Helping a hospitalized senior citizen

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Ways to help a hospitalized senior citizen

It's a sad fact that, if you're a caregiver or have a senior citizen you love dearly, you're going to have to (one day) probably help a hospitalized senior citizen. Being prepared is the name of the game and I should know...

My name is Lori, and I am my 94 year old Mom's full time caregiver. This job means that I'm there through thick and thin, through laughter and tears, and through hospitalizations. I've spent enough time in a nalgahyde hospital recliner to have figured out some tips to help a hospitalized senior citizen. The below article was written in the hopes that others can learn through my experiences.

Note: I've had more than one doctor tell me to never leave a senior citizen in the hospital overnight alone. I have many times witnessed the care my Mom gets when I'm sitting next to her versus the beeping monitor of the patient in the other bed.

Here's another interesting Squidoo article you might like that I just finished 8/25/11 - Things I wish I had known when I first became a caregiver. And, since we're in the hospital (again..), here's another squidoo article I wrote 11/12/11 on Helping the bedridden.

There ain't nothing EASY about this chair...my arch nemesis... 

Be prepared with your senior citizen's history

For some reason which totally escapes me, it seems like I have to recount the same medical and medication history to three or four separate people during a hospitalization (don't these institutions have computers?). And, when one is in a slight panic over the condition of the loved senior citizen, it can become difficult to focus on minutia such as recounting (time and time again) the same information (can you tell I'm bitter?).

Regardless, the below are a few tips I've figured out to make recounting a medical history easier and more accurate.
  • If you have a smart phone, use the "Memo" feature to record all medications. This tip has saved me from forgetting anything and, when someone once again asks what medications my mom is on (and there's a multitude of the suckers...), I just hand them my phone with the memo titled "Mom's medications."

    Most hospitals want to know the total dose of medication per day (ex, 50 mg HCTZ) and the dose at each time of day (ex, 25 mg HCTZ morning and night). The total dose is used by doctors to generally check interactions with any new medications they might be prescribing for the senior citizen while the dose per time of day is what they might want to prescribe while your elder is in the hospital. It's best to record both ways in your phone.
  • If you aren't prepared with a list of medications, grab all medications before you head out the door. You'll want to get everything your senior citizen friend is taking which is a great reason to keep all meds in a bag in one place in the house.
  • Create a word document with all of your senior citizen's medical history. Think back as far as you can (and, if your senior friend can recall their own medical history, you're farther into the game than I am) and record:

    1. Surgeries. If possible, you'll want the year but, if you don't have that information, you can ball park it.
    2. Allergies to medications.
    3. Allergies to food.
    4. Family history. For example, you might be asked to recount you senior's parents history of cancer, liver disease, etc.
    5. Past diseases such as measles, mumps, etc.
    6. Last pneumonia/flu shot.
    7. Last tetanus shot.
    8. If you have recent xrays, bring them with you!

A Blackberry is not just a phone

I use my Blackberry Memo feature to create all kinds of lists. Currently, along with my Mom's medications, I have lists for wines I've found I like, new books to pick up, movies to watch, items to get at local stores such as Walmart and Home Depot, songs I want to download, etc. I positively love my Blackberry.

The Total Pillow - the name literally says it all!

I've had a lot of head pillows in my past - this one is the absolute best on the market! Not only does it do a beautiful job of keeping Mom's head propped up, when she's lying down, I twisted it into shape to keep her IV arm propped up so blood didn't puddle.

I can't recommend this pillow enough. I'm looking forward to using it in my travels too - it works beautifully in the car, on a plane, or on a beach lounge (one day!).

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A Snuggie is a great gift for a hospitalized senior citizen

The Snuggie makes a perfect gift for anybody but is a particularly great gift for someone in the hospital. The large sleeves mean that IV tubes can still be attached, your senior friend can still feed themselves yet stay covered up and warm.

Note: Snuggies should only be used when your senior is in a chair or bed. Immediately remove it when he or she has to get up - tripping danger is huge with the Snuggie!

Mom loved her Redskin Snuggie! 

Have an overnight bag packed for your hospitalized senior citizen

Since senior citizens can suffer adverse health conditions at the drop of a hat, it's best to be prepared with an overnight bag. The below items are helpful to have already packed. Note: all of these items are sealed so that you can pack a bag months in advance and just grab it and go.
  • 1Baby wipes. No, they're not just for babies any more. Baby wipes are a great refreshener for a bedridden senior citizen (or a nylgahyde-ridden caregiver...). If you can find larger wipes, those are even better.
  • 2Toothbrush and toothpaste. Throw in a travel size of mouthwash also. Note: most of the time, the hospital will give your senior citizen a small *courtesy* pack of items which might include the above, but better to be safe than sorry.
  • 3A few pairs of clean underwear or Depends. Although your hospitalized senior citizen may balk at having to wear Depends, they're very convenient in preventing accidents while bedridden. Note: Never call them diapers!
  • 4Pajamas and a robe. Most hospitals will require your senior friend to don their own horrible hospital gowns, But, if you have pajamas that button down the front, you might be able to sweet talk your way into allowing your senior friend to wear them.
  • 5A bottle of water and/or a few snacks. Always hide these in the bag somewhere and don't offer them until you find out if your hospitalized senior citizen can have food and water.
  • 6A washcloth and a small bottle of liquid soap. Liquid soap works better than bar soap as you can just close up the bottle and toss it back in the overnight bag with no mess.
  • 7A travel sized deodorant.
  • 8Some sort of entertainment such as a few magazines, a book, or a crossword puzzle mag.
  • 9A few pictures of friends and family to have in the room to brighten your hospitalized senior citizen's mood.
  • 10Phone numbers of close friends or family.
  • 11A small travel pillow, socks, and a sleep mask.

