How To Get Back With Your Ex

If you just broke up with your girlfriend/boyfriend or you're not longer with your spouse and you want them back, do the opposite of anything that comes into your head. I mean this in all honesty. DO THE OPPOSITE, or else you will only make things worse.

What does it mean to do the opposite? Well whats the first thing/s you want to do when you break up with your ex?

1. You want to call them.

2. You want to see them.

3. You want to fix the problem and get back together (this will work if you follow the method below).

4. You question yourself, what you did wrong, what went wrong, how could this/that happen, why, who, WHY again and more blaming and analyzing.

5. You want to send them txt msgs, flowers, notes, e-mails, and so on and so forth...

Do you make THESE other mistakes?

Sound familiar? I'll bet it does. But here's the thing. These are all thoughts that are based on desperation. I know it sounds counter intuitive to avoid all of these things because logic dictates that if you want someone, you should do everything you can to get them, right?

Not in this case. Because every single action you make that is based on your emotions, is based on desperation. So no matter what you do (which will be either one of the 5 things above), you will seem desperate and this will only turn your ex away from you. Trust me, in time you will beat yourself up if you do these things, I promise.

So to sum up this 1 golden rule of breakups: If you feel any sudden urge to do something which relates to the 5 things above, do the opposite. In other words, if you want to call them, do the opposite and DON'T CALL THEM.

So how the hell is this going to make you get back with them? Well read on...

It's called Reverse-Psycology. I'm sure you've heard of this before, but when it comes to relationships and fixing them, this is the most powerful tool you'll ever need.

Now I would explain the whole idea and how to use it, but it would be a very long explanations, instead click here to see a 9 min video of a guy explaining how to use reverse psychology to get back with your ex. This video explains it better than I ever could and I am nowhere near this person's level.

The video is near the middle of the website and it gives you the 1st move you have to make if you want to get back with your ex. The guy who created that website (T.W. Jackson) is an absolute expert on this subject and has helped tens of thousands of people get back with their ex's even if it was hopeless.

In short, in order to get your ex back, you will use the power of reverse psychology which will make your ex want you back more and more. If you keep doing using this technique correctly, they will not only want you back, but they'll be doing all of the work.

Awhile ago, a friend of mine broke up with his girlfriend. They had been dating for months. He was very upset, called me up and told me his story.

He said that she had approached him one day and just said out of the blue how she felt it wasn't working out. He was speechless to say the least and said something stupid.

Needless to say he was shocked because he thought everything was going well and I had also though the same thing since I had seen them together, but apparently appearances can be deceiving. Hell, i've been there, it sucks to no end.

But I had seen this situation illustrated by T.W. Jackson, aka the guy who talks in the video in the website recommended above and followed his advice. (I have his book by the way and I have to say it's a lifesaver).

Here's what I told him:

First I asked him, how often he saw her and he said, plenty of times and I had told him to not see her in person but to let her see him. I also pointed out that he had to, ABSOLUTELY HAD TO, pretend they had never been together, not necessarily ignore her but to act if nothing had ever happened and just pretend they were never together and he wasn't interested.

At first he said I was crazy and I said, give it a week and besides what did he have to lose right? Well it took alot of convincing, but I made him a bet he simply could not refuse and he finally decided to follow my advice (Well the advice I got from T.W Jackson's book.)

Well the funny thing is, 4 days later, I get a call from him and he screams "You're a _ _ _ _ _ _ _ genius!" (You fill in the blank). He then said he was in the bar where they used to hang out and she was there too, the interesting thing is, he wasn't there for the first 3 days, because I told him to stay out of that area.

However I told him exactly what to do when he would be there and if she was there and most importantly HOW to act and he honestly did do it, because she walked up to him, and started flirting with him out of the blue, as if they had been intimate and nothing bad ever happened. He was astounded. She suddenly had so much interest him in and he couldn't believe it. From there, the relationship re-established itself.

He used the very same reverse-psychology techniques I gave him from T.W. Jackson's book The Magic Of Making Up and if you haven't checked out the video yet, you are an absolute fool because even if you don't want to try this book, the video will tell you how to get started.

I own a copy of this book and recommend it to absolutely anyone who has just broken up and wants to get their ex back. I don't care how hopeless you think it is. I don't care what mistakes you may/may not have made in the past. It doesn't matter. You can get them back if you follow the right path and the Magic Of Making Up shows you just that.

The book is 62 pages long and shows people how to use reverse psycology and other strategies such as romantic actions, draw attention to yourself by making curious gestures and much more.

These strategies and tips generally cause this timeline of events to occur:

They make your ex start wondering about you.

Then they become curious about you again

That makes them want you back more and more and finally causes them to cave in under the pressure and this causes them to make the first move to be back with you. It could be a surprising phone call from them. It could be an "accidental" meeting. It could be a renewed interest towards you, but something does happen.

Here's a list of the chapters it contains:

Chapter 1: Understanding Why Your Relationship Ended (And Why It's Not Over Just Yet)

Chapter 2: Don't Panic - Your Key to Winning Back Their Love (Getting Your Head On Straight)

Chapter 3: Removing the Splinter in Your Relationship (Where Do You Stand?)

Chapter 4: Re-Igniting the Spark of Passion and Desire (The Plan)(My personal favorite chapter)

Chapter 5: Dates and Lovers - How Other People Can Actually Bring You Back Together With Your Ex

Chapter 6: Easing Back Into Your Relationship to Solidify Your Love

Chapter 7: Maintaining the Fun and Love Without Dredging Up Old Wounds and Arguments

Chapter 8: When Your Relationship Can't Be Saved - Moving On With Grace

Click here if to check out the Magic Of Making Up.

Bottom line: This book is not mandatory, but for your own sakes, watch the video. You'll understand how to get them back and why this stuff works.