Do you have a cheating husband?
This lens is all about catching a cheating husband. I know, kinda blunt, but most wives who have this problem are all to passive. They would rather choose to "wait for him to come to his senses". I say slap the senses back into him. :)
Firstly before talking about the methods we have at our disposal in catching a cheating husband, you must be absolutely sure you do have a cheating husband. To do this "lightly" we start our very own journal, or list, whatever you would like to call it.
If you're going to be using a notebook in real life you better be good at hiding it because if anyone (your husband!) sees that you've just blown your own cover. I suggest starting a free blog, or free website, or anything where you can keep your writings to yourself, preferably. You could also keep it public and just post anonymously. My recommendation is blogger.com or livejournal.com. Both of which have the option of hiding your posts or keeping it anonymous.
Why do we need to make a list? In order to keep everything organized and so we can cross out things that we know have legitimate excuses. We're going to list down every sign of a cheating husband we can find, and then later on question him about it. The more signs listed and crossed out, the better. I must warn you if you're going to do this, it will be very difficult and what you find out may be painful and cause you to want to leave him. Catching a cheating spouse is a difficult process, while most wives choose to wait, those that act now will end up not having to go through the most painful part, doubting yourself and questioning everything that has happened in your relationship.
Firstly before talking about the methods we have at our disposal in catching a cheating husband, you must be absolutely sure you do have a cheating husband. To do this "lightly" we start our very own journal, or list, whatever you would like to call it.
If you're going to be using a notebook in real life you better be good at hiding it because if anyone (your husband!) sees that you've just blown your own cover. I suggest starting a free blog, or free website, or anything where you can keep your writings to yourself, preferably. You could also keep it public and just post anonymously. My recommendation is blogger.com or livejournal.com. Both of which have the option of hiding your posts or keeping it anonymous.
Why do we need to make a list? In order to keep everything organized and so we can cross out things that we know have legitimate excuses. We're going to list down every sign of a cheating husband we can find, and then later on question him about it. The more signs listed and crossed out, the better. I must warn you if you're going to do this, it will be very difficult and what you find out may be painful and cause you to want to leave him. Catching a cheating spouse is a difficult process, while most wives choose to wait, those that act now will end up not having to go through the most painful part, doubting yourself and questioning everything that has happened in your relationship.
Signs of a cheating husband
These are the things you should watch out for when looking for hints or clues that your husband is cheating on you. Every sign of a cheating husband that you find, record it on your blog or journal. Then get to the bottom of each by asking questions and trying not to let on that you know what is going on. Catching him off guard will be easier if he thinks you are happy and content and have absolutely no idea about what is happening.Signs of a cheating husband:
1. He lacks the same kindness and sweetness towards your relationship. It's not like it was before, no random acts of sweetness, no nothing. It's just him doing what he needs to, and even spending time outside more with his friends. Or at least that's who he tells you he is with.
2. You almost never make love. Even if you want to, he usually shrugs it off or tells you he is tired. This is a very sure sign that he is cheating, if your man does not want to have sex with you, he is surely getting it from someone else. How long have you gone in the past, when everything was normal, without having sex? That's right, sometimes they don't even need you to be awake...
3. He starts working out. Even joins the gym! Think of the last time he was trying to improve his physical appearance. Was it when you were dating or when he was still trying to impress you? Yes, he is probably trying to impress someone else now, a new lover perhaps. If working out was never ever part of his daily routine, not to mention going to the gym, then you may have yourself a cheater.
4. Gets very touchy when you bring up the subject of cheating. This usually makes a cheating husband defensive, or the smarter ones, talkative. They will talk alot, hoping to change the subject and even joke about it saying that he is cheating on you, and he has been for ever. Joking about the obvious is just one way of trying to cover up.
More signs of a cheating spouse for you to log in your journal/blog.
How do I catch a cheating husband red handed?
Now that you have enough signs, you will want to get solid evidence.
There are a few ways we can catch a cheating husband using the power of technology. I will start with the absolutely most common ways of catching a cheating husband.Cellphone spies
These little gadgets can do anything from give you access to your husband's cellphone's text messages, to allowing you to listen in on the calls he makes on the cellphone! I'll have to warn you though, these may end up costing you $100-200. If you don't have any spare cash then you'd be best just confronting your husband straight away about his cheating. If you do have spare cash, these cellphone spies can help you gather solid evidence of your husband and his secret affairs.
Computer spy software
These gadgets can be in software or hardware form. They will record everything that happens on your computer or laptop in terms of keystrokes. Meaning every single thing key that is pushed on your keyboard, it will be recorded. Say he uses a secret email and you don't know about it, you can just open your keylogger memory and it will reveal the keys that were typed in, email account AND password.
GPS Tracking
These gizmos can be attached to your car, or added to a cellphone. Track your cheating husband's car live with this new technology. Once you have the GPS set up, you should "test" your husband and ask him where he is, if what he tells you does not match what is shown on the monitor of your GPS tracker, then you know he is lying.
Private investigators
This is the last option I put because it is so damn expensive. When you get to hire a private investigator(a professional with experience), you're basically set. It's considered as good as done, you will either get the good news, he is not cheating, or the bad news along with his video evidence and what have you. I say they are expensive because they usually charge upwards something like in the neighborhood of fifty to a hundred dollars per HOUR. If you are strapped for cash, settle for using keyloggers or cellphone spies. Cheap, and effective. That way you will also not have to tell anyone else of the affair he is having.
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