How To Subtly Flirt With A Girl

Flirting with women is all about showing your interest towards women but with a sense of intrigue and mystery in that. Flirting per se means SUBTLE interaction. It's that rush which a woman gets when she comes in presence of you. She knows that you are not just being social. You are social when you respect her personal space and don't intend to break into it. But when you are flirting, you are signaling that you are interested into breaking into her personal space, but you do that in a very playful, acceptable and subtle manner.

One thing that is rumored in the so-called seduction community is that you CANNOT show your interest in the girl. This is just so wrong. It's not that you have to show interest, but one of you HAS to show interest to create the right chemistry. If you don't convey your interest in the girl then the right vibe is NEVER going to be created and if the vibe isn't there, she won't feel THE thing.

• Use your body language, facial expressions or indirect words to show your sexual interest. This creates a sexual vibe yet keeps the intrigue.


• Maintain comfortable yet strong eye contact.


• Have a cool smirk on your face. This keeps her disarmed.


• Be confident - this is ultra important!


• Be playful. This makes the whole matter lighthearted and spontaneous.


• Give her sincere compliments


• Touch her, accidentally or sexually overt at times. Kino transmits sexual passion.


• Use sexual innuendoes and double entendres. Just implant the sexual desire into her mind.


• Listen to her. She wants to be heard and cherished. By the way, learn more about what she wants here.


• You are to make the first move UNLESS she is ballsy enough to put the onus on herself.


• Use props when you go out from home. Anything from dogs, cool accessories, great perfume, anything will do. They persuade conversation.

• During the initial stages, don't be too overt or direct. Be encroaching into her personal space but in a steady calm controlled way.


• It's better to avoid the direct sexual language even into the later stages. It just keeps up the tension.


• Don't use cheesy pickup lines.


• Don't TRY to be cheeky. In fact, don't TRY. Trying kills the rhythm.


• Don't be pushy on the girl. If you push, you lose your respect in the eyes of the girl. And respect forms an important part of flirting and sexual tension. Check this article on my blog.


• Don't be too serious.


• Don't ever interview her.


• Don't try to buy or beg her affection.