How To Meet A Ghost

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An unexpected adventure at a Paranormal Conference...

This may sound strange, but I didn't expect to meet a ghost at a paranormal convention! In hindsight, I had to wonder why we didn't meet more...

On June 5, 2009, paranormal enthusiasts gathered at the Hilton Hotel in Atlanta, Georgia for a weekend of classes and lectures about ghosts, psychic awareness, and other paranromal activity.

It was the weekend I discovered I attract spirits...some people are "chick magnets," I'm apparently a ghost magnet! With the help of four friends from the Ghost P.R.O. team, I got to know someone I never thought I would ever meet at all...

Back To Through The Veil

It's that time again!

As you will read in this lens, last year was so exciting! What will this year's conference bring?

We'll find out this week! Bring your equipment because you never know what might happen...

Read more about the Through the Veil Conference, in the lens below!
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"Something's Happening Here..."

(And happening again. I just discovered the original module had disappeared...)

[Note: I was updating lenses when I discovered the original module covering this part of the story had disappeared! Fortunately I have a copy of the story...]

After the spring of 2009, I feel like I am walking around like the Verizon Network guy. Not the old commercials where he was always asking "can you hear me now?" though I used to feel that way. I now see myself backed up by that huge crowd that never ever leaves...and I'm okay with that. I don't think I would have been even a year before, but I am now.

I made the decision to become a professional psychic medium in the spring of 2009, intending to use the ability to create art and music, and write and teach, rather than do any readings. When I get impressions, I don't hear or see things as much as feel them. I read energy, I recognize essential energy signatures (a unique feeling about each of our energies that remains pretty constant) and I feel the positive or negative state of an energy when in contact with it.

As an empath, I feel the emotions first. As a singer, who has long done a type of improvisational music called freesong, I finally realized that I could help people recognize the states of their own energy by singing freesongs that reflect the energies that I feel. I absolutely love doing this! I have found that people enjoy having this done for them.

Yet I also found out that I can do the usual psychic things - that I can hear, see, and get the messages more than I used to. It's all becoming clearer the more I use the abilities.

This ability to connect with conscious energy has become stronger every day. That clarity came home to me through a number of events in 2009: some of them I will leave private, but one, in particular, will not stay private at all, because it happened in public, and I had people to share the experience with me.

I attended a paranormal/metaphysical conference called Through The Veil held in my hometown Atlanta, Georgia, on the weekend of June 5 - 7 2009. Organized by Michelle Barbiarz and counting among its speakers the wonderful Chip Coffey, whose personal discussion board I have been moderating, it was a nice sized, intimate gathering of practitioners and fans.

Early on the first evening I was talking with the astrologer Maxine Taylor when an attendee named Mimi was testing her new EMF detector nearby. An EMF detector measures the electro-magnetic field in an area, and is used as a fairly effective way of detecting unusual energy fields, sometimes revealing whether an energy field is conscious. We know this is possible when the detector begins to react to questions and requests.

We didn't realize we were about to do that very thing.

The detector went off when it pointed my way. I suggested Mimi hold it up to the lights and towards the wall to see if the electric wiring in the area was responsible, but the signal picked up around me. I asked if there was anyone in the area, if they could step away from me.

The signal stopped.. I asked them to come back. The signal started up again.

We got to a point where I asked the entity to sing - to make the signal rise and fall in strength, like singing a song.

The meter rose and fell, paused, and sang again...

At this point, the activity was just "cool!" and the three of us went our separate ways. I told a TTV staff member about what happened and she asked why I hadn't videotaped it? I then realized my camera was around my neck! Shoot!

Going back for a second round...

Earlier I had met with a member of the Chip Coffey discussion board, Catherine, who had come to the conference with members of her paranormal research group Ghost P.R.O.Team, which operates in South Carolina. I told them what had happened, and they said they had come with equipment in tow - armed and ready!

We agreed to meet in the entry hall at 11:30, and see what we could pick up. Janet handled the EMF detector, Mariel handled a still camera and a digital, Katie took still pictures, and I had my video running from my point of view, so we had all angles covered. Catherine was the observer, and paid close attention to everything going on...

