How To Get Back With Your Ex

As I mentioned above, I'm back with my ex (who is now my wife :) ) and living a very happy life.

It wasn't always so nice. There was a time when I though that there was no way that I could ever get her back.

I went through an exrememly tough time and it was only through some blind luck and the prayers of a LOT of people, that I was able to right that capsized boat of a relationship.

So...I'm having lunch with a friend of mine and he begins to tell me about his latest relationship woes. Heavy stuff.

Knowing that I had made things right with my gal, he asks for my advice. I stare. I hem. I haw. (whatever that means!)

I really wanted to make sure that I gave him some good advice, so I decided to educate myself about this broken relationship thing.

After several months of talking ( I won't call it counseling - I'm no expert), my friend is back with his ex and it looks like they're going to get married.

He says it's because of all the advice I gave him. I say it's because I shared with him all the advice I found from others (the REAL experts).

That's why I'm writing this lense. To share with you some of the things I found out about how to get back with your ex AND one of the best resources on EARTH about how to do it - quickly, easily and pretty darn pain free.

To really begin to understand how someone can learn how to get back with their ex, we need to begin by mentioning some basic differnces between men and women.

Not the obvious differences, like voice pitch or plumbing - but some subtle differences about how we look at relationships and life.

Men tend to look at relationships as one of many "boxes" that they live in. Imagine a Post Office for a minute - not the part where you wait forever in line, but the part where people pick up their mail by opening their PO Boxes.

That's what a man's life is like - a bunch of unopened Post Office boxes. Most men are able to open one box at a time, get in that box, live in it for a while and then get out. Then they're off to the next box. One at a time.

Continueing with the Post Office analogy - most women's lives are spent in the junk mail bin. Now before you throw rocks at me, picture this...In every Post Office I've been in, there is a place for people to go through their mail. Maybe a small table or counter. Well, under that table or counter is a bin where they can throw all of their junk mail, advertisemnts or "occupant" mail.

After awhile, all of the mail in that bin gets jumbled together. One person's advertisement is right next to someone else's "Penny Saver". It's all together...it's all different and it's all accessible at the same time.

That's how women look at life. Everything is related. Everything is joined together. Everything is accessible in one spot.

Are you with me?

Men want their relationships to be neat and tidy and fitting into their "relationship" box. Women want their relationships to work together with everything in their lives. They want their relationships to fit together in their "life" box.

Big differences in how we look at the same thing and understanding this basic difference between men and women will get us going in the right direction - together.

Knowing this little truth, will help you begin to learn how to get back with their ex.

The resource mentioned above was the "secret" for my friend getting back with his ex. I had the resource and I just talked him through each of the steps.

It was that simple.

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