How to Get a Woman to Like You

Women want what they cannot have. I am sure there was a time in your life when you wanted a certain women and only doted on her a little too much and spent a way to much time trying to impress her and you wound up with nothing.

You need to understand playing a little hard to get is a great method to push some emotional trigger in her which will make her want you more.

Trying to spend all your free time with her is a recipe for disaster. It's fine to see her once or twice per week when you initially start dating. Keep things light and and her at arms length. Women do not want needy men, they want someone who they deem as unattainable. When they know you are head over heels for them, something begins pushing them away from you.

Flip the script and pretend you are only mildly interested. Don't break off contact from your buddies, keep your lifestyle the same. You will know when you can start spending more time with her and begin getting a little closer. When she starts calling more, asking for more time with you and begins initiating physical contact, then you know it's time to get close to her.

Give her space, you don't need to choke off her oxygen supply. It goes hand in hand with detachment. She needs space to understand her feelings for you. The more time you spend with her, the less time she has to associate with her feelings.

They are just like us, when they have found someone they deem worth enough to day, they get excited. The problem is what happens when the excitement wears off. The more time spent with her the more she gets to know about you. This tends to suck the life out of new relationships.

Giving her space to be with her friends and spend time away from you will give her the freedom to use her mind when deciding to move forward with you or end it. You need to keep her at a distance which may be one of the hardest things to do when you really like someone.

Keep things light - but if you feel your moving toward just friendship status, communicate it with her and tell her you would like more. Be honest with her and she will appreciate it and find it more attractive.

You better be paying attention to the things she likes and talks about. Women like men who pay attention to the subtle things they say or do. When she speaks, listen. When she shows you something she likes, understand she wants you to notice.

Being able to remember certain things about what a women says or shows you is a remarkable way to spark her interest in you.

Let's say you walking down the street with her and she mentions how much she loved the movie "Say Anything". It's the one when John Cusack places the jukebox above his head and plays 'Your Eyes".

She has just revealed something important about herself, a small clue. She likes to be romanced. A few weeks later you should rent the movie and give her a special screening. She will see it as thoughtfulness and she will know you are paying attention to her. Your not just after a romp in the bedroom.

Using these little clues she gives you will fire some deep emotional triggers inside her and she will fall for you, plain and simple. Pay attention to her!