How to Let a Girl Know You Like Her

You really ought to stay away from this for at least 2 good reasons.

The first reason this is not really recommended is because you're basically approaching it from a perspective that you need to justify liking her. This is merely another symptom of trying to impress the girl and show her that you are worthy of her. She probably won't think this is attractive and this may hurt your odds with her if she already does like you. It's perfectly reasonable to like a girl without having to have some sort of logical thinking behind it.

Secondly, you are so trapped in your brain going over your speech that you're not really there with the woman. Your mind is off with its own thoughts, which women think is definitely unappealing and will kill pretty much all connection. Alternatively, try to bring yourself completely to the present moment and be there with her.

You're possibly thinking that this is all hippy-dippy stuff, but you would be astonished at how very real this is. A good way to get into the routine of this is to make a few minutes while focusing on your body. Do you feel how your feet are touching the floor or how the clothing you're wearing feels on your body? What about the way your whole body starts to feel when you're with the woman? I hope you can start to understand why this is so critical when you're talking to girls?

I hope you are starting to fully grasp this.

So, that is what you aren't supposed to do, but what might you do to prove to her that you do not simply want to be friends? Here is how to let a girl know you like her the proper way.

An SOI is a phrase that's short for Statement of Intent. This term is employed by Pickup Artists (PUA's). The term was coined by Wayne Elise (also known as "Juggler") and is essentially just a simple way for you to let a woman know that you think she is hot. A standard SOI should go something like this:

Her: My final rehearsal is tomorrow night. I'm so excited about my dancing performance on Thursday.

You: You sure seem to be extremely committed to doing your best with your performance. I think that is quite sexy.

By telling her that she is "sexy" you are giving a pretty strong but subtle message to her that you do not want to simply be platonic friends with her. This is not a very obvious thing, but it lets her know you want her and it tells her that she can start flirting with you. Just say this in a fun way and move on with the conversation. You ought to be relaxed with this or else it will seem really odd. Take my word, she won't overlook your point.

One other strategy to show a woman that you like her is to be entirely straight and genuine with her.

Let's pretend you're out with a girl and out of the blue this silence consumes both of you--and it is not one of those "I am bored to tears" silences. Both of you know what it means. You should use this as an opportunity to basically say what you are both thinking. "I really think you're hot and all I want to do at the moment is kiss you." Obviously you must actually make a move and kiss the girl at this point. This takes a little bit of courage, but girls really like it when you do this.

The key difference between this and what I said earlier is that, first, this is not something that you are memorizing and then attempting to anxiously say to the woman down the road. And the second thing, this is something which a real man would do. You are honestly letting her know you want to kiss her, not merely getting all nervous about whether or not she will say yes when you ask her to "possibly maybe think about" becoming your girlfriend. You are fully confident with your desires. Whenever you do this sort of thing, it lets women know you have a lot of motivation and that you can follow-through on the things you want in life.

So, that is how to let a girl know you like her. The key element here is to make sure that it is casual and not some sort of big deal. If you just act like it is the most common and natural thing there is, she will treat it so and follow suit.