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Quit Smoking Tips and Tricks

I quit smoking May 5, 2006 after almost 30 years as a poster child for cigarettes.  If I can do it, you can.  Trust me.  Better yet, ask anyone who knows me.  I loved to smoke.  Got pissed off when anyone talked about quitting.  Tried a couple of times to quit and failed fast and miserably. 

So, if I can quit, you can quit.  And, I was amazed at how easy it was.  Truly!  I just didn't know before.

 Here's what finally worked for me and some tips and tricks I learned from others who beat the nicotine addiction.   

Almost Three Years Later. . . 

Still Smoke-Free

So, almost years later, I still am smoke-free. I've gained weight and lost the weight and learned to live without cigarettes. Talk about the saved money! I saw the prices of cigarettes posted at an interstate convenience store recently and was extra-glad I don't have to buy them anymore! My "cheap" brand was almost $4 a pack. Geez! At almost 2 packs a day, that's over $200 a month I'd be spending on smokes. Trust me, I can afford lots more personal treats for that money--massages, manicures, new shoes! That is a great gift you can give yourself!

And, it hasn't been all smooth sailing--life never is. But, I've learned to live with the frustrations and changes of life without reaching for a cigarette to soothe me.

I still maintain that quitting is easier than I ever thought it really would be. I rarely think about smoking now and I certainly don't sit around wishing I had a cigarette. I do not remember the last time I wanted to smoke now.

You can have the same freedom--from the health damage, the expense and most of all, you can conquer a very nasty demon, too. Addiction is a bitch. But, you do have the power to beat it. And, once you do that, you will always know that being a quitter makes you a winner!

Smoke your last cigarette now and don't look back!

What it's really like to quit 

Day One--you'll think you can't do it. You feel pretty bad as nicotine leaves your body. Try to stay away from other people as you will be a bit cranky. Drink lots of juice--cranberry mixed with some water every hour or so will help. (Your blood sugar is elevated by nicotine, so blood sugar crashes when you quit. Keep it up with small high-protein meals and for the first couple of weeks, add diluted juice often.)

When you make it through day one, you will realize you can do it!

Days 2 & 3--Not as bad as day one, but pretty rough. Withdrawal is a bitch. BUT, you can do it. Chew gum, take walks, read, take a bath, cook, cry, hit a pillow. Whatever, just don't smoke. You're doing it.

Days 4 through 14. You won't feel good, but you'll think about smoking much less as time goes by. Keep doing other stuff and rejoice in becoming a NONSMOKER!

After two weeks: You'll start to look for your cigarettes out of habit instead of craving. Takes awhile to break the habits, too, but you will start to feel better physically. You are a nonsmoker now. Celebrate often! Tell everyone.

So, here's the low-down:

Three days of feeling like crap. It's like having the flu, only a bit worse. Quit on a Friday night and plan to stay home that weekend. On Monday, warn everyone when you go back to work that you'll be a bit cantankerous for awhile. (You can even be snarky with some who deserve it and blame it on not smoking!)

Then, two weeks of feeling edgy as you complete the withdrawal. Stay hydrated and active to remove the last of the nicotine.

After two weeks, you just have to remember you are a nonsmoker and learn to live life that way. It's all done by then. And, you are the bomb!

Smoking and Sleep 

Why your insomnia might be nicotine related

When I smoked, I rarely slept more than six hours a night. I have always been (and still am) a night owl, and thought that was the reason for my insomnia. I just was a bad sleeper.

Turns out, I was waking up after four, five or six hours because my body wanted a nicotine fix. Sad, but true. Oh, the smoker in me came up with lots more reasons for waking up--needing to pee, being thirsty, somebody's snoring, etc.

Now, I can sleep through almost anything and I really love getting eight hours of sleep at night.

After you get through withdrawal, you will find sleep is much more restful and refreshing when you no longer smoke. And, odds are you will sleep longer, giving your body the true break it needs.

Share this lens and Save a Life 

If you know a smoker, send them this lens. People give all sorts of reasons for not quitting, but I think we are afraid. This lens dispels many of the fears smokers have about quitting.

You will not be in withdrawal forever.

You can learn to drive, eat, talk and even drink without smoking.

You will feel so much better.

If you quit smoking, you can do anything.

So, share this lens with the smokers you know. Just gently ask them to read it. Today could be the day they choose to quit. And, it truly is the first day of the rest of your life!

Quitting smoking is like breaking free of slavery--addiction is enslavement. But, you can escape and be free! For LIFE!

