How To Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend - Win Back Your Girlfriend The Right Way
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How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back
Getting Back Your Ex Girlfriend - Even If You Think There Is No Chance
A relationship break up is never easy to cope with, but trying to get your ex girlfriend back can be even harder especially if you don't stop and think first. You need to find out the reason(s) she left you in the first place.
If you are thinking with your heart instead of your head you are going to drive her further away, stop everything NOW! And read this fully if you want to win her back.
If you are constantly ringing her or stalking her at every opportunity she's not going to listen. Calling her when you've just returned home from a night out drowning your sorrows will not help, this will only increase the risk of a restraining order.
Think about when you got together, where did you go, what made her happy? All of these things are relevant. She fell for you once - she can fall for you again.
If the question is "how can I make my ex want me back?" then you are in the right place
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How To Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend
When you were happy - you were probably very happy! the trick here is to try and recreate that happiness. some of the things you did before may seem a little dated or old fashioned but they will probably still stir up happy emotions, try everything which you can think of to make her happy again.
Don't be too pushy AND just by saying "I Want My Ex Girlfriend Back" does not bring home the fact that you actually mean it, there has to be some feeling and emotion in everything you say and do.
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Win Back Your Girlfriend By Understanding What She Wants
The pure facts about why the so-called "proven tactics" just don't work on their own; in fact, when used without this secret, they're likely to backfire
The 2 biggest reasons a woman breaks up with a man, and how you must treat each one with a different approach if you want her to come running back to you
The stone cold truth about why she broke up with you (and it's not what she told you)
A crucial element you must consider before even thinking of getting her back
The answer to the question 70% of men want answered (a question that even women themselves can't answer), and how you can tap into this secret to crush through the barrier of your breakup
Your girlfriend's most burning desire in her relationship with you, and how to use it to draw her in like a magnet
How a 147-year old theory is responsible for your existing state of despair, and how to tap into this wisdom to plow through the obstacle before you
The 6 stages of a relationship and how to establish with pinpoint accuracy exactly where yours went downhill (this will be one of your most powerful weapons for getting her back)
How one word (and the concept behind it) is pushing her away from you, and how to turn this anomaly on its head
What to do once you're back together (this period is crucial) - get this wrong and you're back where you started
Win Back Your Girlfriend - Starting Today
Even If She Has A New Boyfriend
It doesn't even matter whether you are breaking up or you have already broken up, it doesn't even matter whether she has a new boyfriend or not. There are ways and means of getting her back.Not only can you get her back, But! You can have a stronger relationship that the one you had before. Even if your ex won't speak to you right now, there are things which can be done to get things back on track, better than before.
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Don't Lose Control
Take Back The Control Now
If she seems to be getting further from your grasp then you are doing something wrong, you need to discover new techniques which will have her coming back to you sooner that even she expected.
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Now it's time to take yourself apart, think about when things started to turn bad, these things don't start by themselves. If you actually think that it's all her fault then you are still in denial, shake that off and start thinking of ways to make things better.
Don't worry too much - if you are still struggling to come to terms with the break up you may not be ready to do this.
That is why you need HELP! And it is right here for you, but you have to Act NOW!
Or else you can sit there and wallow in self pity thinking of how things were or should be now.
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We are back together and we've never been happier. Don't waste time if you want to get her back.
I hope that you're as fortunate as I am and get back the one that you love, don't take her for granted.
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So Is It Really Possible To Win Your Girlfriend Back?
This isn't just some made up story - This really is MY story. This update may surprise some people but since writing this lens our relationship has gone from strength to strength. The passion, trust and love is back in our lives and it's twice as strong as it was before.
On January 16th 2009 we got engaged...
That's right - she was my girlfriend, then she was my ex girlfriend, now she is my fiancee - we are planning to get married on Valentines Day 2010.
I have every confidence that this will work out and that we will be together for a very long time. I was told by someone that "All relationships go through rough times and even break ups and if you can get through them, your relationship will only get stronger" - Thank You Matt Houston...
Only you can decide whether she is worth fighting for and only you have the power to get your ex girlfriend back - Good Luck and I hope it all works out for you.
Tips for anyone looking to get their ex girlfriend back
If you have been in a similar situation please leave some helpful advice here.
relationship-squidz wrote...
in reply to vandoo626 Well, firstly you have 2 weeks to get things into gear...
For your circumstances you may want to check out my friend's website - T Dub has become an expert in this type of situation. There is no point in trying to read things into what she said until you take a look at - http://www.squidoopeople.com/recommends/Making-Up
Take your time and read through everything he's written and get it right the first time
I really wish you the best of luck because it sounds like things were going so well, you never know! it may be easier than you think to get her back.
