How to make a Girl fall in love with you?

Because most men's are wishing to see that the other men's are becoming unsuccessful,embarrass in front of girls, especially if somebody tries to approach the girl that they like.

This could happen in your high school or may be in your office or may be in your neighborhood or any other location you travel.

The time you spend mentally masturbating as you imagine yourself being really giant and glistening with power is much better spent doing things that will actually get you results once you open your eyes.

And faking confidence will backfire on you the second you get rejected, and you're going to feel like a fake, a loser, and a complete failure with Girls.

First off, I want you to understand that your lack of confidence comes from your current BELIEF SYSTEM.

If you get nervous around girls, or rehearse failure or bad things in your mind, it's because you've TRAINED YOURSELF to believe that way.

When we're born, we don't have a set of beliefs pre-installed within us. We are a blank slate! Completely free of any negative thoughts or beliefs.

But as we grow up, our experiences and our upbringing helps to shape that which we believe about ourselves. Sometimes those beliefs are correct.

Other times, those beliefs are dead wrong

For instance, let's say the first time you liked a girl in first grade, you tried to kiss her or something, and all the kids made fun of you for "liking a girl." So you were ashamed and suffered through all the teasing.

After that, you became afraid to approach a girl you liked because early on, you learned to associate that shame you felt when those kids ridiculed you with approaching a Girl you liked.

That's just one example. There are TONS of different ways we come to accept counter-productive beliefs.

So it's time to change those wrong concreted beliefs which were in your mind for years and resulted you fear and low confidence.

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If you're going to meet a girl, you have to know how to start a conversation with her.

There's just no way around it. You must engage her in some manner, and the easiest (and most accepted) way is to talk to her.

But this is where most men choke.

Have you ever been in a situation where you saw a really beautiful girl that you wanted to meet, and then suddenly your brain took a vacation and you simply

COULD NOT THINK OF A SINGLE THING TO SAY???

And then, before you know it, the moment has passed, the opportunity is gone, and the woman you wanted to meet is now gone forever!

Or worse yet...

You ARE able to think of something to say to her, but the conversation quickly fizzles out and the girl moves on, leaving you feeling like you've blown your chance!

Hey, we've all been there before.

Here's a FACT for you to chew on...

Being able to quickly engage a girl in a conversation DRAMATICALLY increases your ability to get them on a date!

See, when you have a conversation with another person, you're not just simply TALKING to them.

What you're doing is creating rapport and comfort with that person, which are the necessary building blocks of HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS.

Without rapport and comfort, there is no way you can get a girl to give you a serious commitment to see you again.

you must know the concept of "OPENERS" for All Situations

The Opener is a line you can use to start a conversation with a girl that has the ability to lead into a larger conversation and more interaction with her.

It's the catalyst of every interaction you'll have with a girl.

Usually, I recommend you have 3 openers memorized and ready to go, so that once one runs its course, you have two more ready to go to carry on that conversation.

Here's one you can try out for yourself:

"Hi, this'll only take a second -- I need a female opinion on something. My little niece (or cousin, or sister, or daughter) has a birthday coming up, and she's at that age where she's really into
stuffed animals, and I'm wondering... do you think a little girl would like a stuffed tiger or a stuffed unicorn better?"

Now, after saying this, she may ask you questions about your niece, like how old she is and what she likes.

Tell her that she's young (like 10-12) and that she has so many stuffed animals already, but you know she doesn't have a unicorn or a tiger.

When the woman you're talking to answers, ask her why she thinks that's the way to go.

Remember this is to just for start off...there are many great openers

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You know what? When you're single, meeting Girl can be a real chore.

Seriously, it almost gets to the level of being a "full time job." Going out night after night, going to club after club, bar after bar, facing rejection after rejection... it's hard to do.

And because it's hard, it can get frustrating.

People can sense that frustration on a man. Most men can, and women DEFINITELY can.

One thing to remember is that you project your attitude to the world at all times.

If you look like you're angry and frustrated and bored, people aren't gonna want to be around you because you'll drag them down into your mood.

But if you go out with ulterior motives to meeting women, like going to a club because there's a band there you want to see, etc.,you put yourself in a position where you can enjoy yourself whether you meet Girl or not.

Now, we all know it's hard to project that "happy-go-lucky" attitude all the time. And it's especially hard to do it at will.

That's why, if you're doing things you enjoy, you don't have to worry about WORKING to feel good, because it'll come naturally.

And you'll be able to carry those feelings with you wherever you go.

Remember this: A guy who's having fun is INFINANTLY more attractive than one who isn't.

