Simple Ways to Say, "I Love You"
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The power of a phrase
"I love you."
How did that phrase just make you feel? I bet it made you take pause for a moment. However, chances are that you don't know me and, if I can make you feel warm inside by saying those words, how much better would you feel hearing "I love you" from someone you know and love?
"I love you" is a phrase that isn't said as often as it could be. Some people feel embarrassed to say the words or fear saying them will jinx a relationship. Others take love - and giving love - for granted, feeling that it will always be there and don't see the need to shower another with such words on a frequent basis.
Below you will find a variety of ways in which to say, "I love you" - ways which should not make you feel uncomfortable - ways which will make your loved one feel treasured.
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Contents at a Glance
Saying, "I Love You"
Is it easy?
Without further ado, allow me to ask you a question. Feel free to leave comments in the box which appears, if you wish to do so.
“I love you! I truly do - but how can I tell you when it's so difficult to find the words?”
I Love You
Words in action
Thankfully, I can say, "I love you," comfortably enough. I wish everyone was more like me but, alas, I know it isn't so. I know I wasn't always this way; there was a time I used to say those words only after someone said them to me, even if I was overflowing with love and felt I would die from having to live with such emotions.
However, the shyness isn't there any longer and each time I say, "I love you," I mean it from the depths of my soul.
Speaking from personal experience, I will now share with you a few ways to show the person you love how you feel when the words just cannot seem to find their way to your lips.
Walk hand-in-hand down the street
Invite your partner to go for a walk - just the two of you, whether or not you have children. It will speak volumes to your partner; the message will be clear that you want to spend quality time together, just the two of you. Taking some time to be together without any distractions is important to any relationship.1 point
Have regular conversations
Life can be hectic; you have little time and so does your partner. Whether or not you see your partner on a daily basis, setting aside time to talk to each other is important. It doesn't matter whether you discuss topical subjects or delve into philosophical discussions. Being willing to share your deeper thoughts with another is a sure sign that love is present in your relationship.1 point
Do little things for your partner
Offer to do the dishes or prepare a meal. Do the grocery shopping, take out the garbage and run the errands that your partner would normally tend to. It shows your partner that you love and appreciate the work that he/she is doing in helping to maintain the home/family.1 point
Offer your expertise
One would tend to believe that, when one partner excels in an area, he/she is willing to pass along the knowledge. It's not always the case! However, when you offer your expertise to help your partner, you are silently saying, "I love you and I don't want to see you struggle unnecessarily."1 point
Smile
Thanks to the increase of technology, concerning the Internet, you can even smile in an e-mail. :) See that colon and bracket? That was a smile. :-) This is a bigger smile and, sometimes, when I am really smiling, I will type something like this: :))))))))))
When you smile, you are not only saying you are happy but, on some level, you are showing affection. When a smile reaches your eyes, your partner will know that you are silently saying, "I love you."1 point
Provide comfort
Is your partner upset or worried about something? Do tears flow at the mention of a name or memory? If so, taking a few moments or hours to provide comfort - to give a hug or lend a pair of listening ears - is a wonderful way to say, "I love you."1 point
Share excitement
Even if you are not overly enthused about everything your partner is involved in, when your partner is excited, show excitement. You don't need to jump up and down in excitement - as he/she may be doing - but offering congratulations and sharing triumph is an excellent way of saying, "I love you and I am so happy for/proud of you."1 point
Go on a date
Plan a date when you will get away from the house and enjoy a few hours out on the town. Go to the movies and, later, share a pizza. Go to dinner and share a dance or two or, if you prefer, hit the mall and go shopping or visit a park and throw a Frisbee around for a while. By taking this time to be together, you are saying, "I love you and I really enjoy spending time with you."1 point
Laugh
Laughter is good for your body and soul. It is good for your relationship. Tickle each other, tell jokes, be hilarious or act silly. After all, you must love someone, on some level, if you are willing to allow another person to be so close that you can let loose and be yourself.1 point
Allow yourself to cry
There's nothing worse than feeling shattered and trying to hide the way you feel. Being in a relationship is not a time to feel macho and proud. Whether you're a man or woman, cry if you feel the need to do so. Your partner will appreciate the evidence of your humanity and will know that you love him/her enough to share your soul.1 point
Be there
It doesn't matter what time of the day or night it is; if your partner needs you, be available. This is the most powerful way of saying, "I love you."1 point
Reduce stress
Time constraints are a part of living in society. There is always a deadline to be met or something needing to be done. When you give your partner a break - by not adding more to his/her list of duties - you are saying, "I love you and I would like to help you relax. I don't like seeing you so stressed."1 point
Be a cheerleader
Is your partner taking on a new endeavor? Is he/she a little apprehensive about the road ahead? Encourage him/her. Be a cheerleader and, when your partner succeeds in his/her endeavor, be sure to provide the biggest smile and hug ever granted. You will be saying, "I knew you could do it!" If that's not love, what is?1 point
Be faithful
Your relationship will go through highs and lows. However, by staying the course and remaining faithful to your partner, you are saying, "I love you enough to stick around."
