How To Get A Girlfriend

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How To Get A Girlfriend - The 7 Essential Skills For Attracting The Woman Of Your Dreams

Hey man - I'm Stephen Nash.

Are you interested in learning how to get a girlfriend?

I've been teaching guys this "art" since 2004, and there is nothing more fulfilling than getting a note or call from a guy who has read my ebook, and who has found a lasting relationship with someone he is truly attracted to.

Lots of guys "settle" in relationships (women too...). It's my mission to help you become a true social artist, so that you too can feel the power of choice when it comes to women & dating.

All of my teachings are condensed into a 7-skill ebook I call How To Get A Girlfriend...(clever, I know)

I suggest you check it out asap, it can be downloaded from the internet (no store-shopping required).

Go here to start learning the art of how to get a girlfriend:

How To Get A Girlfriend

See you on the other side?

Stephen.

How To Get A Girlfriend - First...What You're Doing Right Now That Is NOT Working - These "Classic 5" Will Surprise You 

How is it that I help guys with the age-old dilemma of How To Get A Girlfriend?

I realize it's a bit audacious:

To say that I understand how to help YOU get a girlfriend.

"Hey man, you don't even KNOW me Nash..." (you might be saying to your computer screen)

Momma never taught you this lesson did she buddy...

Well, via tons of research, loads of interviews, massive trial and error, and a solid education at the school of hard knocks (ever read Neil Strauss' book "The Game"? I'm in there...and if you can figure out who I am, I'll send you a free prize), I do believe we've found an answer!

For most guys who suffer from a lack of success with women, what they really want is more options, better options, and ultimately, they want to get a girlfriend.

Dating is tough because most people live by the "law of chance & luck" when seeking a mate.

Is that you? Do you feel you CONTROL your social life, or are you subject to "whoever" crosses your path?

Pretty important distinction there...take a sec and think about it.

Finding a lasting relationship is hugely important to most people - and I assume to you too, otherwise you wouldn't be reading this page.

So why should this be left to chance??

Ever wonder why the divorce rate is so bloody high here in the USA??

My belief is that a guy who is not meeting enough women, or who is not meeting the right women, is simply not living in the right way.

In short, his problem is one of...

L-I-F-E-S-T-Y-L-E

If you want to meet MORE women, do you put yourself into circumstances where you can interact with them?

If you want to meet the RIGHT women, do you do things which naturally bring you into contact with people who share commonalities with you?

Mastering the above two questions is critical to your dating success.


My ebook coaches you on these two facets PLUS teaching you the all-important social skills to insure that when you do meet her, you GET her.

Clear?

OK, enough of that...on with the 5 Boy-Blunders you're likely committing NOW.

MOST guys are making these errors with women, and they have literally NO IDEA that these "moves" are killing their success with women.

Ready for a paradigm shift?

Here they are:

1) Tries to "buy" her affection and interest with dinners, gifts, flowers and other ridiculous displays of "affection".

2) Lavishes her with compliments in hopes that she will "like" me because I am so positively attentive!

3) Seeks her approval or permission over his own...he always does "nice" things like call her every day to see how she is doing, approve of everything she says & does, this forces her to eventually lead the dating dynamic causing her to become...THE MAN.

4) Gives away his POWER to women by getting her to "like" him by doing whatever she wants, and being at her beck & call...

5) Never gets HELP with his problem, thereby insuring that he continues to make the same mistakes over and over until he eventually gives up or "settles" for a woman he is not truly attracted to.

Click below to keep reading about the 5 mistakes men make with women (and in particular, how to FIX them):

How To Get A Girlfriend

Getting That One Special Girl...My Report, With Some Troubling Findings 

Here's a rather long, but important, question for you:

Ever been hung up on ONE girl, to the point where you possibly lost sleep, focus, perhaps made ridiculous phone calls to her, stalked her (or cyber-stalked her%u2026a new, scary phenomenon), begged her, shed tears for her%u2026and otherwise lost a huge amount of time effort and energy to the cause of getting her?

(long sentence, I know...bare with me here)

Well, I have been in this position before. This was years ago, way before I ever realized I needed help with women, dating and relationships.

Aeons before I learned how to get a girlfriend, and fell in love (which is my situation today...so, I've come full circle - in case you were wondering).

I was walking home one night, and met a woman near my apartment - she was walking her dog.

I think she asked me for directions - yes, that's right, she asked me for directions.

So, we began chatting and we eventually swapped numbers. A week later we went out on a date, strolled back to her place, got a bit intimate and said good night.

We washed/rinsed/repeated that a few times, and all was good and fun.

Big point to make here is this: All my eggs were in one basket%u2026HER basket - I had no other options, and hadn't had a cute girl in my life in some time.

