A Brief Lesson on Being a Gentleman, Part One
Source: http://www.currensnet.com/ladies/et_genrl.htm
- To be a gentleman one must walk like a gentleman. A shallow or impudent brain will show in his heel.
- Always conform your conduct as near as possible to the company with whom you are associated, even if this be difficult.
- When accompanying a lady into a public place, proceed her through the room and prepare seats for her.
- Never allow a lady to get a chair, ring a bell, pick up something dropped - in short, never let her perform any service for herself which you can perform for her while in the room.
- Always remove your hat when entering a room. A gentleman never leaves his hat on in a room, even if alone, unless there is no place for him to put his hat.
- Never sit while a lady is standing, without offering to find her a chair. If you take a lady to an opera or the theater, remain with her, seated and do not talk during the performance.
- If you are not with a lady, offer a lady your seat if there is none available, even if it is the best seat in the house.
- It is preferable to find a lady another seat if available, rather than offering her the seat in which you have been sitting, and is still warm.
Hats for the Gents
Canvas Fedora Hat / Black
$12.99 Made of 100% Cotton. One size fits most (up to 7 1/8). Crown measures 4 inches Deep, 2 inches Wide Brim. Stiff, Thick Material. Hand Wash only. Imported.
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Derby Hat
$34.99 This is a classic wool felt derby hat. This hat is very close to the Derby Hat Heavyweight, but it doesn't have the same strength around the rim. Great for hat manipulation, and very attractive. Includes removable feather.
Wool Blend Newsboy Cap / Brown
$14.99 This brown cap features a 2 performed bill with a snap button to achieve just the look you desire. With an adjustable tab hidden within the hats lining, this hat ensures the perfect fit no matter who you are
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Jaxon 19th Century Top Hat
$69.00 Beautifully made, this classic wool felt hat has a 6" high crown that gently tapers outward. The brim is 2" wide and curls in "just a tad." The tone trim is a 2" wide grosgrain ribbon ending in a sidebow. The edge of the brim is bound with the same grosgrain ribbon finishing the brim with an elegant touch.
A Brief Lesson in Being a Gentleman, Part Two
Source: http://www.currensnet.com/ladies/et_genrl.htm
- If you wish to meet someone in a room make it look like an accident, don't let them see you searching them out.
- Do not cross a room in an anxious manner.
- Never lose one's temper.
- If one is asked to play an instrument or sing either say yes or no, but do not wait for others to beg you.
- Never smoke in the presence of a lady, even if she does say it's okay. Never smoke in a parlor, as it leaves an odor offensive to everyone else.
- Guard against excess in drink and smoke.
- It is impolite to spit in public or around ladies.
- Never ridicule.
Waistcoats
Men's Black Patterned Italian Design Dress Vest Neck/Bow Tie Set for Suit or Tuxedo
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Men's Burgundy/Wine Italian Design Dress Vest Neck/Bow Tie Set for Suit or Tuxedo
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Men's Brown Paisley Design Dress Vest and NeckTie Set for Suit or Tuxedo
$19.95 Brand New Vesuvio Napoli Brand Designed in Italy Vest and NeckTie Set. Men's Dress or Tuxedo Vest with Neck Tie Same Color Made From The Same Material For a Perfect Match with belted adjustable back for a perfect fit.
Men's Gold Italian Design Dress Vest Neck/Bow Tie Set for Suit or Tuxedo
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Men's BLACK Dress Vest and NeckTie Set for Suit or Tuxedo
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A Brief Lesson in being a Gentleman, Part Three
Source: http://www.currensnet.com/ladies/et_genrl.htm
- Never talk religion.
- It is impolite to frequently consult your watch.
- Never read in the company of another, but one can look at someone's sketches or engravings.
- Showing affection is brazen vulgarity.
- Never command anyone to do anything. A gentleman always requests.
- Don't "buttonhole" a person into a conversation. Don't kick them into a table or give dirty gestures across the room. This is impolite.
- Don't talk of other's failures.
- Don't talk of anyone if all of the listeners there do not know the person.
Walking Sticks
Cane Sword
$8.99 A hidden weapon in an innocent looking cane... Pull the handle out of the cane to reveal a sword! This plastic toy weapon comes in three pieces, some basic assembly required. Measures approximately 37.5" when fully assembled, sword portion approximately 21" long. Cane is two pieces, and sword hits inside top section of cane and appears to be the cane handle.
Howling Wolf Stainless Steel Action Blade Cane
$24.99 This 36" walking cane offers the elegance and durability one demands from their cane. But, not only does this look like a century old gents cane, this new innovation offers a hidden dagger that pops out at the press of a button! The cast metal head is smothered in unique knotwork designs and comfortably fits in your palm. The wolf head in the center is designed to pop up at the simple twist and push motion on your fingertips and presto! You now are holding a 20 1/4" stainless steel dagger, ready for action.
Stainless Steel Skull Walking Sword Cane
$19.99 The Stainless Steel Skull Walking Sword Cane is a fully functional walking cane equipped with a 15 3/8" stainless steel blade for added protection during those late night strolls. The handle and shaft are both aluminum construction with a classic black finish and accented with cast metal skull head grip and throat. Includes contoured tip for ease balance. 35 1/4" overall
A Brief Lesson in Being a Gentleman, Part Four
Source: http://www.currensnet.com/ladies/et_genrl.htm
- Never sit in the chair of the lady or gentleman of the house, even if they are not in the room.
- Never use another's snuff box, unless offered.
- Don't lean your head against the wall. You will either ruin the paper or you'll get lime in your hair.
- Don't touch any ornaments in anyone's home that you visit.
- In the company of an inferior, never let him feel inferior. If you invite someone of an inferior class, such as an employee, treat him as you would any other member present.
- Never break an engagement, be it business or social, especially with a lady.
Footwear
What completes an outfit like a good pair of boots or shoes. With these items, I decided to put the "punk" back into Steampunk a bit. Make sure to check the eBay stores for your size as these items are sized for yours truly.
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Source: http://www.currensnet.com/ladies/et_genrl.htm
- In England and in America, the custom usually prevails that the party holding a letter of introduction never takes it himself to the party whom it is addressed, but sends it with his card of address, unless the letter he has is addressed to one many years his senior, or whose aid he seeks in some enterprise, then he may take it himself.
- When a gentleman bearing a letter of introduction leaves his card, you should call or send him a note as early as possible.
- A letter of introduction should be carefully worded with as few words as possible about the individual. It is sufficient to say that he is a friend of yours, whom you trust, who you would receive with attention. It is best to leave this letter unsealed.
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Metrokane Houdini Stainless Steel Pocket Flask with Faux Leather Cover, Black
$14.99 Slim, sophisticated hip flask holds 6 ounces.
Coleman Silvertone Pocket Watch
$19.99 There's nothing quite as elegant as slipping a shiny silver-color watch out of your pocket to check the time.
Steiner Leather Apron - Model# 92165
$24.49 Protective welding gear from Steiner Industries. Lightweight, durable heavy-duty protection against sparks and splatter.
Men's UltrathinTM Cabretta unlined leather gloves By Damascus Gloves (Many colors)
$36.95 Our best selling glove, the Ultra-Thin has become a law enforcement standard. So thin and tactile that you can write, search, handle firearms, and even pick up a dime. These gloves are what you'd expect from a high performance patrol glove. 5 colors
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I love your lessons on being a gentleman and I certainly hope a huge number of men read it!!! Seriously, this is a lovely lens and full of ideas to get that punk into steampunk 5*
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