I Learned How To Save My Marriage From Divorce || And You Can Too!

My husband (Allen) and I married right after college. Although we had met during high school, went to prom together, and went to the same college (because of each other), we decided to delay the wedding until we could financially support ourselves.

After our wedding, the economy took a turn for the worst. His job in the construction industry took a huge hit, and we ended up moving from our roots in California. Although the economy was not much better here in Washington, it kept him employed. Soon after we moved up here, I became pregnant. A week before I was due, he lost his job.

It was wonderful having him around during the first month after having the baby. However, we soon realized we were in a lot of trouble. Added expenses and no income meant our savings were being absolutely tapped.

Allen finally got a job, and I picked up a few extra dollars by baby sitting the other children in our area. I wanted to get back to work, but I also wanted to take care of our son. Allen took on a second job as he thought this would ease tensions in the household as we would have less to worry about financially. However, it only made things worse.

Allen was never a drinker, however I noticed he went out with his friends more frequently and we always seemed to have beer in the fridge. He became shorter with me and I took my frustrations back out on him. It wasn't that we didn't love each other, it was that everything else seemed to be mounting against us and we had nowhere to turn.

I needed to save our marriage from divorce.

I knew we could work things out, we just needed help. We needed guidance. And, we certainly did not have the funds or time to visit a counselor. So, I did the next best thing. I hopped on line and began searching for a way to save our marriage from divorce.

Remember that marry is a contract, an oath that you took in front of your family and friends and the priest or judge.

Why do you feel that is appropriate to break now? Divorce is not necessarily the answer. Every married couple goes through troubles. Why do you feel that you are the only one?

Divorce is seen as the easy way out because all you need is an inexpensive attorney will to do it and some legal paperwork. This is great if you have no assets or kids to deal with. However, things can get real dicey real quick.

Think about how much you have invested in to this relationship. Think of everything that you and him built together. How can you place a greater significance on the importance of resolving your marital affairs? Trying to go at it alone can cause more heartache than anything else. This is why you need to seek the help, even if they are self help guides, to help get you through your marriage troubles.

It would only take a few days as I lucked into finding an amazing eBook by Amy Waterman. I signed up for her 6 day course, and I could notice the change in attitude. If anything, I think just the positive reinforcement after realizing that I had a marriage worth saving.

She talked about things that didn't pertain to me, like extra marital affairs, I can only imagine dealing with that. But even then she suggested remedies as reasons why those marriages should be saved.

After the 6 day course I gave in and purchased Save My Marriage. After reading I applied the techniques and lessons I learned on how to save marriage from divorce.

It's been 9 months and I have to happily say even though our financial situation has hardly improved, we are happily on our way to our next child, and our future. I wanted to say thank you to Amy for teaching me how to save marriage from divorce and I am happily telling others about it.