Here it is again - http://www.squidoopeople.com/recommends/Making-Up
Posted July 03, 2009
vandoo626
Iv been going out with this girl for about 3 months and then she decideds to go away to florida with her family for 2 weeks and tells me that she wants to break up because she just doesn't love or have the same feelings for me anymore. She was in love with me, showed no signs that she wanted to break up till a day before she brought it up. she simply said she doesn't have those feelings for me and love me in that kind of way anymore. Although she said she wished she could still love me like she used to but can't lie to herself anymore. I still love her and need an opinion.
Posted July 02, 2009
relationship-squidz wrote...
in reply to bapexsubcrew Hi, Did she say that she doesn't love you to your face or was it about you to someone else? women sometimes try to play down situations so that they don't show their true emotions...
Is this the end? Well...Maybe yes maybe no...
But! no situation is unrecoverable, I have heard from guys who had an affair who are now back together with their ex girlfriends and the same thing happened to them, she said that she didn't love them and even that she hated them - and now they're back together.
Please! don't give up until you have taken the time to talk to her about it, you NEED to know how she truly feels, and she NEEDS to know how YOU truly feel...
Don't hassle her but let her know
Posted July 01, 2009
RichDude1958 wrote...
Great Lens! Well put together and the information is concise and helpful!
Posted June 27, 2009
bapexsubcrew
in reply to relationship-squidz yup i heard her saying that she don't love me at all. Does this mean its the end of us?
Posted June 27, 2009
relationship-squidz wrote...
in reply to bapexsubcrew That's the $64,000 question my friend...
If you are not compatible, maybe you are the one who is in love and not her - sorry to be blunt but that's one of the curve balls which life throws us from time to time.
It's happened to many guys before you and will happen to many guys after you BUT! until hear her say it (and mean it) there is always hope...
On this occasion I would probably recommend getting in touch with your ex girlfriend sooner rather than later for a chat. Make the meeting somewhere public so that she feels less cornered, you could even tell her to bring a friend (this also shows maturity and understanding for her)
Discuss what went wrong very calmly and objectively, if she says that you are a jerk or insults you - DON'T start shouting or playing the blame game or she will be out of there so fast that your head will spin.
Ask her what she wants and try to keep a conversation going. be understanding and sorry if you need to be (1000 words)
Posted June 26, 2009
bapexsubcrew
in reply to relationship-squidz If its really not compatible, can it be help? Cause i can't afford to lose her from my life.
Posted June 26, 2009
relationship-squidz wrote...
in reply to bapexsubcrew Hi, I suppose the first thing you need to do is to take a step back and think about the things you argue about...
Many times in a relationship we find ourselves arguing over the most trivial matters through boredom and insecurity - who started the arguments? If it was your ex girlfriend, maybe she was looking for a way out but she was looking for a good enough reason to end it.
If it was you, were you being to dominating? were you being too needy?
Or, was it down to the simple fact that you weren't compatible?
There are a lot of things which you don't know about her and a lot she doesn't know about you...
Take a look at this
http://www.squidoopeople.com/recommends/1000-Questions
You will find a lot of answers to the questions you should be asking
Hope this helps
Posted June 23, 2009
bapexsubcrew
I've just been dump by my gf. Been with her for 3 months and i found out that i can't live without her. Although its merely only 3 months, i really feel that she's the one for me. I need her back very badly. The main reason we broke up is because she told me that we are totally from a different world and we keep quarreling. Can anyone give me some suggestions to help me win her back?
Posted June 23, 2009
relationship-squidz wrote...
in reply to cubs12776 Now this one, I have seen all too often...
Guy meets girl, tries to play hard to get, acts like the quiet type, not looking to get serious - then when they get dumped they fall to pieces (no offense meant)
People used to say "treat her mean - keep her keen" this is a crock...
If you treat her right she will stay with you, if you play hard ball, she will find someone else.
The problem you have here is that you have to decide whether you want her back for good or you just didn't like being dumped.
If you want her back, you need to change and you need to show her that you have changed and are ready for a grown up relationship.
Women will NOT stay with a guy if they think that there is no future - show her that she has a future with the new you!
But don't go begging her back and telling her you've changed, if you meet in the street you should - ran out of space (sorry dude) copy this and read it all http://www.squidoopeople.com/recommends/
Posted June 22, 2009
relationship-squidz wrote...
in reply to Elvis78 There's always a chance and women are very forgiving if you are sincere...
the lies do add up don't they? before long you get a real wake up call when you get caught, it's never a good idea to lie to a girlfriend.
Desperation seems to have crept in here Elvis and it sounds like you're on the verge of rushing in head first without a plan - STOP!
