How to Make Love To Your Wife
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It's Easier Than You Think -- And Has Nothing To Do With "Technique"
Remember the first days of your relationship, how hot and heavy the intimacy was? The passion between the both of you could peel paint from the bedroom walls. But what started out fresh and new has faded into a distant memory. You know your wife loves you, but can you ever get back the heat and the passion of your early relationship?
Most men make the same mistake, they think there's some special lovemaking technique, some "trick" they can do to seduce the wife and get her into bed.
This goes to show how differently men and women think. Men are fairly simple -- what you see is what you get. Women, on the other hand, have a back story to everything.
As we all know - women are not made the same as men are, and this translates to their libido as well. What works to get your motor humming, isn't what works to get hers going -- in fact -- what works for you turns her off!
So how is a man ever supposed to figure this thing out?
What if I told you that you had a tool (no NOT that one -- and not some battery-powered thing you buy in a brown paper bag) right now that you could use to get your wife to meet you at the door by the time you get home -- and she's there just waiting to rip your clothes off.
Would you believe me then?
Most men make the same mistake, they think there's some special lovemaking technique, some "trick" they can do to seduce the wife and get her into bed.
This goes to show how differently men and women think. Men are fairly simple -- what you see is what you get. Women, on the other hand, have a back story to everything.
As we all know - women are not made the same as men are, and this translates to their libido as well. What works to get your motor humming, isn't what works to get hers going -- in fact -- what works for you turns her off!
So how is a man ever supposed to figure this thing out?
What if I told you that you had a tool (no NOT that one -- and not some battery-powered thing you buy in a brown paper bag) right now that you could use to get your wife to meet you at the door by the time you get home -- and she's there just waiting to rip your clothes off.
Would you believe me then?
It's Not the Angle of the Dangle
Woman Are Not Visually Stimulated
Because men are visually stimulated sex is a highly physical event to them. When men are engaged physically, nothing much is crossing their minds. This is the exact opposite from that of a woman. Woman can become visually stimulated, but that usually happens much later. In fact, most women aren't sexually stimulated at all by looking at pictures. A woman's erogenous zone is her mind -- and you need to learn to find the key to unlock its secrets.
When you were a 15- to 17-year old boy, it didn't take much to raise your flag. In fact, I'm sure it happened at some of the most inopportune times.
Like my friend Tim always used to say, "women just need to show up. That's what gets us excited." And then his friend would pipe up, "yeah and bring beer."
That's pretty much it for a guy.
If you show up, they're ready.
You ever notice the longer you're married, how the woman shows up less and less? It's because you haven't yet learned the secrets to unlock her sexuality -- something most women keep buried in the closet, like a pair of favored shoes, always there, but never worn.
When you were a 15- to 17-year old boy, it didn't take much to raise your flag. In fact, I'm sure it happened at some of the most inopportune times.
Like my friend Tim always used to say, "women just need to show up. That's what gets us excited." And then his friend would pipe up, "yeah and bring beer."
That's pretty much it for a guy.
If you show up, they're ready.
You ever notice the longer you're married, how the woman shows up less and less? It's because you haven't yet learned the secrets to unlock her sexuality -- something most women keep buried in the closet, like a pair of favored shoes, always there, but never worn.
Romance, Candy, Flowers and Dining
These Things are Nice, But...
It's not what flips our switches. As women when you buy us things, there is a certain amount of "feeling" we get from that, and yeah, you may get lucky. But we're talking something more along the line of "she has to do it," or "she's feels grateful or obliged."
I'm not talking about that kind of sex here.
I'm not talking about that kind of sex here.
Marriage Sex Advice
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They've Employed These Secrets
"Mike, I'm sending you a medical bill. My wife is all over me, man. WTF? I'm not kidding. She's initiating texting and sexting! And I've only been doing this a couple of days. The 'boys" are shriveling up and I've got you to blame. (But this is a lot of fun.)"
Jim from California
Married 11 Years, Two Kids
"Stunned"
"I have never been exposed to anything like this. I was a bit stunned just learning about the material to actually feel in my body how well it could work for me and my boyfriend. Just telling him about it connected us more sexually. As a 50-year-old woman, I am not even a fan of texting - yet I do love this 'dirty channel' use of this technology. Thank you for helping so many people improve their sex lives."
Elizabeth, Denver, CO
Jim from California
Married 11 Years, Two Kids
"Stunned"
"I have never been exposed to anything like this. I was a bit stunned just learning about the material to actually feel in my body how well it could work for me and my boyfriend. Just telling him about it connected us more sexually. As a 50-year-old woman, I am not even a fan of texting - yet I do love this 'dirty channel' use of this technology. Thank you for helping so many people improve their sex lives."
Elizabeth, Denver, CO
This is Beyond Telling Her You Love Her
Women Need You to Initiate
A woman's erogenous zone is her mind, not her body. When you capture a woman's mind, when you draw her in and intrigue her, the body follows suit every time.
Most American women have low self-esteem, and if you've made any comments about her growing "middle," you are most assuredly out of luck -- her desire to get naked in front of you no longer exists. By the way, have you LOOKED into the mirror lately? Everyone changes -- but women are not as concerned about how things look, they're concerned about how things FEEL and when a woman FEELS good, FEELS wanted, FEELS sexy, watch out, you won't be able to keep up with her at all.
So how to do you make a women feel these things -- what are the secret clues to get her motor humming?
I'm glad you asked -- I have this weird little video you need to watch -- and you can sign up for free and try this out. It works.

Watch the video, sign up for the next video, and grab your FREE three-step program.
As a woman, I'm telling you it WORKS. My husband and I have been doing variations of this for years. I just wish I'd come up with this idea like my friend Michael did. It works!
Most American women have low self-esteem, and if you've made any comments about her growing "middle," you are most assuredly out of luck -- her desire to get naked in front of you no longer exists. By the way, have you LOOKED into the mirror lately? Everyone changes -- but women are not as concerned about how things look, they're concerned about how things FEEL and when a woman FEELS good, FEELS wanted, FEELS sexy, watch out, you won't be able to keep up with her at all.
So how to do you make a women feel these things -- what are the secret clues to get her motor humming?
I'm glad you asked -- I have this weird little video you need to watch -- and you can sign up for free and try this out. It works.

Watch the video, sign up for the next video, and grab your FREE three-step program.
As a woman, I'm telling you it WORKS. My husband and I have been doing variations of this for years. I just wish I'd come up with this idea like my friend Michael did. It works!
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WildwindE
Former Managing Editor of a small town newspaper in a past-life, Laurie writes on every appealing topic she can find. A die-hard DIYer, besides writing... more »
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