Working with the Ghost PRO team...

Flashes of conversation....

The Ghost P.R.O. Team's video of our K-2 meter conversation with an unknown entity

The members of the Ghost P.R.O. Team who helped me are Catherine, Janet, Katie, and Mariel. In the video: Janet is handling the K-2 Meter, Catherine and Katie can be seen moving in the background. You can see that I am taking video of the K-2 meter. This is the video Mariel took of the incident. We were so excited by what was going on, and it shows: People are milling around us, including Chip Coffey from the A & E shows "Paranormal State" and "Psychic Kids;" We didn't care: the entity using the K-2 meter to communicate with us had all our attention...

The following video, though marked as part 2, is actually the first of the videos made of the encounter. The noise in the background is karaoke - few people had a clue of what was going on outside the door!

We are having a lot of trouble in the first video because so much activity is going on; the second video shows more K-2 activity when the entity gets used to what is going on...

I would bet anything some of the people singing in the background are glad you can't see who they are! ;)
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But Wait! There's More!

In the video above, Michelle Babiarz Griffin pointed out there are EVPs (electronic voice phenomena) going on, that you can hear in spite of all the noise. Start listening just before 1:20 to 1:30 and tell in the Comment section below what you hear that doesn't quite fit in...

What caused this picture?

On looking at it, it's obvious someone was using a flash behind Mariel's camera...

There's one small problem:

No one was behind Mariel taking pictures. Look at the videos. Katy stood in other areas taking photos. No one else was taking part.

Mariel had her video camera in one hand and her still camera in the other. The cameras were held several feet apart.

We haven't been able to explain the shadows in the pictures.

The second video of our ghostly encounter...

This video shows much clearer activity. By this point, the entity got used to what was going on.

Included in this video are pictures that look like someone is using a flash camera to take pictures from behind Mariel as she took pictures. There is just one problem with this: Katy, who was also taking pictures, was not in the area Mariel was standing in when the pictures were taken, and no one else was taking photos at the time! It also doesn't explain how several of Mariel's photos just happened to have a background flash going on at the same time - one photo would make sense, but several - no.

But hold on to your hats, it was after all of this that things really started getting truly strange...
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Orb or dust? What do you think?

Of the number of photos taken this weekend, orbs only seemed to appear in two areas.

Orbs in videos and photographs are too often thought to indicate a ghostly presence in a room. This is rarely the case. Orbs in photographs are usually caused by light flashing on dust, moisture, or other particles in the air.

In order to determine whether you are dealing with energy orbs, you need to see the overall behavior in your video or photographs. Did the orb seem to have some control of itself, moving in a specific pattern, showing up in another photograph, or was it one photo and it's gone?

You can also ask any possible entity to cooperate, as we've been doing in these videos: For example, go to a spot, raise your arms, and ask the entity to create an orb btween your arms. If that next photo shows an orb right where you asked it to go - bingo!

The pictures taken during this weekend had a good number of orbs in them. Yes, a lot could be dust; But the fact that the most orbs were photographed during our session and whenever the main conference room had panel discussion using a lot of professional psychics - well, you be the judge: Dust or "ghosts?"

A close up of this picture is at the top of this lens.

Orbs

Are they dust or ghosts?

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We thought we had seen it all...

And then I went home...

I left the hotel just minutes after the last video was taken, and unloaded my camera's files onto my computer. I had a number of still shots, some of them from before the event. I always load the files as they are on the camera and relabel after I work on the photos in Photshop; that night I was in a special hurry to get them loaded, because I wanted to get to bed.

One glance at the screen after the files loaded made me stop.

The files were all titled: Lizzie 001, Lizzie 002, Lizzie 003...

I reopened the camera files and looked at the files on the screen: DSC001, DSC 002, DSC 003 - wait a minute -

Some of the files had different numbers than the duplicate files that were now marked Lizzie.