I think it had been nearly a year possibly since I had even kissed a girl.

Do you identify with that perhaps?? If so, keep reading PLEASE...

I left town on a business trip for 3 weeks, and when I returned - something had changed.

We were set up for a date, and I was all ready to go when the phone rang. It was her cancelling. A sinking feeling set-in.

"Something's Up", I thought

She had said she'd call back to arrange another time, but days now started to pass with no call from her.

S-T-R-E-S-S sets in & my sleep started to suffer.

I decide to call her.

Seems a good decision, right?

Here are the stories I was telling myself:

"Aah, maybe she's busy at work and hasn't had a chance to call me" (NEVER happens%u2026when someone wants to call someone, they make time for it)

"Maybe something horrible happened" (Maybe it did, but even then, if she was really interested, she would call)

"My answering machine is broken" (But, I was getting messages from other people)

"Maybe, just maybe, I was supposed to call HER" (She had been clear, and this was a blatant rationalization, as I was looking for anything that would help me FEEL BETTER NOW!)

So, I called her.

Are you close to cringing yet? Don't worry...this gets a helluva lot worse!

To Keep Reading, Click The Link Below:

Click Here To Go To My Home Page And Get Your Free "Getting That One Special Girl" Report

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Would you like a free dating e-course delivered directly to your email, designed to swiftly download the ESSENTIAL social skills for meeting and attracting high-quality women??

Here is a small sample of what you'll learn:

  • The BEST way to approach a woman. Quality women have heard it all, except this.

  • How do you keep the conversation going? Well, I will show you THREE killer techniques to combat this very common social problem.

  • How to dial-up the sexual tension on command; never hear "Let's Just Be Friends" again.

  • How to ask for her phone number, and get it every single time. Use these words, and stop feeling lost when it's time to build a bridge to "next" time .

  • How all healthy, long-term relationships form and how to engineer your lifestyle so that this process happens EFFORTLESSLY. This skill will surprise you, and I guarantee that you're already doing this one BADLY.

Click Here To Go To My Home Page And Claim Your Free E-Course...

The Official How To Get A Girlfriend Reading List! 

Are you a bookworm like me? Check out these 5 essential books asap as each is indispensable.

The Way of the Superior Man

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Where Do You Go For The BEST Dating, "Pick-Up" And Seduction Advice? 

Let the controversy begin...

I'm interested in knowing where guys go for the best dating advice on the web.

I've listed some of the more popular blogs, forums and hubs out there.

What's your take? Who gives you the best VALUE for your time?

If you had a burning dating question, which site would get your attention?

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Nim Sudo wrote

Pseudonym, har har, get it? I'm clever, bright, quick witted, have a sense of humor, when it works it's great, and not too bad looking. So what's my problem? Also disabled, veritable shut-in (in a parent's abode, though 85% of time to myself) due to mobility limitations, pain and fatigue issues, self-image issues, depression, unemployment. Recent joint surgery, supposed to increase mobility, but so far, has reduced it and not coming back that fast. Going back to school to finish some degrees (plural), maybe a handful within the next 2-3 years.

More than anything, I want a job where I feel useful and excited, and PROUD of my work, money in my pocket, own place to live, no debt, and someday a nice girl to make a family.

What I do not see in this so-called community is the inclusion of disabled people by the direct addressing of specific issues and common scenarios. I vow that if I am to be the first to discover a way, I'll teach others, but like everyone, hoping for help too.

Reply Posted June 07, 2008

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ReplyPosted June 06, 2008

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Eazy wrote

I am 28, have a career, and know what my passions in life are -- outdoors, adventure, sports, reading. And I have even found a few people to share those passions with me. But I just cannot find a stable relationship where I feel solid and fulfilled. I have never even had a long-term relationship lasting more than a few months. So I got into this PUA thing last year, and its boosted my confidence. But I still feel empty going to sleep alone every night. Therefore, I really need knowledge and techniques that work for keeping a romantic relationship.

Reply Posted May 21, 2008

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Ron Johnson wrote

Hey! bring on the women! The more, the merrier! At least a few of them will be keepers. And the rest, are trial runs. Besides, solo sex is so boring!

Reply Posted May 04, 2008

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Jeremy wrote

I'd like to meet enough women so that I can settle down and maintain just three or four of them.

Reply Posted April 28, 2008

StephenNash wrote...

Ryan - keep checking here man. Why are you low on friends? Start by getting out there and doing things that you want to do. Then, just meet the people there doing it with you. That's a way to start. That, and taking classes, and going to events that really interest you.

xx - good idea, I'll post something soon about dating ideas etc. Have you checked my blog? If you go to the archives there, there will be a lot of articles on date ideas etc.

Happy weekend everyone -
SN.

ReplyPosted April 26, 2008

 
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