Some items you might want to consider for the overnight bag.

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Have an overnight bag packed for yourself!

As I mentioned above, I've been told never to leave a senior citizen in the hospital overnight alone, and I haven't! What i have had to do though is send my wonderful boyfriend running to the local store for something I needed. The below items should be packed and ready to go!
  • 1Any computer cables you might need. Include an air card so you can have internet if the hospital doesn't have WiFi.
  • 2Your telephone charger (duh. This one cost me $25...).
  • 3Grooming items such as that toothbrush, toothpaste, and mouthwash.
  • 4A travel pillow, socks, and sleep mask - no sense having your senior friend have all the fun.
  • 5A book light and reading material.
  • 6Earphones.
  • 7Snacks for late night. Get things that will stay in a bag and not get stale such as individually wrapped crackers and cheese or nuts.
  • 8Starbucks instant coffee. Those little coffee packs that are fairly new just require a cup and some hot water. Very welcomed at 3 am....
  • 9Tylenol. You're sure to get a headache. Also, you should have at least a days worth of your own medications packed in a plastic bag. You won't be much good to your hospitalized senior citizen if you don't take care of yourself.

Travel computer kit

This travel computer kit comes with most everything you might need for an overnight hospital stay.

Be nice to the nurses!

The old saying goes "You'll get more flies with honey than with vinegar." I've proven this theory time and time again. A box of fresh donuts will get you remembered if you drop them at the nurse's station and tell them that your senior citizen friend wanted them to have them. Everyone loves free food so make sure to pick up enough for all of the staff.

The nursing staff at hospitals are frequently overwhelmed with the ratio of patients to nurses so be patient with them. Don't expect your request for a sleeping pill to be granted in a necessarily timely fashion - someone else on the floor may need the nurses more than your senior citizen.

You'll also get priority treatment if you try to be helpful. Don't call a nurse to wipe your hospitalized senior citizen's mouth after eating a meal. Do what you can to pitch in. Trust me - they'll appreciate you and treat you better for the effort.

Here's a few nice gifts for the nursing staff

Your senior citizen's nurses will really appreciate any (or all) of the below gifts. Remember, give them to the nursing staff before you need to call in a favor!
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Here's some additional senior citizen articles you might be interested in

I spend a lot of my spare time writing articles about caregiving and senior citizens. I'm hoping some of these articles might give you a leg up in caring for your senior citizen friends.
The top five causes of confusion in the elderly
This article was written when my Mom had sudden onset confusion.
The top five duties of a caregiver for the elderly
Did I mention I "married" my Mom almost 5 years ago, right after my Dad died?
Reasons to buy a Kindle eReader for the elderly...
...or for you!
Tips on how to dress the elderly
There are some tips and tricks to dressing a senior citizen. Here they are!
Top five easy foods to have for the elderly
You might want to pack a few of these snacks for a hospitalized senior citizen.
Tips to helping the elderly acclimate to oxygen at home
Oxygen tanks can be scary at first but they sure make breathing easier for a compromised individual.
Tips to interviewing a homecare worker for a senior citizen
I've hired a few caregivers...and fired a few...
Reasons to keep the elderly in a home setting
My Mom has lived with me for almost 5 years; neither of us wold have it any differently.
Ways to keep the elderly warm
A good warm throw is always a great thing.
Tips to keeping a senior citizen safe
Here's some good tips to keeping your senior friends safe in a home environment.

Some good books on caregiving

I wish I'd had the fore thought to have purchased a few of these good caregiving books before my Mom came to live with me 5 years ago. Granted, I've figured out a lot of the tips contained in these books on my own, but it was through trial and error.

If you're a caregiver or know someone taking on this enormous task, pick up a few books.
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I'm hoping you've never had to spend a night in the hospital...

Have you? Please leave me comments - it'll give me something to read...

  • DavidDove Sep 8, 2011 @ 3:48 pm | delete
    Not one of my happiest memories, not a way to see humanity at it's best, unfortunately, in any respect, or lack of. Thank you for another excellent lens on a difficult subject
  • VickiSims Jul 8, 2011 @ 7:35 am | delete
    Very helpful tips for caregivers to be prepared to take an aging friend or relative to the hospital. My mother is in her 90s, too and although she lives at a retirement center, I've had to run to the ER several times when she has had problems. Blessed by a Squid Angel
  • gottaloveit Jul 9, 2011 @ 11:11 am | delete
    Thanks so much for the squid blessing. Very sweet. Hospitalizations are always so challenging but this time, the outcome will be good. We should be home tuesday.
  • nancycarol Jul 7, 2011 @ 2:50 pm | delete
    Yes, I have spent up to 4 weeks in-hospital after a heart attack in 2001, and before that, I have spent other nights there also. Not fun, and very lonely, especially the one in 2001, because I was so scared. But here I am today, so I'm going to do my level best to keep out of those places. When my Dad was sick back in the 80s, he was so bad he couldn't even feed himself. If someone was not there at mealtime, they walked in, set the tray down, came back an hour later and removed it, still full of food. When we found this out, a family member was there continually. Your lenses on seniors and their care are absolutely the best information I've seen. Thank you for sharing things that many people need to know.
  • gottaloveit Jul 9, 2011 @ 9:31 am | delete
    Thanks so much for the sweet comment. I appreciate that someone likes these lenses. They haven't made a cent but, if they help someone else, that's good enough for me. I'm sure your heart attack was scary! So glad you recovered and you're here so I could "meet" you!
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The best overnight bag on the market 

Kensington 62903 Contour Overnight Roller Suitcase and Notebook Carrying Case

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Lots of pockets means that this small overnight bag can be pre-organized with everything you and your hospitalized senior citizen may need. They're small so why not get two?