I opened the movie files and found something else that was strange: I had taken more than ten minutes of video. You can see in the videos that I have my camera aimed, and I was constantly checking to make sure that the camera was running. The following is all the video I had left: why would I have only a clip from the middle of everything I took?

My short but revelatory video

This is all I have left of over ten minutes of shooting. Seeing that this stops when I demand "sing for the lady!" I think the entity was definitely letting me know she didn't like that... I had my ears boxed, in a way!
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The Lizzie Files

Why would the files rename themselves?

Yes - it's possible that I could take the time to rename and renumber each and every file to freak people out. The technology is easy.

But to THINK of it - why do it? It certainly wouldn't be a joke worth staying up all night for - and I was exhausted.

The change was as instant as loading the pictures on the computer. I re-opened my camera disk and the files were still there with the original DSC names and numbers.

Moreover - some of the files were in a different order. For example: why is that old picture of my Christmas tree where it is, right after a picture of Chip Coffey?

Eventually that order would make sense: I had removed some photos from my camera disk before I went to the conference, and the Christmas tree was still there with its old file number of 10; the new photos moved up in order, and took new numbers.

But - I didn't have any file on my computer named lizzie. No photos, no document, nothing. I searched several times. I had never named a file lizzie myself - it's not a name I was fond of - for reasons that I will soon reveal. How did that name get onto these files?

After two days of pondering this...

When I came back on Saturday I told the GHOST Pro Team and others some of what had happened - but I didn't reveal the name on the files. I hoped the scheduled group seance Saturday night would draw whoever Lizzie was out - but the name was never said, and there were too many energies in the room.

We were sorry it didn't happen - when you have a series of events like this, you start hoping for more and more and more. As it was, other things happened: a psychic friend left an e-mail message for me to be on the lookout for a man with a walrus mustache. Eventually he showed up - a man who worked for the hotel suddenly walked up to me and said "what took you so long to get here?" I asked him why would he say that? He didn't know...But I did. I shied away from psychic work for most of my life. Now I couldn't deny it any longer.

It took me a long time to figure something else out: I needed to have more information from the entity. I crashed with the GHOST PRO team for the night, and got up very early the next morning, to figure out what to do.

It's then I remembered I had a pendulum with me.

Using a Pendulum for communication

How can a pendulum give a clear answer?

I looked far and wide for a good video on youtube about using a pendulum - and ended up roflmao - at lot!

Let me tell you this:

- A person cannot keep from influencing a pendulum with movement.

- However - a pendulum can give you answers that defy the movements that are "naturally" made.

My favorite place to use a pendulum is outside on a windy day. When you have strong movements that defy both wind and your own movements - I have a tremor, so I shake all the time - then you have something more than physical movement going on. You are tapping into energy.

When you watch a person using a pendulum, as the videos I watched all showed, you are going to see movements in the arms and hands. Of course that will make a viewer skeptical - and it should!

I use a method in which I cut down on my own movement possibilities. I use a crystal pendulum with a bead on the end of the chain that I can wedge at the web between two fingers, where I can't use any muscles in my hand; then I lay my arm on my lap and let the pendulum swing between my legs. I will still have motion, but less subconscious control of the motion.

I don't accept any motion unless it is strong and seems to be pulling away from me, not with me. I don't trust any movement that feels like I could be making it. But I've been working with a pendulum so long, I do communication work quickly now, because I know by feel when it is being moved by something other than my own motion.

I have linked to the video in this module ONLY because the maker gives a clear concise explanation on the basics of using a pendulum and uses the board that is a help in getting started.

I know he's moving the pendulum. We can see it, he can't.

Sigh.
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There was a Lizzie after all...

An even more unexpected visit from someone I never wanted to know...

I went down to the hall where we had all our experiences in the quiet of early Sunday morning, sat down with my pendulum, and asked if the entity was there. The pendulum leapt on the chain, eager to get started. With only yes, no, and I don't know answers available, it took an hour to get the jist of what was going on, but this is the condensed version of our communicatiion:

Lizzie was not attached to the hotel or the area the hotel was in, because she had no clue what I was talking about - she just kept saying yes, when I asked the question "do you belong here?"