No Plan - No Girlfriend
It may seem that things are getting desperate but has she really had time to miss you? If you've been talking, meeting and calling etc: she really hasn't started to miss you.
I know how this feels and I can't express how much help I received from one guy. I can tell you that if you slow down, you will be better prepared in the long run and if you keep pushing you'll only push her away.
Take a look at this - http://www.squidoopeople.com/recommends/Making-Up
Posted June 22, 2009
relationship-squidz wrote...
in reply to Goonz26 Wow! it sounds to me like you are definitely head over heals for this girlfriend...
The insecurity in quite normal, the last thing you want is for your girlfriend to be tempted away, but you still need to give her her own space.
The Lying has got to stop, it's never good for any reason in a relationship.
How do you get your ex girlfriends attention? Well at the moment she probably thinks that you've let her down so you have your work cut out for you! but it's not impossible.
I know I keep saying this but you need to go back to how you used to be when she met you - be "That Guy"
Give her some space, stop harassing her calling her etc:
When you do see her in the street, be nice, be a man, be considerate - there is more to this but I have a limited space to reply, click the link under the picture if you want the best advice around.
Good luck
Posted June 22, 2009
Goonz26
hi, ive been dating a girl for about 15 months. its been a long distance thing, and we have had a pattern of about 3 months without seeing eachother. and id visit her for 2 weeks. but last summer i moved there for 4 months.
because its long distance, theres going to be issues that are not there when we are living close. missing them more, feeling the need to talk every second, anyways. because of the long distance, when im back and away from her, i worry too much. i do stupid things like make a fake myspace account to see if she would flirt and do something to hurt me.. (big mistake) she caught me, and i lied about it... i also seem to be more controlling. which is never good. especially being far away. well its come now to us hardly talking. she has been dating another guy for about a month. whats the best way to get her attention back. i want to be the guy she fell for. how can i get her to see that side of me again after all my mistakes? id even move closer to be with her.
Posted June 20, 2009
Elvis78
Hello,
Great site and i would like to express my issue! I broke up with mygirlfriend of 8months over basically her being jealous,fighting,and her insecurety. I have now realized what a cruel mistake i have been, and now she refrains from coming back to me. I have been caught in little lies(which always add up). She feels now that she cannot trust me and is very upset with my actions. We have had good and bad conversations in the past 7 weeks as of today. I want her back and to keep in my life forver. She tells me that she needs her space to heal her broker heart that i have caused. I have been pushy as in buying flowers,gifts, etc.. I am afraid of losing her an never having the chance to show her that i can change an make this relationship the real deal. I am trying not to contact her,but thats the hardest part to deal with..I don' want to act desperate and weak, but i am running out of options..I love her dearly and what her back in my life. Is there any chance? Please help! Elvis
Posted June 19, 2009
cubs12776
Basically I met this girl and we started hanging out & we were intimate multiple times but we never labeled ourselves as "dating." She told me "I would make a bad bf,'" "I was too old for her," & "my friends told me to stay away from you" etc. So I never got too serious with it. I even said that i wasn't wanting to date either (which wasn't true at all but i wasn't going to put it out there after all the signals i got-who would?). Then it stopped after 8 months (3 mo. ago). I asked her why & she said because she wasn't going to waste time on me if i wasn't going to date her!! We both wanted to date the whole time but just weren't as honest as we could've been. no lying other than that. So i tried to step it up & fix it bshe didn't want to. She met a guy on the web 2 wks later who lives 50 mi. away & started calling him her bf right away. Then she moved into a house 1 block away from me!! I want her back but i'm not sure what to do. HELP! 1000 characters isn't enuff for full details
Posted June 18, 2009
relationship-squidz wrote...
in reply to sparkz1
The best advice I can give you right now is to read this - http://www.squidoopeople.com/recommends/Making-Up
There is only so much that I can write here and I wouldn't have the space for everything you need to do.
Don't worry though, it is NOT a hopeless situation.
Posted June 09, 2009
sparkz1
i broke up with my ex officially in january! we agreed to be friends and she started looking to date but since then the relationship didnt change,the only thing that changed was the amount of sex we had. mabe five or six occasions since the break up!
but then a few weeks ago i went to visit her (we lived in diferent city's in england) and had to be admited to hospital for a week due to migraines,blackouts and no feeling in my legs.anyway the doctors told me not to travel because the problems stemmed from my back so i needed to lie down for two to three days then go see him. my ex girlfriend on the otherhand had to go to my city to work for the day so she said that i wouldnt be able to crash there.i explained that the doctor said not to travel,but she wasnt hearing it! eventually we had a big arguement which involved me saying things i didnt mean and disrespecting her.since that agruement she has not spoken to me and has deleted me from her facebook.can i get her back?
