Men's Feelings are not Always Immediate:(

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Have You Been Betrayed by a Guy?

Certainly betrayal and abandonment is the most difficult and hurtful of all emotions. If you have been betrayed by a man then certainly you know that this is a long term hurt. But you can take some solace in the truth that young men do not always act in their best interests and often throw away things in their lives that are good for them, that are important to them. Only later do they realize what they have lost.

Are Men Stupid? 

Are Men Stupid?

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Yes

monarch13 says:

After years of dating jerks (present company excluded, I am sure) They are not necessarily stupid, just insensitive and callous.

No

Tammylove says:

Men are no more "Stupid" than women... there are many cold blooded, heart breaking, "stupid" women too. The difference is most women have been conditioned to share their feelings or express them and it's okay! As to where most men have been conditioned to "suck it up and be a MAN". Therefore, men tend to ignore, or overlook the emotional aspect of things (and some run away as fast as they can when things get emotional) and women just think their man doesn't care or doesn't love her. We all need to learn and accept that no matter how wonderful or how terrible or mate is... no one but no one can or ever will be "perfect" and no one can nor ever will give you the happiness your seeking... in order to be happy with someone else or to love someone else you have to be happy with yourself... you have to love yourself. A relationship is suppose to complement you not complete you! But most of us seem to have that backwards!

OhMe says:

No, men are not stupid but I think they tend to protect their emotions.

JanaMurray says:

Men are even more complex than women, in my opinion..

 

Men's Feelings Don't Surface Right Away! 

mens feelings are not always immediate

Feelings are not necessarily the guide for men's actions. Young men don't know what they have lost, sometimes until years afterward!! Many men act against their own interests in breaking off relationships. They either chicken out of committment, or they give up too easily. Many times the advice given by the poster above becomes BAD ADVICE.

Breaking off a real and loving relationship for a man becomes the real train wreck not just for the woman, but for the man as well. Regrets will come, but maybe not right away. But they will come. This is the bottom line, young men feel they are invincible emotionally, but they are not. It can come back to haunt them in future years. That is small consolation for the woman however.

If you break off a relationship that is good for you emotionally, I have learned that you need time to heal and the deeper the love the longer it takes. Some relationship never completely heal. You just go forward.

If you want to fight for your relationship you may want to take the advice here but if you think all is lost there are some fun things to get your mind off your situation. Just scroll down!

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Lets Hear From You! 

Do You Women Trust Men's Feelings?

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Yes

JaguarJulie says:

I think guys are sometimes very analytical and scientific in their feelings -- at least that's what my hubby keeps telling me.

Tammylove says:

As with everything it depends on the person. My husband is correct about the "character" of another 99% of the time.

OhMe says:

Most of the time I think so

JanaMurray says:

If I take the time to really listen.

No

monarch13 says:

Men have feelings? Or do they just pretend to, to get what they want?

Wow, do I need a good guy! :)

 

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