When college parents will not let go.
Photo Credit: Augsburg College Parent Association website
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Helicopter parents seem to have a lot of energy to manage their adult students' lives at college.I bet that college's parent association would appreciate some of that energy. From what I gather from looking at the websites of various college and universities, they would provide a great heliport for them to land on and work, not only for their students, but actually benefit others, too.
You can find them by checking out the college's website or Student Services Department to find out the contact information. Some are connected with the alumni associations. Unfortunately, there are a number of colleges and universities that do not have a parents association of council. Maybe you can help them start one.
Related Terms
Blackhawk Moms "These are the ladies (and sometimes men) who attempt to remake the terrain so that it works better for their child to succeed, regardless of the consequences for anyone else." (Posted to Parent to Parent - Timesunion.com Blog - By Jennifer Gish, Staff writer)
Jet-Fighter "This year's term is `jet-fighter,'' when helicopter parents become even more aggressive." (Posted to Parents also receive post-secondary orientation. - By Andrea Sands, Canwest News Service)
Parent Bouncers "The University of Vermont has employed `parent bouncers,' students trained to redirect adults who try to attend their children's sessions." (Posted to Parents also receive post-secondary orientation. - By Andrea Sands, Canwest News Service)
Satellite Parent "I am happy to say that I think that we were not "helicopter" parents (maybe we were "satellite" parents - we kept an eye on the whole thing, but tried not to hover)" (Posted to Helicopter Parenting - Wings and Roots » Blog Archive »)
Snowplow Parents "snowplow parents for trying to clear a path for their kids" (Posted to Parents also receive post-secondary orientation. - By Andrea Sands, Canwest News Service)
snowplow parents for trying to clear a path for their kids
Stealth Bomber Parents Those who hover excessively over their children's lives.
Submarine Parent "My job as a parent is to have fun with my daughters while letting them explore and learn natural consequences." (Posted to Forget the Helicopter Parents. be a Submarine Parent! - Parents Hut)
Trophy Kids "The generation graduating from high school and college now is/are called 'Trophy Kids' and their helicopter parents are still hovering, making sure everything is going well for them." (comment posted to We have gone soft - or lost our perspective - Broncos Forums)
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Fly off to visit some of the material about college Helicopter Parents
- Helicopter Parents Form New Association
- From The Little Planet Daily
News for the Rest of Us
Helicopter Parents Form New Association
Long Beach, CA - The Helicopter United Parents Toward World Oversight (HUPTWO) announced it's first annual meeting and conference schedule today. The association of was formed ... - Warning! Helicopter Parents at 1,000 Feet! -- U.S.News & World Report
- Do you hover low to the ground, micromanaging your collegebound kids from a helicopter&...cut...
- Borg Blog: Helicopter Parents
- This cartoon was prompted by a story out of Ohio University.
- Helicopter Parents
- My Roommate is driving me crazy!
This has a lot of great links. - Helicopter Parents Reconsidered
- Given all the negative attention they receive in the media, you might expect to find swarms of "helicopter parents" at every high school and college campus across the country. These overly involved parents earned that nickname because they hover over their children, swooping in to fight their battles and make their decisions for them.
- No escape from 'helicopter parents'
- Constant hovering can kick up a cloud of troubles
- Overprotective parents - a commentary
- Guest commentary on overprotective parents of college students.
- Are You a Helicopter Parent? Parents on College Campuses Causing a Stir - Associated Content
- Are You a Helicopter Parent?
Parents on College Campuses Causing a Stir
Too Much of...cut... - The Really Long Good-bye: Helicopter Parents in the College Years | BU Today
- The ritual was simple 20 years ago: Boston University parents dropped their kids off on mo...cut...
- College Parents of America - A national membership association serving current and future ...cut...
- College Parents of America: IN DEFENSE OF HELICOPTER PARENTS
- How to Lay Low as Helicopter Parents
- You may be a Helicopter Parent hovering over your kidult student. Here's some tips to cope.