How to Help a Smoker Quit 

There is a middle-ground between being a pain and giving up on helping a smoker to quit.

If you love someone who smokes, you have probably tried to get them to quit. And, they probably did not appreciate your butting in to their addiction. Hey, it's an addiction.

One reason addicts do not particularly like hearing from non-addicts or even ex-addicts is that there is a negative judgment implied in the "you oughta quit" message. Another is that it is easier (in the short-term) to keep smoking than it is to quit.

Here are some tips for gently urging them to "go for it" and not being a busy-body buttinsky.

1--Know that the smoker is stronger than the addiction. Appreciate that they don't know that. Don't argue, plead, or get upset. Just suggest and move on. Then, suggest a few days/weeks later. Don't be smarmy about it.

2--Offer help. All other addicts get to go to "rehab", but smokers (the most prevalent addiction and the one hardest to quit) have to do it in the course of their normal lives. No fair! LOL--really, offer to help watch kids, cook, run errands, turn the other cheek for the first couple of weeks. Be a mini-rehab!

3--Buy them stuff! LOL--bribery works. Seriously, send them this lense, buy the book: The Easy Way to Stop Smoking: Join the Millions Who Have Become Non-Smokers Using Allen Carr's Easyway Method and some other quit-aids:

--NicoDerm CQ STEP 1 - 3 Week Kit - 21 Clear Nicotine Patches

--Lozenges 4 mg - 7 Pop Pacs, 24 Lozenges Each -
168 Original Flavor Lozenges


--Walking shoes (exercise helps ease symptoms and speed withdrawal)

New Balance Women's WW558 Walking Shoe

Point out positive benefits of quitting:

--More money
--Can do so many things without getting itchy for a smoke: go to the movies, visit non-smoking friends, eat in any restaurant, fly, hang out in non-smoking areas.
--Don't have to stand outside in horrible weather to get a fix.
--Can shout to the world: "I QUIT!"

Trying to Quit?  

Stats say smokers try several times to quit before they succeed. How about you?

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Two More Quitters! 

And, the whole obnoxious ex-smoker thing. . .

This month, two more people I know have quit smoking! Yeah!

And, one of them used to razz me about being an "obnoxious" ex-smoker always preaching to smokers! HA! Trust me, he's going to be worse than me!

Here's my take on that: We owe it to other smokers to tell them the truth about quitting. We are glad we did it and wish we'd done it sooner. We have a better perspective than never-smoked people, you know. We can tell them "Heck, yeah, it's hard--you're kicking a drug addiction! But, it's so worth it and it's not nearly as hard as you imagine!"

So, if you're a quitter, let us know, and spread the word!

Staying Quit 

Mark Twain used to say it was easy to quit smoking--he quit thousands of times. And, he's right--the quitting is easy. Technically, you quit everytime you put out a cigarette.

But, staying quit is the problem. And, the solution to staying quit is simple, too. Just don't ever smoke again.

That is the key. Once you are a non-smoker, stay that way by remembering "NOPE" Not One Puff Ever. That way, you never get re-addicted to smoking and you never have to quit again.

Everytime you are tempted, just remember NOPE. Do something else and the temptation will go away in just a matter of minutes.

You can talk yourself into smoking--you have proven that. Now, talk yourself in to never smoking again. NOPE -- a negative word for a positive life change!

Will this be the year you finally quit smoking? 

Make the best New Year's Resolution of your life. . .

Want to make 09 Divine?

Choose this year to quit smoking. The timing is perfect!

Read all the info on this lens first. Then, pick out how you want to do it. Then smoke your last cigarette and then beat your addiction forever! You'll be invincible then! (Truly, I think all superheros are ex-smokers!) LOL

Bookmark this page -- you can refer to it, ask for help, try a new tactic. Keep the info handy!

Yes, I am one of those obnoxious ex-smokers who wants everyone to quit. And, I've convinced many people to join me on the no-smoking bandwagon. Because it's so liberating to be free of the monster of addiction and I want everyone to experience the life-changing (and life-giving) freedom and health that come from quitting.

You deserve to quit. You are so worth it!

The Easy Way to Stop Smoking 

Buy this book. It costs like three packs of cigarettes. You won't believe it will work, even while you are reading it.

Seems like a no-brainer. But, I do believe it gives you a very easy-to-understand explanation of addiction and why you smoke. Which makes it easier to not smoke.

Buy it, or get it at the library.

Keep smoking.

Read it all.

Then quit.

I can't tell you exactly how this book helps, but I highly recommend it. I read it. I quit. Millions more have, too. Just spend the money and read the darn book.