Have you fallen from grace in this respect? Forgive yourself and move forward with your partner. Determine within yourself to remain faithful and, in time, your partner will know you love him/her.1 point
You will notice I did not cover such topics as living with abuse and addiction - and the ensuing battle of trying to survive living in those relationships.
I know setbacks befall everyone at times. However, it is my belief that, when you really love another person, you would never intentionally bring harm, on an emotional
or physical level.
The points I mention above are all parts of a relationship which is "filled with love" - one in which one/both partners struggle to say the words.
Forgiveness
Allow your relationship the opportunity to grow
You cannot even bring up the subject of a relationship without thinking of the term, "forgiveness." In fact, having a forgiving spirit is such a vital part of living in/with a relationship that I created an entire lens about the subject. You can learn more about it at Forgiveness: The Art That Heals.Of course, there are the little squabbles which occur, from time to time. There are misunderstandings, miscommunication and mixed signals which can definitely bring about confusion in any relationship, some of which later require forgiveness from your partner.
Sometimes you forget to consider the needs and desires of your partner. You may get so caught up in your own world and activities that your partner feels left out. There is no harm whatsoever in apologizing when you realize how your partner may be feeling.
Trust
A must in any loving relationship
Trust is vital in every relationship; your relationship cannot survive without it.When you decide to trust another person, you are saying, "I love you." You are placing your fears and frustrations, even your hopes, expectations and dreams into the hands of another person. You are trusting him/her to keep a confidence and not to hurt you in the future by betraying your trust.
It's an enormous step to take but, when you love someone -
heart and soul - you will be ready to take that step.
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Ways to Say, "I Love You"
I would like to invite you to share your thoughts. I'm interested in hearing which side gets most votes cast when it comes to sharing your love with someone special.
Do you prefer to show your love with words or actions?
I have to say the words!
Norma_Budden says:
Actions are wonderful because they actually demonstrate love. Words alone don't cut it; they need to be backed up with loving actions. However, there is just something beautiful - magical, even - about saying the words, "I love you," to someone you love and hearing those words in return.
Actions are my preference!
ajgodinho says:
I believe action is the more important aspect in displaying love, but I think saying the words and following with the action is even more powerful. Having said so, sometime you don't have to say the words because actions do speak louder than words! :)
Kelsey-Budden-16 says:
I may love to write but, I just can't seem to say the words 'I Love You' to anyone other than my brother and dog. That's something I have to practice!
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I would love it very much if you would be so kind as to let me know you stopped by. Your comments about this lens would be greatly appreciated.
People say "I love you" in so many ways that it's impossible to list them all. However, if you would like me to feature a special way that you show someone special that you love him/her, feel free to share it with me here - as long as there are no sexual references.
God bless and I wish you all the best in your relationship, or any relationship you may be planning to take to the next level.
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d-artist Mar 29, 2011 @ 9:28 pm | delete
- Nicely written and presented lens...such important words when meant! lens-rolled to my "say I Love You" lens
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DoctorBobbie
Feb 1, 2011 @ 5:27 pm | delete
- Thank you so much for this lens. The more I explore and teach my meditation course, the more I realize it IS all about love in the end....and so many ways to share and express that. Thank you for reminding us of the simplicity that surrounds and inspires our lives :)
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ajgodinho Jan 30, 2011 @ 2:51 pm | delete
- Another beautiful lens on a vital topic in life. It's important to say the words "I love you" and follow through with actions or just let the action speak the words. Whatever it is, I think we need to be appreciative about this most powerful thing called love. Ultimately, it's important to love, not expecting in return, but doing it because it is the right thing to do. We've been given love not to keep it, but to give it away freely...so I say, help us Lord to love like you do! :)
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rlivermore
Jan 30, 2011 @ 9:25 am | delete
- This is a beautiful lens on a very important topic. Thumbs up, favorited, and lensrolled to my lens on how to teach kids to show love on Valentine's Day.
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Kelsey-Budden-16
Jan 30, 2011 @ 2:30 am | delete
- Wow! Now I know why people come to this lens so often!
I love all the pink! It makes it so...pink. LOL I lost my train of thought! :-)
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Norma_Budden
Jan 30, 2011 @ 3:00 am | delete
- LOL. YOu got the lenses mixed up; this one is hot off the press. I think you may have been referring to Simple Ways to Say, I Miss You.
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