Helping the bedridden

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Helping the bedridden live a richer life

Well, 11/11/11 was not a particularly good day for our family as our darling Mom, Gertie, broke her hip and has set me off on a quest to figure out how to help the bedridden. Since she's 95, we've chosen to forgo surgery so I'm preparing for helping a bedridden patient for as long as I have to.

I've got plenty of time to work on this article as here we sit again in the hospital. Mom is in hospice with the best hospice service in Montgomery County, MD (Montgomery Hospice) but their inpatient facility is full so she is, at this time, a bedridden patient in the hospital. That means that I'm "sit ridden" by her side.

To read more about hospice, check out my article: Choosing Hospice; is it the right choice? - it sure was for us!

Anyway, onward and upward. Come along with me and find out what I discover about helping the bedridden. It's been an interesting journey so far.

UPDATE: 11/14/11 - We ended up deciding on surgery for Mom as, for the long term (whatever that may be), the risks of remaining bedridden were too great for her. She came through surgery fighting like a lion and is doing well as of 11/15/11.

Hospital beds and supplies to help the bedridden

There's some pretty nice items on the market to make you bed ridden patients life a bit more comfortable.
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Helping the bedridden:

Preventing Bedsores

There are many many side effects of being bedridden ranging from physical limitations to emotional toil. Bedsores are on the physical side and can easily affect the emotions also. Pain and despair can result when a bedsore forms and fails to heal properly.
  • 1Helping the bedridden means preventing bed sores. Bed sores are pressure sores created by resting in one position too long; they generally form where soft tissue is compressed by bone. Elbows, ankles, and the buttocks are frequent spots for the formation of these ulcerations. Especially in the elderly, thinner skin means that pressure sores rapidly form and take a long time to clear.

    Bed sores, unlike the connotation of the name, can be formed from resting in any position too long. This means that, if your elderly loved one tends to sit in a chair, wheelchair or in bed for a long time, they could be at risk for bed sores.

    Bedsores.org lists the following risk factors:

    a. Confinement to bed, chair, or wheelchair.
    b. Inability to change positions without help.
    c. Loss of bowel or bladder control.
    d. Poor nutrition and/or dehydration.
    e. Decreased mental awareness.

    Read more about preventing bedsores in my article Preventing bedsores.

A helpful book on caregiving

This book about caregiving has rapidly become my bible as I care for Mom. I've been privileged to be able to stay home with her the last 5 years so I'm pretty dedicated to gaining as much knowledge as I can about caring for the elderly and this book was my first foray into the world of caregiving.

If you're a caregiver or know a caregiver, please read or pass on my article Things I wish I'd known before I became a caregiver. In fact, here's my entire caregiving directory with links to all of my eldercare articles: Caregiver and elder care article directory.

American Medical Association Guide to Home Caregiving

Amazon Price: $9.99 (as of 05/31/2012)Buy Now

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Helping the bedridden:

Preventing bedsores - SOLUTIONS

  1. Get a specialized inflatable mattress or egg crate mattress topper for the bedridden to lie upon. Varying the surface of the bed allows air to circulate and relive tension so that bedsores do not easily form.
  2. Appropriate bathing and drying (!) of the skin. I like to use Comfort Cloth washcloths like the ones our hospital provides. Just pop them into the microwave or warm them in water and wipe the skin. Comfort Cloths are not very wet so you only have to wait a few minutes for the skin to dry or, alternatively, dry the skin with a soft clean cloth.
  3. Reposition the bedridden patient frequently, at least every hour or more if they feel pressure in any part of the body. If at all possible, get the bedridden to do any exercise they can manage. Perhaps a WII video game will allow the bedridden patient to move a bit when playing a bowling or badmitton game.
  4. Make sure that the bedridden patient has adequate hydration - water is not only important for keeping the body healthy but will also help keep the skin healthy. Also, moisturizing lotions may be rubbed onto the skin to provide a barrier. Vaseline Constant Care Moisture Barrier Salve is a good lotion for spots likely to sweat against bed clothes or chair seats.
  5. Keep the bed sheets smoothed down. Wrinkles or rough bedsheets may easily lead to bedsores so make sure that the sheets are the best you can afford and use bed suspenders to hold the sheets taut.

    I will tell you this: the more expensive bed suspenders, like these sheet suspenders work much better than the cheaper ones (voice of experience here)

Here's some items I've found to be helpful while Mom is bedridden.

Keeping Mom clean and as healthy as possible is paramount to my tasks while she's a bed ridden patient. The below items are things I've found on Amazon which help me keep her more comfortable.
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Helping the bed ridden patient:

Entertainment!

bedridden patient and dogKeeping the bedridden patient entertained is, in and of itself, a full-time job. Especially in our case, Mom is not feeling well and moves in and out of pain. Our only option is the TV or visits from people who drop by. But, as mentioned above, I've been thinking about it and have come up with a small list of things that can be done to keep the bedridden patient entertained. Here's a few ideas:

1. Crossword puzzle books. If your bedridden friend is not able to write, sit and do a crossword with them. Just give them the clues - you might be surprised to find that they know the answer.

2. Crafts. If your bedridden friend is able, now might be the time to catch up on some favorite crafts. Needlework comes to mind but there's a whole host of other craft ideas in my article Senior Citizen Crafts.

3. Games. A rousing game of poker or maybe Monopoly might stave off boredom for a while. Try Yatzee or Sorry or, if your bedridden patient is cerebral, how about a game of Clue?

4. Pets. I'm planning on sneaking Gizmo into the hospital (the best nurses won't say a word...) so that Mom can snuggle with her for a while. Pets are a great way to get the bedridden patient's mind off their situation.

5. Reading. This might be just the right time to buy your senior citizen friend a Kindle. It's a delightful way to read almost anything in the world and a lot of the classic books your bedridden friend might want to read are free.

There's some other good Gifts for senior citizens in the linked article.

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Got a bedridden friend?

I'd love to hear additional ideas to help keep Mom healthy and as happy as possible. Everyone may comment, not just Squidoo members. Please help me with ideas.

  • A-Redneck Nov 21, 2011 @ 7:58 am | delete
    Once again you have a spectacular article on elder care and helping the bedridden. Your articles on aging are all written with such care and love that they are a pleasure to read. Have a wonderful week.
  • lilymom24 Nov 19, 2011 @ 1:50 pm | delete
    Sorry that your mom has broken her hip and hoping that the surgery went well for her. She is blessed to have such a caring daughter for her caregiver. I wish you both the best.
  • ChrissLJ Nov 14, 2011 @ 7:20 pm | delete
    You might not have to sneak Gizmo into the hospital. Some hospitals allow pets to visit. My mini used to do therapy work and has several canine friends who still do. Some hospitals (like the VA) don't require therapy creds to visit patients. If Gizmo's not allowed, ask the nurses to the visiting therapy teams visit the next time they make rounds. (Some teams visit as often as every day.)
  • Showpup Nov 14, 2011 @ 12:59 pm | delete
    I'm so sorry for your mom's condition. She's blessed to have you for a daughter!! It is so great of you to share your experiences with others and give them helpful items that can make their life easier when caring for a bedridden patient. All of your articles are wonderful.
  • traveller27 Nov 13, 2011 @ 9:36 pm | delete
    A very important topic for many of us - blessed by a travelling angel.
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I used to spend most of my days caring for my adorable 95 year old Mom, Gertie; she died peacefully in my arms Feb 15, 2012.

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