That is why the "fun factor" is very important to meeting them!

See, females are empathetic creatures by nature, they are more in tune with their emotions and the emotions of people around them.

When you're having fun and projecting that energy, the Girls around you will pick up on it and be drawn to you because it's a pleasurable energy, as opposed to being frustrated and nervous, which almost always pushes others away from you.

So remember to do things YOU like and have fun. Eventually, the women will come around.

But what about the times you simply aren't able to have fun? What then? Should you just count out Girl all together?

Of course not.

Being able to turn emotions and feelings on and off is what is commonly referred to as "State Control."

Actors in movies and TV are very adept at this, which is probably why they're so successful. They can control what they feel and how they interact with others AT WILL.

Imagine what it would be like to instantly "turn on" those feelings of fun, excitement, and sexuality. For a moment, imagine how girl will react to you when they feel your energy while experiencing those states.

Can you imagine that this is a valuable skill to have?

State Control all comes down to how well you know yourself and are able to BE AWARE of what you're feeling at all times. And this comes down to your "inner game," which encompasses things like confidence and beliefs.

Most guys have a lot of trouble with their inner game. They feel stuck, helpless, afraid... and all those emotions lead to the same frustrations that drive women away from you when you're not having fun.

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Have you ever seen any of those cheesy dating shows on TV? You know the ones I'm talking about, where a camera crew follows a guy and a girl around on different dates and sees if they're going to "hook up" or not?

I must admit, these shows are guilty little pleasures of mine. But you can actually
learn a LOT from watching them.

For instance, there's always a point in these shows where you can tell if the guy is going to score with his girl or not.

This usually happens over dinner where they're actually forced to interact with each other as opposed to going out and doing stupid "fun" activities the producers of the shows set them up on.

This is where the man and the woman actually get to know one another and find out if they're "compatible."

But the thing is, if you watch these shows closely... there's a pattern as to which guys get the girl and which guys don't!

And typically, this pattern has to do with one thing:

THE GUY'S ABILITY TO FLIRT.

And when I say "the guy's ability to flirt," I'm talking about the guy's ability to introduce a SEXUAL energy into his interaction with the woman.

If a guy doesn't know how to flirt with a woman, he's going to fail to arouse any type of "spark" or "chemistry" between the two, and she's not going to be interested.

This can either be from a complete LACK of sexual energy, or too much sexual energy.

If a guy is too afraid to introduce the sexual element into his interactions with women, they're not going to look at him in a sexual manner.

They may enjoy his company, they may even like him a good deal, but they won't be able to turn that into a "romantic" feeling.

On the flip side, if a guy goes too far and pours on the sexual element, this is going to turn a girl off, because there's no mystery or challenge.

If you take the game out of the "game playing," you don't have a chance to win.

Remember, though women enjoy sexuality, if you focus too strongly on it, they're going to feel as though you only want to use them for sex, and they won't want to be with you if that's the case(though there are exceptions to that rule, but for the most part, that's how it works).

So the trick is to introduce the sexual element into your interactions with the woman, but keep it subtle and slowly escalate it!

This is because flirting communicates to the woman you're with that you're interested in getting sexual with her, and you're giving her the opportunity to do the same with you.

So the real trick when it comes to flirting is communicating your sexuality in a non-threatening and fun way.

To flirt with a woman, you need to display two things:

1. Male sexuality
2. Confidence

Remember:Women are empathetic and emotional. They respond to strong emotion and feelings.

This means if you effectively send out your male sexuality and confidence when flirting, women WILL respond to it!

When it comes to communicating these traits, the non-verbal element is always more important than the verbal aspect.

Too many guys think that just by chatting up a girl, they will be able to successfully get her attracted.

WRONG!

Actions speak louder than words.

Women will pick up on what you do way more than what you say. Your body language, voice tonality, and gestures will communicate all you need without you actually having to say anything.

For instance, let's say you see a beautiful
Girl and you walk up to her and say

"Hello."

Now, depending on how you walk up to her, and how you say hello, you can communicate anything from "You are the sexiest girl alive and I want to make mad, passionate love to you," to "I'm just being polite and I'm not interested in you a tall."

When you communicate your male sexuality, you must show that you're interested in a romantic interaction with a woman.

Making jokes about sex, talking about sex, winking at her, teasing her... these are all ways you can communicate your sexuality.

When it comes to the confidence aspect, it comes down to you not being afraid to communicate your sexuality to her, and not making apologies for it.

