Men's Feelings are not Always Immediate:(
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monarch13 says:
After years of dating jerks (present company excluded, I am sure) They are not necessarily stupid, just insensitive and callous.
Posted November 27, 2008
No
Tammylove says:
Men are no more "Stupid" than women... there are many cold blooded, heart breaking, "stupid" women too. The difference is most women have been conditioned to share their feelings or express them and it's okay! As to where most men have been conditioned to "suck it up and be a MAN". Therefore, men tend to ignore, or overlook the emotional aspect of things (and some run away as fast as they can when things get emotional) and women just think their man doesn't care or doesn't love her. We all need to learn and accept that no matter how wonderful or how terrible or mate is... no one but no one can or ever will be "perfect" and no one can nor ever will give you the happiness your seeking... in order to be happy with someone else or to love someone else you have to be happy with yourself... you have to love yourself. A relationship is suppose to complement you not complete you! But most of us seem to have that backwards!
Posted November 29, 2008
OhMe says:
No, men are not stupid but I think they tend to protect their emotions.
Posted November 23, 2008
Men's Feelings Don't Surface Right Away!
Feelings are not necessarily the guide for men's actions. Young men don't know what they have lost, sometimes until years afterward!! Many men act against their own interests in breaking off relationships. They either chicken out of committment, or they give up too easily. Many times the advice given by the poster above becomes BAD ADVICE.
Breaking off a real and loving relationship for a man becomes the real train wreck not just for the woman, but for the man as well. Regrets will come, but maybe not right away. But they will come. This is the bottom line, young men feel they are invincible emotionally, but they are not. It can come back to haunt them in future years. That is small consolation for the woman however.
If you break off a relationship that is good for you emotionally, I have learned that you need time to heal and the deeper the love the longer it takes. Some relationship never completely heal. You just go forward.
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JaguarJulie says:
I think guys are sometimes very analytical and scientific in their feelings -- at least that's what my hubby keeps telling me.
Posted July 26, 2009
Tammylove says:
As with everything it depends on the person. My husband is correct about the "character" of another 99% of the time.
Posted November 29, 2008
No
monarch13 says:
Men have feelings? Or do they just pretend to, to get what they want?
Wow, do I need a good guy! :)
Posted November 27, 2008
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TheMagicOfMakingUp
Aug 3, 2009 @ 4:54 am | delete
- Wow, what a unique lens.
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Rewards4life
Apr 26, 2009 @ 10:15 am | delete
- Interesting, I feel I am in tune with my feelings but I try to draw and learn from my life experiences, not everyone does. But surely it's good that we are all different or we would all find who we are looking for a lot sooner and not appriciate it when it happens?
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OhMe
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- Interesting lens.
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