How to get a girl to like you

Most girls want guys to be nice to them and show them that they like them. And guys I don't care who you think you are, ALL girls deserve to be treated well. The majority like to be treated like a princess. Nearly all girls like to be heard and listened to. And a lot girls would like their guy to look good and do manly things. But you cannot assume that every girl prefers their man to act this way. Each and every girl carries a totally different viewpoint of what they expect out of a man (Even though most girls would rather you just be yourself). That being said you should never try to change who you are for a girl. You need to find one that likes you for who you are. That doesn't mean to be a slob or a jerk. It just means that you have interests and so does she and you shouldn't hide who you are. Sometimes guys and girls are just not compatible. That doesn't mean that there isn't any girl out there for you, it just means that this specific girl isn't right for you. Don't ever give up. There is no real answer to the question "how do I get this girl to like me?" Be yourself, don't be shallow, and have fun and you will meet the woman that is perfect for you.

What does the first date mean? What are you telling a girl by asking her out and how does she interpret it? These are all things that we will discuss here. Now that is not to say that all girls are the same or that they interpret things the same. But hopefully I will help you to read how she feels and how she is interpreting your actions.

So now that you have asked her out and she has agreed (hopefully), now it is time for us to talk about what to wear on your date. This part is a little tough because so many people have different styles of clothing and so it is hard to pin down what exactly to wear on your date. Overall I would say that you need to look nice. Whatever you wear make sure that it is clean (and so are you) and neat and that she can tell that you spent a good amount of time getting ready. Basically what you are saying is that you care enough about her and her opinion that you wanted her opinion of you to be a nice one. How you are dressed will be the first thing that she sees when you pick her up and therefore plays a role in the first impression. You want her to see you and be impressed. Dress to fit the date. If you are doing something active then dress accordingly. This one isn't a huge deal but I did want to stress the importance of being clean yourself. Shower and wear deodorant. As far as cologne goes it needs to only be noticeable to her when (and if) she hugs you. "Less is Best." Either way just make sure that you look nice.

Now you are on the date. You have picked this girl up and so far you have done everything right. Up to this point you have only been spending time with her as a friend and so it is going to be different to spend time with her as a romantic interest. Meaning that you must treat her differently. She is not your buddy now but she is a girl that you are interested in. So you must act accordingly. The jokes you tell need to be appropriate, you need to go out of your way to show her respect. Be kind and don't gossip about other people. Talk about her and what she likes to do. Find something about her that you can connect with and draw that connection. Spend time talking about what you have in common. This is really important for a few reasons. Number one it is a filler in that it avoids awkward silences. Number two is that when we talk about things that we are interested in to people who are willing to listen and comment, then we are happy and positive. So if she is talking about her interests with someone who shares that interest then she will associate that person with those happy feelings. Overall just remember to be yourself and have fun. Plan something that will allow you to interact and move around. Have fun with it.

Throughout the date (if it is going well) then there will come a point where a connection is made about something that you are both interested in and one of you will say "Yeah, we should hang out sometime and do that." If the girl says it then this is a great sign and means that she is interested in meeting you again. If you feel like things are going well and you are interested in her then throw that out there and see how she responds. If a commitment to hang out later is made then it is YOUR RESPONSIBILITY to make sure that it happens. We'll talk about this later.