with your speech!

When you go to buy 'Groom Speeches - Say the Right Words at the Right Time', by Dan Stevens you are offered an additional eBook which contains an additional 10 grooms speeches. I strongly recommend that you consider purchasing this upgrade, as that is where I found the grooms speech for my wedding.

I can honestly say, hand on heart, that I really cannot recommend it highly enough. But if you have any lingering doubts consider this, Dan is guaranteeing that these will be simply the best grooms speeches that you can buy on the internet. If they don't measure up in any way, shape or form then Dan is offering a 60-day 100% refund guarantee, so you really don't have anything to lose.

Get the book, it really is worth it. You have my word on it. To check out 'Groom Speeches - Say the Right Words at the Right Time', by Dan Stevens simply click on the link below.

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