How to Make Friends as an Adult

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Complexities

A friendship is born in every playground across America every single minute. Children hold many advantages when it comes to friends. When you are a child, you are a clean slate. You are without the complexities that hold you back from accepting just anyone. So how do you make friends as an adult?

Evaluate

Sit back and evaluate your life as it is now. What about your life is holding you back from connecting with new and interesting people?

Have you undergone a recent relocation? Is your schedule too packed to fit in any social time? Are you living an overly isolated life?

Recognizing the issue can uncover a simple solution.

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"Fate chooses your relations, you choose your friends."
- Jacques Delille

Be a Joiner

Joining a group can be an excellent way to not only meet people, but to meet people who share your interests.

Meetup is an excellent online resource to find local groups for anything from photography to literature. Facebook is also a good place to look for groups in your area. Search for something you are interested in and narrow the search results down to your area.

How do you make friends?

"It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

Go Virtual

And speaking of online resources, the virtual world offers a lot of other ways to meet new people in the real world.

Social network websites such as Facebook and MySpace can be a good place to start. CraigsList also has a section called "strictly platonic" where you can post an ad or reply to other ads of people in your area who are looking for friends.

Volunteer

What could be better than doing something positive for a good cause while building friendships with kindhearted people? Here are some great places to get started:

Volunteer Match
Volunteer.gov
Serve.gov

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