How to Keep Your Man? who are you dealing with?
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How to Keep Your Man - know who you are dealing with!
First of all, you've got to know that there is no such thing as loyalty. This is why people are always disappointed when their friend betrays them or their husband cheats or when that old lady you helped across the street won't testify in court to your whereabouts on September 3rd and she lets you get locked up for a murder you didn't commit.
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I know for some of you this will blow your mind but for those of you who can handle it, I will share my epiphany. Most people operate under a very simple principle: Before every action they make a calculation weighing out the anticipated pleasure of taking the action versus the anticipated pain of the consequences.
For instance, will your man cheat on you with a hot study partner or classmate when you're not around? Can you hope to keep your man interested when he encounters the hot girl who works in aisle 12 of the supermarket? Or with the lady who announces how many voice mails you have on your phone? (Yeah, she sounds pretty hot, too!)
Keep your man happy
No matter if you know how to keep your man happy, if your man has the opportunity, he will think about how much pleasure he would get from the encounter versus the chances he will be in pain. In other words, how likely is it that he believes you will catch him. What are the chances this will destroy his relationship with you? How much pain will he feel if loses you?
If he no longer values your relationship together, your man will be more likely to cheat... Girls do this all the time. Girls are MUCH more likely to cheat when things are going bad in their relationship - did you know that? Why is this true for women in relationships? Because the pain of losing the relationship is lessened because they might think the relationship will end soon anyway.
If he no longer values your relationship together, your man will be more likely to cheat... Girls do this all the time. Girls are MUCH more likely to cheat when things are going bad in their relationship - did you know that? Why is this true for women in relationships? Because the pain of losing the relationship is lessened because they might think the relationship will end soon anyway.
If your man feels like you're giving him hell..
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In general, a person is also more likely to cheat if they can JUSTIFY their actions to themselves. If your normally happy man feels like you are giving him hell, (not that you really are, but if he THINKS you are) then he can tell himself that this little boink-fest is deserved because he's put up with so much of your crap.
IMPORTANT: People have a natural aversion to doing things they think are wrong. They have to feel it's okay because of certain reasons. They convince themselves. They tell themselves a story of why it's OK. For instance: you wouldn't poison your friend's pet bird. But what if it was a really mean parrot that welcomed you by saying, "Hey stupid! You're uglier than drunk chihuahua having an orgasm!"? You might "accidentally" knock over its cage so it flies out that open window. Or you might "accidentally" put some bleach in its water, or "accidentally" stab it with a knitting needle 17 times in a bloody violent rage as it screams, "Help! Help! That really stupid ugly person is stabbing me!"
In general, a person is also more likely to cheat if they can JUSTIFY their actions to themselves. If your normally happy man feels like you are giving him hell, (not that you really are, but if he THINKS you are) then he can tell himself that this little boink-fest is deserved because he's put up with so much of your crap.IMPORTANT: People have a natural aversion to doing things they think are wrong. They have to feel it's okay because of certain reasons. They convince themselves. They tell themselves a story of why it's OK. For instance: you wouldn't poison your friend's pet bird. But what if it was a really mean parrot that welcomed you by saying, "Hey stupid! You're uglier than drunk chihuahua having an orgasm!"? You might "accidentally" knock over its cage so it flies out that open window. Or you might "accidentally" put some bleach in its water, or "accidentally" stab it with a knitting needle 17 times in a bloody violent rage as it screams, "Help! Help! That really stupid ugly person is stabbing me!"
what kind of man is more likely to be happy, interested, and satisfied with you?
So what kind of man is more likely to be happy, interested, and satisfied with you? You want a man who associates great pain with cheating. Not just cheating on you, but cheating in general. A man who would feel guClick here to get free, weekly relationship tipsilt. A man whose IDENTITY is based in being faithful. Just because a guy cheats at a card game doesn't mean he's gonna cheat on you in your relationship. But he's more likely. It speaks to his character. You've got to realize a man's desire for sha-boinking new women is tremendous, so it helps to know who you're dealing with when working to keep your man loyal!
How to Keep Your Man? who are you dealing with?
How to Keep Your Man? who are you dealing with?
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