3 weeks Ultimate Plans to get my ex gf back IMMEDIATELY right after a bad break up

Please do not mistaken me. I am not asking you to set up a conspiracy or doing something wicked or unmoral in order to get your ex gf back.

What I am telling you, is to come out with a SMART, simple plan which fits you

For my case, I have followed closely to the Magic of making up plan by not contacting my ex gf for the 1st month.

Here are what I did for the first 3 weeks:

This is utterly important. Please listen carefully, in the past, I thought that I have come out with a plan which 'seemed' to be perfect and nice. However, later did I knew that I was totally wrong- Our dinner wasn't good and the conversation was cold. I did not manage to get my ex gf back for the first time we met up.

The main reason I am telling you all these was because I don't want you to pay double efforts to get back your ex lover when you can get her back much earlier. If I had sufficiently prepared, I am confident that I would have saved my relationship one month earlier.

So is this planning week important?

In summary:
1) Write down everything you know about your ex gf, her personality, places that she likes to visit, how she likes to wear, her favourite music, novels, hobbies, things that she dislikes.....

2) Why do you break up? How did you break up? Is there any chances getting back your ex lover? Do you still have the courage to date her? Does she care about you still? How are you going to find out all these?

3) How are you planning to get her back? Will your plan work? What are the weaknesses of your plan and how should you avoid stepping into those loopholes?

Keypoints

I know what are her weaknesses
I know what she doesn't like to listen
I know what mistakes I often easily made in the past

Do you really think that coincidence always happens naturally? How many times have you bumped into your ex gf on the street or in a restaurant?

Coincidence Can Be Created

Yup, saving your broken relationship will be hard to achieve all by yourself.

That is why you need another person to help you in this. Everything can happen very naturally and smoothly without being suspected.


The key is, the person who I call it the "bridge", has to be very smart.

Do you have a common friend between you and your ex gf? Write down all the possible friends who you think will help you for this. I suggest a friend who is close to your ex.

Try to approach your "bridge" and talk about it. Instead of making a call, you can try to msn your friend and give him/her some hints for his/her help.

Most people are soft-hearted and would help you. Talk to them nicely, tell them your plan.

REMEMBER TO TELL THEM WHAT TO DO AND NOT TO DO.

Don't forget to give them a treat after this.

Now you get into the next step, which is to prepare yourself to meet your ex girlfriend again, maybe 1 or 2 weeks later.

It is true that we do not judge a book by the cover, but it is also always 100% true that a better physical appearance will give people a better impression.

So the next question is, "How should you change your figure?"

Splashing plenty of money on buying some expensive stuff may not be a good way to change yourself. The whole purpose of this is to give her a good impression, and I would say reaching this objective isn't hard at all!!

Facial:
Change your hairstyle and spectacles(if you wear). Leave some moustache to show that you have been through some tough times in your life without your ex gf.

Attire:
"Do I need to wear Armani, Calvin Klein or Valentino to make myself more attractive?" My answer is - Nope you don't.

Wear attire that was given by your ex gf during some special occasions, or did she give you anything during any occasions?

Girls are sensitive. They will easily get attention to every little thing that you say and wear. So be aware when you talk to her. Be humorous when talking, don't make the the whole conversation stale and cold.

What you are about to do, is to impress her, showing her that you are not the guy she knew in the past, you are different, you have changed to be a better man etc. Show your maturity.

These are the 3 weeks action plans that I have done to save my relationship and get back my ex gf in the past. The ideas are served to give you a guideline on how you should make your preparations before facing your ex.

You can find out more about What you should say and how to open your mouth to ask for a date to your ex gf in Magic of making up. Magic of Making up is a very popular ebook which has saved the relationship of more than 6000 couples in less than half a year.






Blessings,

Shawn