How To Land A Guy

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How To Land A Guy

Us guys are a weird race. We talk big, we act cocky, yet that can still attract the attention of the vying female. Unfortunately, we are not always attentive to these shows of affection. We've all heard before that females are the more intelligent of the two races, but seeing friends who try so hard to attract guys and failing has influenced me to put up this Lens on how to land a guy. I'm not gay, but being male, I'll do my best to help females around the world finally achieve a connection with the opposite sex.

What Guys Like In A Girl

If you're a fellow guy reading this, something dirty just came to your head about a second ago. But for the sake of helping all the girls who simply just want to learn how to land a guy, this will be kept clean and simple. The following universal points are not meant to be sexist, but genuinely helpful.

1. PATIENCE.

Women are one of the most patient races on the planet. Childbirth, with possibly a day of labor, raising kids while juggling a career and putting up with us guys. What CAN'T women do? Notice that the above few examples are of women AFTER they're in a stable relationship, possibly married and after having kids. You're reading this BECAUSE you don't have any of the things above... yet. In our inner circle, we always talk about our missus, girlfriend or significant other complaining. Remember, we have lives as well. Things like anniversary's, birthday's and the like will occasionally be forgotten in the face of things ranging from examinations, preparing for the next job interview and meeting the parents.

2. LISTENING ABILITY.

I'm can't remember the source (alas, forgetfulness is another common trait of the male), but I read somewhere that females spoke 5 times the amount of words in a day, compared to a male. Guys feel attracted to girls who share a common interest and they would obviously learn about this from listening to what girls talk about, but most girls will unashamedly admit that they're guilty of verbal diarrhoea. This may be because they're nervous, or upset about something and don't get us guys wrong, we understand that. It sometimes is harder to get a word in when talking with a girl who's in a talkative mood, that is all. Talking is reciprocal process, and you don't want to be talked AT.

3. BEING YOURSELF!

This one is, without a doubt, one of the most crucial that guarantees your success at landing a guy. Guys will naturally gravitate towards a girl they feel more comfortable with. After we move beyond the bust and butt, attraction will be in full force. Everyone's heard of women's intuition. Well guess what? Guys have a variant of this and we can tell if we'll dig a girl in the long run. If a girl is comfortable with herself, she has something no one can take away from her: CONFIDENCE. A bigger girl who's comfortable with herself is infinitely sexier than one who might radiate sexiness all the time, but lacks substance.

Relationship Book Reviews

The 3 books below are written by relationship experts. They are experts in their own right, whether it would be through personal experience or from an education degree. These guys will show you how to land a guy better than anyone else; their satisfied customers are a testimony of this.

*All prices are in USD and are correct at the time of printing.

*Customer Satisfaction is based on:
-ease of use
-value for money
-number of refunds

#1: "The Women Men Adore" - Bob Grant --> $39.95

Customer Satisfaction: 9/10

This is one of the leading e-books in the online marketplace on how to attract a guy. Bob Grant is a Licensed Professional Counselor, therapist, and relationship coach for 16 years. Most of his clients are women, who sought his help in creating successful, satisfying, and fulfilling love relationships by simply understanding men. Here's a testimonial of one satisfied woman:

"When I found myself single again after being divorced in 1999, I dove into a series of relationships with men that started out strong, but eventually fizzled out. I didn't know what I was doing wrong. I've read dozens of relationship books, but The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave is the first one that really made me understand men -- and use that understanding to create and sustain a loving relationship, and become a woman that a man loves, cherishes, and never want to part with. I only wish I had known about Bob's proven method years ago. I could have had less heartaches and more fulfilling and enduring relationships. And I might have saved my marriage as well. This book is mandatory reading for all women!" -- Maria V., Beverly Hills, California

You'll learn things like:

- 4 words women should memorize in order to have happy relationships with men.
- how not to let past relations jeopardize the success of future relationships.
- why women continually drive away good men, or attract LOSERS... and how you can differentiate between impulses and feelings to never make a choice you'll regret ever again.

Dr Grant is so confident that you'll find his book useful that not only does he offer an 100% money back guarantee, he'll also let you read the first chapter of his book, FREE!

Click Here To Check Out Why Bob Grant Is Known As "The Relationship Doctor".

#2: "Passion Keys" - Steve Ubah --> Gold Package (5 Bonus Books) $49, Regular Package $39

Customer Satisfaction - 8/10

Passion Keys is being spread over the Internet by rejoicing women spreading the word that they've finally found a relationship book that details exactly what they're feeling and helps solve their "guy problems."

In "Passion Keys", Ubah suggests that men have around 30 "Passion Keys" which if you "hit" correctly, will trigger a reaction of attraction towards the person who hit it. Some example of these are:

1. Caressing his ego - Yes, I have a big ego. Your brother, uncle, father, guy mate probably does as well. It's behavior that hasn't disappeared despite our evolved state. Guys love girls who massage their egos. Rub it the wrong way, and you might have just lost another guy.

2. Communication models - Passion Keys totally turns the traditional on it head with what it suggests a girl who wants to land a guy talks to him about. You'd be surprised what it actually entails!

Passion Keys will be right for you if:

* If your man has lost his desire for you and has stopped making you the center of his attention.

* If you are not currently in a romantic relationship and you do not want to go through the stress and agony of trying to figure out how to make a man fall in love with you.

* If the passionate love in your romantic relationship has just evaporated and the things you are doing now to revive your relationship have been unsuccessful.

The Gold Package contains more information than just "Passion Keys" and for $10 extra, the extra information you get is a steal. The Gold Package is for those women who have put their foot down for being thrown around in the game of love and want more control.

Learn How To Play The Passion Keys Of Every Guy You Meet!

"Men Made Easy" - Kara Oh --> $29.95

Customer Satisfaction 8.5/10

Kara Oh is a renowned Relationship speaker and author of Marriage Made Easy and Women Made Easy, all respectable and impressive books on relationship in their own rights. Men Made Easy however is a league above these books. Kara Oh is also known as "The Heart Whisperer", with her uncanny ability to pinpoint the exact problem that's stopping you from connecting with the one you cherish and astounding skill to translate it into easy-to-understand language for you to study. Oh presents some truly unique and personal examples to help you improve your relationships with males. She engages with females on their level, achieving an intimacy something like an old friend would share with you. Three things she talks about in detail are:

1. Some of the things you are doing you are trying to do attract men which are actually pushing them away.

2. Why talking to your girlfriends about your guy problems is shooting yourself in the foot for future relationships. The reason is simple and you'll find out why, simply by clicking on the link below.

3. Why men in reality don't mind it when a female controls them - within boundaries of course - and why NOT doing this has cost you many potential beautiful relationships.

Let The Heart Whisperer Show You How To Land A Guy Right Now!

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