Often times, a guy will make a forward comment to a woman, and then retreat with a "I'm just kidding," or "I didn't mean that," type comment.

This is the wrong thing to do.

If you look at a woman and playfully say something like "I know you WANT me," and she looks at you funny, stick to your guns.

Don't retreat. Take it further. Tell her "You're trying to seduce me. You're trying to get in my pants!" Just keep it light and playful, and she'll come around.

And if she doesn't, it might be time to find a new woman to flirt with.

Flirting can be quite powerful because it not only communicates your interest in the woman you're with, but HER interest in YOU.

If you flirt with a woman and she flirts back by playing along -- guess what?

IT'S GAME ON!

If she doesn't reciprocate, chances are she's not interested and you're wasting your time.

use your skills at reading body language and flirting to gauge where you're woman is at and how far you need to take it.

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See, there are a lot of guys out there who don't have any problem meeting girls and talking to them.

But for some reason, they just can't quite keep the conversation going to a point where they're able to ask the girl out.

Let me make something clear:

THE WHOLE POINT OF YOU MEETING A GIRL IS TO ASK HER OUT!

So if you fail to do that, then you've just wasted your time.

Seriously, unless you were just bored and looking to pass the time by chatting someone up, you've accomplished nothing.

Whenever you see a girl you want to meet, your goal should be to

GET HER OUT ON A DATE.

And in order to do that, you have to build a certain amount of trust and comfort in her before she will willingly give you her (correct) phone number.

I know guys who can get a girl's number within a couple minutes of meeting her.

But the quality of that number isn't always the best.

About 90% of the time, it's a fake number the girl gave him just to get away from him, and the other 10% of the time, the girl isn't interested enough to go out with him.

So going for the number too soon before you've created enough trust and comfort could dramatically lower your chances of seeing her again.

So here's what I recommend...

When you first meet a girl, it is usually a good idea to have at least three openers and three stories memorized that you can talk to them about.

Be sure that the openers and stories are good, open-ended, and interactive conversation pieces.

Then, you're going to STACK them.

What do I mean by that? Let's break it down scientifically...

Let's say you have Opener A + Story A.

You meet the girl with Opener A, which leads into Story A. As soon as Story A runs its course, you change topics with Opener B, which then leads into Story B.

Then you repeat the process with Opener C and Story C.

See how that works?

In my experience, by the end of three stories, the woman usually feels like she knows you enough and is comfortable enough with youto want to see you again. THIS is the time to get her number!

I know that some guys might find this prospect scary, because this could be where she rejects you.

The thing I want you to remember at this point is that women KNOW when a man approaches them, they're interested in them.

And if you DO NOT ask her for her number, she will assume you actually AREN'T interested in her, or don't have enough balls to act on your interest, and move on.

DO NOT FALL INTO THIS TRAP!

Even if you KNOW you're going to crash and burn with this girl, ask for her number anyway!

That's the whole GOAL of the interaction, so if you're going to fail, fail all the way.Don't leave the woman you were talking to feeling like you didn't cross the finish line.

Remember: You're going after the DATE. Get it or die trying!

Here's the sequence I usually follow when getting the date:

1. Invite her out right then and there. Either
I'll ask her what she's doing right now and if
she wants to get a drink. If that's not
convenient, I'll ask her if she wants to
meet up later that night.

2. If she says "Yes" to meeting up later, I'll
then ask for her number. If she says "No," I'll
still ask for her number because I like her and
I want to see her again.

3. Finally, I'll ask her when a good time to call is.

That simple 3-step process will get you a TON of dates.

Setting up the next meeting during the initial interaction is ideal. If you can't do
That gets her number and tries to set it up later.

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(After all, the best ones are always taken, aren't they?)

Well, now I reveal to you EXACTLY how to do it.

"Have Her Begging For It Despite A Boyfriend Or Husband!!!"

Here's the million dollar question every guy wants to know the answer to at one time or another...

"How Do I Attract A Girl Who's Already In A Relationship?"

Face it: If a girl is worth her salt, chances are she's already "seeing" someone.

This means you got some hard competition, buddy.

Have you ever had a situation where you met the girl of your dreams, and she was already taken by some other guy?

Well, here's the good news...

It IS possible to get the GIRL you want, even if she is currently seeing someone else.

Here's the thing:

if a woman is truly happy in her current relationship, there is NOTHING you can do that will make her cheat on the man she is with.

What does this mean?

Simple... it means that if a girl cheats on her boyfriend with you, then chances are she wasn't happy with that relationship anyway.

So now that you're off the hook morally, how do you go about "wooing" her away from her man?

