How To Pick Up A Girl

Most guys marry the sixth woman they've dated, on average. I think I read that in some authoritative journal (or The National Enquirer -- my memory fails me). Few guys have the time or resources to really master their relations with the opposite sex. Those who try often seek out information online like "How to Pick Up Hot Girls and Get Laid Fast". Most are disappointed with the seduction method they find.

Internet Newsgroups are another source of information on the subject of seduction, but too many are inhabited by troublemakers, clueless newbies and predatory marketers. Very few of the seduction methods touted there come from guys who've walked-the-walk. The biggest moderated, free seduction discussions are at Fast Seduction 101, which began in 1999 as an attempt to make sure posts to alt.seduction.fast were archived permanently for future reference.

About three years ago, I exchanged emails with Jay "Formhandle" Valens of Fast Seduction 101. I was exploring the idea of participating in seminars as a speaker, and he mentioned a couple of projects he was developing. One was a user-rated seminar program that based its fees on actual usefulness. The other was seduction information products that were a quantum leap above the then current crop of eBooks, CD's and DVD's on the subject.

The problem many guys have with learning a seduction method is how it's presented. Some guys just don't respond well to reading about it. They want a demonstration, preferably one they can go over again and again. That's the problem with books and live seminars. Neither offers that "instant replay" of an interaction in real time.

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If you want to know how to pick up a girl, you will need to learn something. It is not that difficult with the right technique. Actually every man wants to be able to do this without having a handsome look of a movie star. However, most men still struggle to be just a little better in picking up woman. Some of them can make the girl talk to them but still can not make the girl go out with them.

There is a good news here in this article. You can pick up the girl you like with the right mindset. If you want to be able to pick up most of the girls you want, you will need to learn this technique.

Picking up girls is a mind game. You will not succeed if you do not think correctly. You will win if you can set your mind to think into the following two directions:

1 Think about abundance. There is no scarcity for the winner. There are more than enough beautiful girls for you to choose in this world. In whatever circumstance, you can find the right girl for you.

Many men think that they should not get other girl when they aim at a girl. They tend to think that she is made for them and forget about other girl. As a result, scarcity mind leads them to disappointment. Pursuing girls is just a number game. If you try long and hard enough, you will finally get the girl you like.

Don't limit yourself to scarcity. Just focus on abundance and you will find that picking up girls is a lot easier.

2 Focus on positive thinking. Don't make reality your enemy. It is just the way it is. But we can change reality to the way we want as long as every moment we do something to drive our life to the direction we want. It may not happen now but it will eventually happen.

If you can think positively when you can not pick up girls, you will find out that you can do it better next time. In short period, you will become good at it. You will be able to master it finally.

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