It is one of the cheaper ways to quit, and after reading this book, I decided not to use nicotine replacement therapy. Once I "got it" about the addiction, I wanted to get the agony of withdrawal over with ASAP.

That's the key to this book and the key to quitting an addiction. When you finally "get it", it's easier to stop the addicting behavior.

This lens (like this book) is another way smokers can "get it". More exposure to the info means a higher success rate.

Question: Do you have to be "Ready to Quit?" Answer: NO!  

Many times, people say you have to be "ready to quit", which is like saying you have to hit "rock bottom" to quit drug or alcohol addictions.

I think that's BS. Here's why:

One--I was not "ready to quit". Didn't really personally want to quit. Most addicts don't, by the way. But, I didn't want my boyfriend to get oral cancer, and I knew that he would not be able to quit and stay quit if I still smoked. I didn't quit "for him"--you can't do that, but that was a big motivator for me.

Two--Interventions (just like on the A & E tv show) are never about being "ready to quit", but many of them work. True, some of those people seem to be at "rock bottom", but many aren't. And, many, if not most are so "not ready" that they raise hell with their friends and family for tricking them. Yet, some manage to kick their addictions by accepting the intervention and getting help.

So, even if you are not "ready to quit", you can still quit smoking. And, the sooner you quit, the better. Trust me on that.

Pick your Quit Day 

Choose the day you will end your addiction and get back your life

What day would you like to quit? My anniversary is May 5. I picked that day a week or more before I quit. Before I went to bed that night, I smoked the last cigarette and said goodbye to them forever.

You can do the same. Pick your day!

Understand the Addiction Factor 

Smokers are just as addicted as methheads!

It's true. You are addicted if you smoke cigarettes.

Seems like a "duh!" statement, doesn't it? Well, I was watching Intervention on A&E and thinking "Why don't those idiots see what their addiction is doing to their lives, families, looks, etc?" as I was putting out one cigarette after another.

One night, I actually saw myself and could do nothing but laugh at my hypocrisy and stupidity.

You are an addict (just like I was) and once you "get it", then smoking seems rather silly.

Things to do Instead of Smoking 

Handy to hang on the fridge, your desk, car, cubicle, everywhere

It helps to have a list of alternate things to do when the urge to smoke strikes.

You will be over the cravings soon, they only last a minute and they are never overbearing!

Go for a walk

2 points

Play with Silly Putty

2 points

Deep Breathing

It Really helps!1 point

Chew gum or eat hard candy

1 point

Play with your dog

1 point

Drink a glass of water

0 points

Hold a baby

0 points

Read a book

0 points

Go to the movies

0 points

Visit nonsmoking friends

0 points

Combat your thoughts

When you think of smoking, have a craving or by ha more...0 points

Get a good book that can help you to stop smoking more...0 points

Quit Smoking Essentials 

Put together a little quit-smoking kit for yourself

OFX00016 - Premium Ready-Serve Premium Cranberry Juice

Cranberry juice mixed with water is great for the first few days. It keeps your blood sugar stable.

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New Wave Enviro Tinted Stainless Steel Water Bottle (0.6-Liter, Green)

Drinking water helps wash the nicotine out of your body. Plus, it keeps you hydrated and you'll need that.

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SudoKube, Sudoku, 3D Puzzle

Keep you hands busy with Sodokube.

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Silly Putty Original Egg

My favorite--you can carry it anywhere, squeeze it hard when having cravings or crankiness and it gives your hands something else to hold. Plus, it's dadgum fun!!!!!!!!!!

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Quit Smoking Drugs 

Drugs which help you quit smoking

Chantix is the newest quit smoking drug--approved just a couple of years ago. My stepdad used it and quit, and since then, I've heard several people say they used it and quit, too.

It works by reducing the pleasure of smoking and easing withdrawal symptom. It supposedly has huge success rates. Ask your doctor about it.

Zyban or Wellbutrin has been used for years to quit smoking. It is an antidepressent and when it first came out, many patients using it quit smoking, too, so it became prescribed under the name Zyban. My boyfriend used it and quit. I tried it, but didn't like the gastro side effects--caused indigestion for me. It is still a prescription drug, and if you have seizure disorders, do not take it.

Nicotine patches, gums and etc. Used to be available by prescription only, but you can now buy them without a prescription just about anywhere. They are good for gradual withdrawal. I used the patches before and they do make withdrawal symptoms much easier. But, I was never able to quit with them. (I tried once for just a few days, and this was before the latex-free ones--I had some pretty uncomfortable skin reactions.)