Well, there are a few things you need to focus on if you want to get the other guy's girl...

The first is your INNER GAME.

This has to do with bolstering your confidence and belief system so that you become WAY more appealing than the man she's currently with.

The second is CONNECTION.

You have to form deep emotional bonds with a woman that will short-circuit her logic centers and guilt about cheating on her man - to the point where she just CAN'T HELP HERSELF!

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Seriously, most guys who have the toughest time with women think that no matter what they study, it won't work for them because their case is unique and different from every other guy out there.

Well, I'm here to tell you you're wrong.

I've learned through experience that most guys are not very different from each other, just as most girls aren't very different from each other.

In fact, a friend of mine summed it up best when he said:

"All women are different. But not THAT different."

The same goes for us dudes.

We all have the same fears and insecurities. We just deal with them differently. Most guys deal by shutting down and not even trying to improve.

Rather, they take the easy way out and just blame the world, other women, their circumstances, etc.

They even blame themselves, yet they prefer to beat themselves up rather than take responsibility to IMPROVE their circumstance.

There's a name for that type of guy, and it's:

L-O-S-E-R

But the thing is, they don't have to stay that way. All it requires is a little hard work and effort on their part to CHANGE THEIR LIFE FOR THE BETTER!

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Hi Guys,

I have a question for you...

Have you ever heard that old says "Nice Guys Finish Last?"

Well, I'm here to tell you that saying is 100% true! But not for the reasons you may think.

Being a "Nice Guy" with women doesn't work,not because you get too caught up in what a girl wants and get stuck as a friend, but because Nice Guys are typically very, very...

SELFISH!

That's right. When you're a "Nice Guy," you're not really being nice, you're being EMOTIONALLY GREEDY.

Let me explain...

One of the biggest problems guys who are struggling with women face is something I like to call "the Nice Guy factor."

So many guys have such a weak identity and so little self-esteem, that they base their own self-worth on what other people THINK OF THEM.

These guys are at the mercy of everyone else in their lives, so they try their best to please the people around them,hoping they'll continue to think highly of them, so they can feel good about themselves. That's not so bad, right? It feels good when others approve of you,doesn't it?

Most people look at this behavior and would instantly categorize these poor men in the "Nice Guys" column.

After all, they're the ones who don't like conflict. They're the ones who don't want to make waves. They're the ones who want everyone to be happy.

They are also some of the most selfish people on the planet.

Seriously. I know this because I used to be one of these people, and I know all their dirty little secrets!

And the point of this newsletter is to make everyone who thinks of themselves as "nice" or as a "victim" really, really pissed off!!!

All of you "Nice Guys" out there reading this are nothing more than "people pleaser's." Somewhere in your life, you found out that pleasing people is a way to get other people to like you and admire you so you can feel good about yourself.

Whether it was the acclaim of your parents,or the acceptance of your friends, somewhere in your time on this planet YOU LEARNED to feel good based on what other people think of you.

But I'm here to tell you that using other people's feelings and goodwill like that is not only harmful, but dishonest!

Anyone who says "I can't stand conflict!"or "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all!" should do us all a favor and move to the planet "Ideal" where life is wonderful, we all have transparent heads, and there is no war.

Only on this planet will you be able to find that everyone is willing to give you the moral support you need.

But that's the crux of the issue right there. All you "Nice Guys" have a losing mentality about your need for support. Your methodology is: "I am so loving and giving and nice, I expect you to treat me the exact same way as I treat you!"

Here is the typical thought process of Nice Guys:

"Don't disagree with me! It's not fair because I do so much for you!!!"

"Please be sympathetic and comfort me when I'm upset! I'm needy and can't comfort myself."

--"Always be in a good mood. I am always trying to make you happy and if I can't, I feel ashamed and mad at you!"

"Pay attention to me when I need it! I've earned it after all I've done for you!!!!"

"Take care of me by doing what I'm afraid to do! I take care of you, so you need to return the favor!!!!"

Look at those thoughts above, and ask yourself "If someone was saying that to me, how would I react?"

Now you know where women are coming from when they don't want to have relationships with"Nice Guys."

Once that happens and the needy demands of "Nice Guys" go unmet, they fall into the deep pits of self-pity and depression.

They also feel a lot of shame and anger at their failure to please the women they want, and though these "Nice Guys" can keep their pleasant demeanor up for a long time, their resentment of the women they want to please will grow and grow until it
explodes in anger and rage, either directed at others, themselves, or both.

This kind of mentality can extremely damage your self respect and cause others to not want to be around you.