- Helicopter parents Fear & Parenting in Las Vegas
- A blog on a personal perspective. The comments are interesting.
- Helicopter Parents - Simply Charly Blog
- Nice post. Light and informative. I especially like the definition of terms.
- Are You a Helicopter Parent? - Enliven Daily
- I have seen more than my share of helicopter parents as I have worked professionally in student affairs, taught in elementary and junior high classrooms and been involved in coaching youth sports since I was 14 years old. I have also had my own instances of helicoptering or micromanaging with my own kids, mainly as it pertained to sports.
- Going to college - Parenting - Relationships
- This is an article from the THE TIMES OF INDIA on how parents can help their teens make the transitions to college a little easier. (Maybe this could be titled "How Not to be a Helicopter Parent."
- Parents refusing to let go - The Liberty Lounge Political Forums
- This is an interesting tread on Liberty Lounge Forum about Helicopter Parents. There is even a comment:
Helicopter parents ... a term coined for moms and dads who tend to hover over their kids -- isn't just an American thing.
Dennis Black, vice president of student affairs at the University at Buffalo, pointed out they're found in Scandinavia, too, but under a different moniker -- "curling parents."
It's in reference to the sport of curling, where players sweep the ice to remove obstacles in front of the gliding stone. Likewise, curling parents try to remove all the obstacles in the way of their children.
Of course, extreme helicopter parents, who go overboard to make sure no harm comes to their kids, get a special classification -- "Black Hawks," a name taken from the military helicopter. - 10 Tip to Help Parents Through the College Admission Process
- College Admissions 101: the get-in guide for parents of high school students by local College Admissions Examiner expert, Lauren Starkey.
- Colleges study law involving parents
- GoUpstate.com | Spartanburg Herald-Journal has an article about how colleges are handling Helicopter Parents. Topics include:
- Are students off on their own while at school?
- Open communication
Within those boundaries, local institutions report that they accommodate and encourage parental involvement as much as possible, particularly if a student is experiencing personal or behavioral problems.
- 'A right to know'
Nowadays, students' grades are posted electronically at most schools, with students logging onto the system with their own personal password.
- Too much?
But when are "helicopter parents" flying too low? - How to Lay Low as Helicopter Parents
- Here is some advice from an unlikely source when your college student is settling into the dorm, and you are discovering that letting go is more difficult than you imagined.
Add your own "Helicopter Parent" story
My daughter went off to Connecticut to attend college. There, she had a classmate whose dad visited quite often - all the way from Alaska.
What's your story?
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- TomATS TomATS Oct 30, 2008 @ 3:16 pm
- Thanks for your comment. My mom used to send back my letters to her from college with the spelling corrected. You gotta love mothers.
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- cory cory Oct 28, 2008 @ 7:09 pm
- my mom stopped making my lunch 7 months ago. I'm 19 and a freshman in college.
Quotes about Helicopter Parents
- Helicopter parents take away a child's character and his ability to do things on his own. This type of parenting is backfiring.
- Lisa Hein, New Parenting author
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- Backlash Against Helicopter Parents – Neatorama
- We hovered over every school, playground and practice field ? "helicopter parents," teachers christened us, a phenomenon that spread to parents of all ages, races and regions. Stores began marketing stove-knob covers and "Kinderkords" ...
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- Helicopter Parents: The Backlash Against Overparenting - TIME. Helicopter Parents: The Backlash Against Overparenting - TIME. 0 comments: Post a Comment. Older Post Home. Search. the-world-according-to-americans ...
- Helicopter parents coming in for landing - Holy Kaw!
- Helicopter parents?parents characterized by incessant, noisy hovering around their children regardless of the kid's age?may be in the process of a rude awakening. Looks like the helicopter trend is receiving backlash. Says Time: ...
- A Critique of 'Helicopter Parents' - The Choice Blog - NYTimes.com
- Its target is helicopter parents. In it, the author, Nancy Gibbs, argues for laissez-faire parenting ? a ?let them grow by letting go? method ? while acknowledging that over-involvement can feel irresistible. ...
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