She was an entity of quick changing moods, perturbed one moment, and like a child the next. The shifts showed in the speed in which the pendulum swung.

She had not liked me asking for her to sing for people (see the videos) when we were using the K-2 meter; she did want to be around me. Maybe. She didn't like the other people and a question about the crowd made the pendulum jump!

So, after that hour, while we had gotten further, I didn't have a lot.

I knew of one possibility, but I kept shoving it down. My mother had been adopted as a child; her natural mother's name had been Lizzie. Lizzie was a terrifying idea for me as a child, because my mother kept saying how she was afraid that Lizzie would come and take her away from the family that made her happy. The stories gave me nightmares.

When I got home from the conference, after I had downloaded more photos from my camera, and they STILL all said lizzie, I took out my pendulum and finally asked:

Lizzie are you with me?

Yes.

That's what she had meant by being "here."

I won't tell you what the next hour was like, at least not in detail. My grandmother finally became a human being for me, not a monster that might come in the window, as I had dreamed as a child. She turned out to be neither very good or very bad. She came because she knew my spirit guides, and they had asked her to come. I think my guides asked her because she would be the one spirit contact I would never think of on my own. They love to give me surprises!

I asked her things I now wanted to know. She answered. That's for me to keep now. We parted ways. But I've made my peace with her, and hopefully some peace for my late mother.

I finally found a picture of Lizzie, and now there is a file I set her name to, on the computer.

However: the name lizzie no longer appears when I download pictures, from that same camera disk. onto my computer. Lizzie got my attention, and no longer needs to write her name...

Other Ghosts Along The Way...

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"I don't believe in no ghost!"

The debate never stops...and sometimes it gets toasty over a ghosty!

Have fun and use your imagination if you've never encountered one; if you have , remember that people who have never been through this really don't have a clue of what it's like, so cut each other some slack...

Do you or don't you believe in ghosts?

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I believe in ghosts!

MsBiz says:

If we were less self-absorbed in nonsense, we would be able to hear them.

oxfordian says:

P.S. 'The Ghost and Mrs. Muir' staring Gene Tierney and Rex Harrison is one of my favorite movies!!

oxfordian says:

I live with one!

Sharon says:

i do believe in ghosts, actually my school is full of them!

Autumn says:

I'm terrified of ghosts,but I believe.But I like the story of New London Ledge's ghost and when i went there on a tour, for some reason I wasn't scared like I am in other haunted places.I felt safe actually.

I believe it's nothing but imagination!

thesuccess says:

I've certainly been in places which ought to have been crawling in ghosts!

 
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Using a pendulum to communicate

I've been using pendulums for years, for dowsing, divination, and other energy uses. This is how I communicated with Lizzie when we had our little "talk." They are easy to use, and a great way of learning how to use your psyhcic energy, and to trust your own abilities.
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  • bakerwoman Nov 13, 2011 @ 11:05 pm | delete
    This is a very interesting lens that is riveting and kept me reading. Thanks for sharing your experiences with so mauch details. Blessed by a Squid Angel.
  • fefe Oct 23, 2011 @ 1:45 pm | delete
    Hi...looks like your page is already blessed but it deserves another so I gave it one and linking to it from my Do Ghosts Exist lens... I'm kind of a skeptic but pages like this really make me wonder!
  • WhiteOak50 Aug 11, 2011 @ 6:12 am | delete
    After finally catching up with the Angel School Bus, I am fluttering around Ghost Hunting-ville to drop off some Blessings. Just wanted you to know I am here because your page caught my attention. Leaving you with a *Blessing* for doing such a great job on this page.

    Also just wanted to let you know that I will be featuring this page on Scariest Places on Earth
  • nimmo Nov 2, 2010 @ 6:28 am | delete
    my inlaws' home had a guest who would not bother someone unless they did something to upset that entity. but one thing was sure most of them felt it
  • Jewelsofawe Nov 10, 2009 @ 9:27 pm | delete
    When I was a child my grandmother's home had a ghost. I did not like him.
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