Some people use them very successfully, though, so they are a fairly inexpensive option--I think a week's supply costs about the same as a carton of cigarettes. I never tried the gum or lozenges personally, but they are another option worth considering.

My opinion is that whatever works for you is a good thing. You may have to try several options or several different times, but the end result is the same--you have to break the addiction and then break the habit.

You can do both and it is easier than you think it is. If you make it three days, that's the worst of it. Two weeks and you're done with withdrawal!

Start right now!!!!

How long have you or did you smoke?  

I smoked for about 28 years before I quit. How about you?

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Celebrating Your Victory 

When you quit smoking, at first you count the hours you don't smoke, then, the days, then weeks, months and years.

It is important to remember your quit day and celebrate it. On November 5, I celebrated my 18 month quit anniversary. (That's a whole year and a half!).

Share your victory in the comments section--every one who quits makes it easier for everyone else to quit! We all can reach back and help someone who's in the shoes we used to be wearing!

Quit Smoking Forums 

When you need to vent or are looking for some fellow quitters.

Where to find more support and discussion boards on quitting smoking.
Why Quit
Great information about addiction and the dangers and results of being a smoker. Also, great forums.
Quit Net.
I only used the Free Support at Quit Net, but it was really good. They have a paid support option, too and it is probably a great deal if you need it. They have some good resources--the quit smoking counter was lots of fun to see everyday.

Featured Lenses 

Read more lenses on how to or why to quit

You never know what will resonate with someone. Keep on keepin' on. Read all you can. Try again every day. You can certainly do this! Hey, trust me--if I can quit, anyone can!

Are you a quitter? 

How did you quit? Share your tips and hints with others trying to beat nicotine!

Lensmaster

Feel Lucky wrote

Yup! Still not smoking.. just over a month now!! Soooooooooo excited.. It's the greatest feeling!!

Reply Posted March 10, 2009

Deborah wrote...

in reply to Feeling Lucky Woo-hoo! Look at you, Feeling Lucky! NIne days is almost there! Hope you're still at it--if so, you're a non-smoker now! How freakin' cool is that?

We've all been there, done that -- beating addiction does suck, but you CAN do it! You are STRONGER than your addiction! Never ever give up!

Remember: NOPE: Not One Puff, Ever and you'll never be addicted again!

Here's to VICTORY over nicotine!

Woo-hoo! You'll love your new life! I surely do!

Deb

ReplyPosted March 02, 2009

Deborah wrote...

in reply to KristinaParker So glad this info helps! I'm on a mission to educate and help more people to quit!

ReplyPosted March 02, 2009

Lensmaster

Feeling Lucky wrote

Currently on my 4th week of Champix.. last cigarette was 9 days ago.. the urges are less than trying cold turkey (at least for me).. I feel edgy at times and I just want to feel like a true non-smoker.. I know it will get easier and this site is so empowering!

I "practiced" quitting a few times before.. nicotine patches, gum, laser.. cold turkey, but failed because I gave into the cravings and didn't take my decision to quit very seriously. This time is much better! I owe it to myself!

I want to carry on with life... without smoking, not having to stand in the rain just to get my fix, hiding the addiction from my employer, dreading long meetings because I couldn't smoke (if I did at break time people would know I smoked).. smelling like smoke...

Sorry for the novel I just wrote, but it felt good to get it out.

I'm stronger than any cigarette company!

Wish me luck everyone!

PS - because I hit a week without smoking, I treated myself to the spa.. I could get used to that! :)

Reply Posted February 19, 2009

Lensmaster

Feeling Lucky wrote

Currently on my 4th week of Champix.. last cigarette was 9 days ago.. the urges are less than trying cold turkey (at least for me).. I feel edgy at times and I just want to feel like a true non-smoker.. I know it will get easier and this site is so empowering!

I "practiced" quitting a few times before.. nicotine patches, gum, laser.. cold turkey, but failed because I gave into the cravings and didn't take my decision to quit very seriously. This time is much better! I owe it to myself!

I want to carry on with life... without smoking, not having to stand in the rain just to get my fix, hiding the addiction from my employer, dreading long meetings because I couldn't smoke (if I did at break time people would know I smoked).. smelling like smoke...

Sorry for the novel I just wrote, but it felt good to get it out.

I'm stronger than any cigarette company!

Wish me luck everyone!

PS - because I hit a week without smoking, I treated myself to the spa.. I could get used to that! :)

Reply Posted February 19, 2009

 
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