How To Get My Ex Girlfriend To Love Me Again

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Need Your Girlfriend Back:

I know how it's hard for you to be away from your girlfriend but don't worry everything happens for a reason and there is nothing to get depressed of the fact of what's happening.

The way you make this point straight is what matters here. I mean, there are certain things you should know about, what's with you and your girlfriend. I know you have absolutely no idea of what I am talking about but trust me every relationship is not like what we think and its needs something to get that back in shape.

Getting Your Girlfriend Back Step 1: 

The first step would be that whether you really value your love? This is something that you should ask yourself. Do you really need to be loved? Or do you really want to love your ex girlfriend?
If you say 'yes' and you think you really deserve to be with your girlfriend then here's what you do... Give yourself some time to overcome the pain of break up and think rationally about getting your ex girlfriend back. Coz.. only when your mind is said to relax, you get to think better.

Getting Your Girlfriend Back Step 2: 

Now that you really understand your girlfriend means a lot to you, its time you appreciate what's happening at this point. Actually this means a lot for someone, trust me on this!
Your focus on this issue of break up and getting back together is all one sided. Take it in the positive sense. Why do you make this break up a huge issue on your side? And what makes you think that you are the only one trying to get back? Its time you trigger your positive senses and I mean the one that's going to make you happy.
Take this break up thing as literal as it is... think like, it's the time you get to know about your relationship. Getting pressure on your side and pushing it towards your girlfriend is not what you should be doing now. Just give her some time to think about you, I bet she will coz girls no matter of what type will be a bit emotional and will have at least a little interest to think about the things that happening around them.

Getting Your Girlfriend Back Step 3: 

Fine, your girlfriend needed a break up, she got it. Meanwhile there is something that you should do at this time. Start sorting down all the small things which led to the failure of your relationship. Think of all those arguments you had with her.
How did they start in the first place?
Who/what was the reason behind it?

Think about what you could have possibly done at that point to prevent this break up from happening. Find out the ways which could make you strong and the things you feel you need to improve coz I believe you don't want the same thing to happen again!

Girlfriends should be known

Most of the girls get themselves some boyfriend instantly after fresh break up. These guys can be called as "Rebound boyfriends". Girls do this mainly to get themselves some ego boost. They get a boyfriend just in the hopes of appearing that they can live without you and they are no longer interested in you. Read more on this site...

Getting Your Girlfriend Back Step 4: 

All these time you need to make sure you are not calling her anytime or at least soon enough before you get yourself intact. This means no phone calls, no email, and no meetings coz all these things will make you, only desperate and weak in front of her. Meanwhile if she ever tries to contact you don't give that 'I want to be with you' accent. Just act like every other friend. This will make her understand that, you took it like a MAN and trust me she would appreciate your attitude even if she's not explicitly communicative. This is how you earn respect and how you try to show her that you are responsible of your duties. Make her understand that you not the same as you were before and try not seeking for any opportunity to be with her. Keep in mind that you are supposed to meet you ex girlfriend only when the opportunity knocks and you don't create any opportunity.
If you think your relationship has gone through a long way and you see a different girl inside her, I think its time you ask her out. But that doesn't mean immediately proposing your love. Take it slow just like your first meet. Ask her out for a coffee or something, make each other comfortable with the fact that you both are actually being together. It's not necessary that you get yourself comfortable on your first day out with your ex girlfriend. Just be cool and have that responsibility on your face. That'll do good!

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    alex alex Oct 12, 2009 @ 5:19 pm
    well. i read this, and i think it made sense.the fact is, i really think my ex girlfriend hates me. but im still in love with her. we dated for allmost a year, and i cheated on her.We have been seperated for allmost a year now, and i dont understand. i have seen her once since we broke up, and she was all over me. but something just happened and now she hates me again, i dont know what i have done wrong at all exept for telling her i love her and want to get back with her, maybe that was a mistake? and then i started thinking maybe she still does love me, but is scared to get hurt again. now she is dating another girl (were gay) and she is way less attractive than i am. i just dont understand why i cant have the only thing that i would do anything for? every day since weve been apart i think about her, and have been depressed. shouldnt it mean that your in love with someone if you think about them for a whole year after your over?maybe someday she will come back to me.
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    alex alex Oct 12, 2009 @ 5:19 pm
    well. i read this, and i think it made sense.the fact is, i really think my ex girlfriend hates me. but im still in love with her. we dated for allmost a year, and i cheated on her.We have been seperated for allmost a year now, and i dont understand. i have seen her once since we broke up, and she was all over me. but something just happened and now she hates me again, i dont know what i have done wrong at all exept for telling her i love her and want to get back with her, maybe that was a mistake? and then i started thinking maybe she still does love me, but is scared to get hurt again. now she is dating another girl (were gay) and she is way less attractive than i am. i just dont understand why i cant have the only thing that i would do anything for? every day since weve been apart i think about her, and have been depressed. shouldnt it mean that your in love with someone if you think about them for a whole year after your over?maybe someday she will come back to me.
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    Meh Meh Oct 5, 2009 @ 10:10 pm | in reply to AKASH
    WTF did u just say?
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    AKASH AKASH Sep 9, 2009 @ 10:17 pm
    HEY MY GIRL FRIEND AND ME WERE TOGETHER FOR JUST 2WEEKS ,,,bt i love her alllot ,,,, and she has left me now ,,,what should i have too do ..find another one /wait for her
    i even have smooch her for 5 times in two weeks...........
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    cjris cjris Jul 31, 2009 @ 10:51 am
    My gf left me because of people accusing me of cheating and because i have had anger issues. I am currently going to counceling for my anger and my interlying issues. I never cheated on her and never would. Ive been making the mistake of calling her so im just going to give her her space but i just dont know what t do. She has my heart an soul in her hands.
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