Posted June 06, 2009
relationship-squidz wrote...
in reply to pizzlemynizzle Wow! Long distance relationships are tough, you pointed out the right things though. And yes! most long distance relationships fail due to the lack of intimacy.
3 months is a long time for her to not have talked to you, I would find out the reasons for this (discreetly) if it was down to you being too demanding, the last thing she wants is a long distance stalker (no offense meant)
The problem is that - if you are demanding from a distance, she probably felt a little claustrophobic when you were near her. It's an unfortunate trait but some people get a little over bearing when they need affection, this can scare their partner away.
I think you both need to sit down and discuss the who thing, make it somewhere that she can just leave if she's had enough.
You can discuss why she broke it off at the end of the meeting, once you know what she wants. Remember, you can force her to love you.
Posted May 28, 2009
relationship-squidz wrote...
in reply to chriswjp21 You seem to have the right idea, you also know when you come across as needy or desperate which is a good thing.
Turning up at her work may not be such a good idea without finding out a little more detail of what she's looking for.
You say that she complains about her new guy to her friends, without getting too involved you need to find out what he does wrong which you know you do right.
Is this new guy just a rebound relationship (sounds like) so that she has someone to spend time with.
One thing you could do is look back and think about how long the gaps are between you two seeing each other in passing, calls etc: you may find that there is a pattern - for example - she might not be able to go for more than a week without seeing you. In which case it might be an idea to make yourself unavailable for 10 days...
Let me know what happens - Good Luck
Posted May 28, 2009
icangetgirlback wrote...
I like how this is lens is put together. Good work, great information!
Posted May 27, 2009
pizzlemynizzle
Person whose ex won't speak to him,just give her time. The true opposite of love is indifference, not hate
I have a problem of my own. I've been with a girl for roughly 2 years. In January she stopped talking to me till April, when she said she's been seeing someone else because I was too dependent. We're on good terms right now, I try to be strong and let her talk to me first, and she still seems to enjoy my company, even though earlier today i kind of let my emotions take over and said I still have feelings for her, but I don't think this is a fatal mistake.
Seems like a good chance right? Well...problem is...it's a long distance relationship and I think maybe dependency wasn't the only issue. Maybe she just wanted someone she could be with physically. I've been wanting to turn it into a real thing for awhile, but i just feel hopeless because of this. I told myself I won't give up, but right now there's a lingering doubt in the back of my mind. Am I just wasting time with this ?
Posted May 27, 2009
chriswjp21
Well short and sweet, We dated 1 year and a few months, then she met another guy, shes been with him for months. She complains alot about him towards her friends.
I called her and we had a decent conversation, i ended it asap acting like i had more important things were going on, problem is i showed weakness at the tail end and she wasnt liking it much, of course i can turn that around, not impossible, neither is winning her back.
Truthfully im holding out on everyone because im working towards my dream career, so i told her i wouldnt be planning on dating anyone, i told her "it doesnt mean i wont" weakness again!,,,,damn!
I know i can make things happen,
Ill go the distance only as one who is in love, not a needy desparate man, problem is i think somehow i come off as one, so the gym sounds good, then maybe a small appearance at her work after a lil while of no contact, with nice apparel, and a few words to charm her pants off.
Any suggestions?
(note) shes the tom boy type
Posted May 27, 2009
relationship-squidz wrote...
in reply to Mike Hi Mike,
Sounds to me like you need to sit down and talk. I don't mean about the relationship though. You made a big mistake here, you turned this around to be about you instead of being her soul mate and finding out what the problems at home were.
If you'd been together for a year, I'm sure that she would have confided in you if you'd asked.
Now the problem is that she still has the problems at home and her boyfriend (you) dumped her when she was desperate for your help and love...
There are some big apologies needed here and you need to be her friend right now rather than her boyfriend - that will happen soon enough.
Don't try pushing her back into the relationship, take it slow and find out how you can help her. She needs to trust you again, she probably thinks that you can't be trusted under pressure.
I hope this helps
Posted May 22, 2009
Mike wrote
Okay me and my girlfriend were together for a year and suddenly she became distant so I got worried and became pushy. She told me she was going through a lot at home and she just needed time but, I wanted to know what was going on. So to make a long story short I got upset told her it was over then 2days later sent about 8 texts saying I made a mistake then we got into an argument and she said it was over. She said it was too much pressure to be in a relationship. She said I was too pushy now I am hurt and feel alone. I know I can get her back but, I am scared that I may not be able too because she was sooooooo pissed.
Posted May 21, 2009
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