So what's a "Nice Guy" to do?

If you want to have success with women, you need to stop being agreeable and instead be straightforward and honest, especially when you have to go against the wishes of others and disappoint them. You can do this with kindness and sensitivity, but you MUST do this nonetheless.

Only by being honest, with yourself and with others, will you be able to overcome the selfish "nice guy" habits you have adopted in your life.

And when you do this, you will stop caring about what other people think of you because the source of your validation comes from the fact that you're being true to yourself and straightforward with others, and you will cease to harbor resentment and anger, and have more self respect and less depression.

That is the only way I have found to truly stop being a "Nice Guy" and become the type of man other people can respect.

It can be hard being honest with others (especially yourself), but in the end it is far more rewarding than any other behavior you can adopt.

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One of the hardest things I had to figure out was what to do AFTER I meet a Girl.

I mean, flirting is good, and it's a powerful tool. But you need to have a framework that will allow you to use it.

And that framework is...

STORY TELLING!

Yes, I know, that sounds dumb, but bear with me...

When I was struggling to meet women, I was able to get to the point where I could talk to them, I could even flirt a little with them, but after that, the interaction just petered out.

Basically, I couldn't think of anything to talk about! And the girl would get bored,and eventually move on to something more interesting.

Then, one night, I was out with a friend of mine who's naturally good with women, and we went to a bar. Now, I had never really taken the time to sit back and observe what this friend of mine did, but this night, I decided to hang back and watch him work.

And I was SHOCKED at the results.

I came to realize that I was doing everything my friend was doing, EXCEPT telling stories!

The funny thing is, I've heard his stories so many times, that I learned to tune them out when he'd retell them to women. What I realized was that though I was bored with the stories, the girls
were completely captivated by them!

It's funny, because most men who are naturals with women are usually good story tellers. They're able to tell a story that's so entertaining, you can't help but have a good time with them!

Remember this: Storytelling = Entertainment = Good Time

And if you can show a woman a good time, they'll always want to be around you!

Now, another interesting fact about naturals with girls, is that they always tell the same stories over and over again.

This is because they perfect their stories every time they tell them, and they also know which stories work to get the girls they're talking to interested!

But these stories all have something in common, no matter who is telling what story. There's one common factor that binds them all together.

It's the "secret" of every natural ladies man anywhere, and I'm going to share it with
you right now.

THE STORY IS ALL ABOUT THEM!

That's right. They talk about themselves.

There's a very specific reason for this that I'll get to in just a moment.

The first thing you have to do is KNOW SOME GOOD STORIES.

They should be stories from your life that are entertaining. Beware boring stories! They will KILL the vibe of your interaction.

Next, when you meet a girl, ask her some questions about herself. Simple things like "Where are you from," or "What do you like to do."

Keep asking her about herself until you find something you can relate your story to.

For instance, if she's from Chicago, and you have a story about living in Chicago or visiting Chicago, that's the perfect time to tell it!

It's important to tell stories that relate to the woman's experience, because that helps you to create a sense of connection with her.

It's a way of creating a common experience you both share. Remember that old phrase "We have so much in common!"?

Well, that's important because people gravitate towards that which is familiar. And the more familiar you can make yourself to her, the
easier time you'll have getting a date.

Finally, make sure you're story is about YOU! I mentioned this before, about how most naturals just talk about themselves, but there's a reason for doing this beyond seeming self-centered.

When you tell a story that's fun and entertaining, where YOU'RE the main character, others will associate their good feelings that story
creates with YOU.

The more good feelings you can associate with yourself, the easier your job becomes,because trust and comfort are created in your audience.

That's why so many Girls are attracted to rock stars and musicians. Their songs create such good feelings inside them, they associate all those feelings to the people playing the songs!

You're doing the exact same thing, only instead of music, you're doing it with words.

If you know how to craft your own stories and all the elements you need to have in place to totally captivate a Girl and get her interested in you.

If you can create your own stories where you're the main character and others will have fun listening to you weave your tale, I guarantee you'll start to have amazing success with women.

Wishing you success with GIRLS,

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If you don't, you really should.

It's been a long week, and there are going to be a lot of women looking to go out tonight and blow off some steam.

You should take advantage of this!

Remember the best Friday Night locations:

1. Bars
2. Clubs
3. Coffee Shops
4. Malls/Galleries
5. Concerts

There are any number of places you could go tonight to pick up women.

But before you do, be sure to brush up on:

1. Body Language Reading
2. Flirting Techniques
3. Opener Strategies

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