How to Throw an Anti-Valentine's Day Party

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Single, lonely and bitter for Valentine's Day 2012?

Do you Hate Valentine's Day and are convinced that you need to have some fun and happy times on this dreaded day? Why don't you throw an Anti-Valentine's Day Party for all your single friends? You will have lots of fun, so no need to be sad on February 14th this year!

This site has all the Valentine's Day Ideas you need to make your I Hate Valentines Party a success: angry music and movies, Anti-Valentine's day gifts, Anti Valentine's day party decorations, anti-Valentine's Day Party Invitations, Valentine's Party Games and more. Your Anti-Valentines Party will hopefully be so popular that you'll have couples wanting to check it out in 2013!

Ground Rules for your Anti-Valentine's Day Party

If you're going to have a fun time that doesn't turn into a "I'm single pity party" then you need to make it clear that it isn't going to be that on your invites. Some of my ideas for rules:

1. No one is allowed to invite their ex or even mention his/her name.
2. You are not allowed to utter the dreaded V-Word the entire night. The dreaded L-Word (love) can be avoided as well.
3. You must not bring any chocolate, wine or champagne to be consumed.
4. Do not wear anything pink or red.

You can make a point system to enforce these rules. Play some games to win points and deduct some points for violations of these rules. Bonus points can be given for most delicious food brought or best party outfit.

Invitations for your Anti-Valentine's Day Party

It's My Party! Make Your Own Party Invitations and Cards - Activity Kit

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This is the perfect kit for making your own, creative party invitations. It contains enough cards for 12 invites.

Party Ideas and Decorations

anti-valentines day, i hate valentines day, anti-valentines day partyKeep the party happy and humorous but it is okay to modify common Valentine's Day themes for your own usage. For example, use black hearts, cut in 1/2 with a jagged edge. Of use pictures of cupid with his head cut off. Whatever you do, don't use pink or red! You can have vampires or bats attacking cupid. Have some pictures of famous people whose marriages ended in bloody divorce.

Some Decoration Ideas for your Valentines Party

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Music for your Anti-Valentine Party

anti-valentines day, i hate valentines day, anti-valentines day partyThere are plenty of anti-Valentine's Day music CD's and MP3 Downloads out there. The easiest thing to do would be to buy some, and your music planning is done! I've listed a few below for you.

Anti-Valentine's Day Music on Itunes

Track Artist Album  
Dance, Dance (String Quartet Tribute to Fall Out Boy) Vitamin String Quartet Valentine's Day Massacre: The Emo Anti-Valentine's Day Collection
Hey There, Delilah (String Quartet Tribute to Plain White T's) Vitamin String Quartet Valentine's Day Massacre: The Emo Anti-Valentine's Day Collection
I Write Sins Not Tragedies (String Quartet Tribute to Panic! At the Disco) Vitamin String Quartet Valentine's Day Massacre: The Emo Anti-Valentine's Day Collection
Cute Without the 'E' (Cut from the Team) [String Quartet Tribute to Taking Back Sunday] Vitamin String Quartet Valentine's Day Massacre: The Emo Anti-Valentine's Day Collection
The Quiet Things That No One Ever Knows (String Quartet Tribute to Brand New) Vitamin String Quartet Valentine's Day Massacre: The Emo Anti-Valentine's Day Collection
Ohio Is for Lovers (String Quartet Tribute to Hawthorne Heights) Vitamin String Quartet Valentine's Day Massacre: The Emo Anti-Valentine's Day Collection
A Boy Brushed Red - Living In Black and White (String Quartet Tribute to Underoath) Vitamin String Quartet Valentine's Day Massacre: The Emo Anti-Valentine's Day Collection
Your Guardian Angel (String Quartet Tribute to the Red Jumpsuit Apparatus) Vitamin String Quartet Valentine's Day Massacre: The Emo Anti-Valentine's Day Collection
Screaming Infidelities (String Quartet Tribute to Dashboard Confessional) Vitamin String Quartet Valentine's Day Massacre: The Emo Anti-Valentine's Day Collection
The Artist In the Ambulance (String Quartet Tribute to Thrice) Vitamin String Quartet Valentine's Day Massacre: The Emo Anti-Valentine's Day Collection
A Box Full of Sharp Objects (String Quartet Tribute to the Used) Vitamin String Quartet Valentine's Day Massacre: The Emo Anti-Valentine's Day Collection
The Ghost of You (String Quartet Tribute to My Chemical Romance) Vitamin String Quartet Valentine's Day Massacre: The Emo Anti-Valentine's Day Collection
Buried a Lie (String Quartet Tribute to Senses Fail) Vitamin String Quartet Valentine's Day Massacre: The Emo Anti-Valentine's Day Collection
Blood Red Summer (String Quartet Tribute to Coheed and Cambria) Vitamin String Quartet Valentine's Day Massacre: The Emo Anti-Valentine's Day Collection
Fireflies Vitamin String Quartet The Emo Anti-Valentine's Day Collection, Vol. 2
Welcome to the Black Parade Vitamin String Quartet The Emo Anti-Valentine's Day Collection, Vol. 2

I hate Valentine's Day Party Music

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Prizes for your "I hate Valentine's Day Party"

anti-valentines day, i hate valentines day, anti-valentines day partyOf course you'll need some prizes for your anti-Valentine's Day Party. The perfect gift is an anti-Valentine's Day T-shirt. Everyone at the party probably feels similar to you about this holiday and now they can show the world.

T-Shirts for your Anti Valentine's Day party

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Drinks for the party

anti-valentines day, i hate valentines day, valentines day party, single on valentines dayForget the wine and champagne, and just go with hard-liquor or beer. Include lots of cola and juice options for mixing, or for those who aren't drinking alcohol. A perfect choice for beer would be a stout, such as Guiness. Anything dark in color, representing a black heart.

Or, how about a Bloody Mary? It's easy to make:

Per one drink:

* 1 1/2 oz Vodka
* 3 oz Tomato Juice
* 1 Dash Lemon Juice
* 1/2 tsp Worcestershire Sauce
* 2-3 Drops Tabasco Sauce
* 1 Wedge Lime

Shake everything except lime wedge, in ice. Pour into old-fashioned glass. Add some salt and pepper and a lime wedge.

Bloody Mary Accessories

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Guinness: the perfect drink for you Valentine's Party

Guinness Pub Glasses, Set of 4

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Guinness is the perfect beverage choice for your anti-Valentines Day Party. Dark, and brooding. Serve it in some authentic glasses.

Anti-Valentine's Party Ideas: Food

For food, some basic ideas would be hearts, broken into 2. Let the guests decorate their own cookies or a heart-shaped cake, with a jagged line running down the middle. How about some skewers with chicken on them. Include some spicy peanut dipping sauce. Whatever do you for the main dish, include lots and lots of garlic. Have some black jellybeans on the table.

Or, just go for delicious and make some nachos!

Make a Broken Black-Heart Cake for your Party

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Nachos are the perfect party food

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Heart-Shaped Cookie Cutter

Kaiser Bakeware Heart Cookie Cutter, Set of 6

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In 6 different sizes, this is perfect for your party.

Anti Valentines Ideas: Entertainment

anti-valentines day, anti-valentines day party, i hate valentines day, single for valentines dayA movie is always a good plan, at least to have on in the background. A comedy or something light is the best choice. Here are a few of my top movie picks for an Anti-Valentine's Day Party:

My Bloody Valentine
Obsessed
Valentine
Fatal Attraction
What Lies Beneath
Twisted

And of course, everyone likes party games. Look online for some ideas or check below for some of my recommendations.

Anti-Valentine's Day Movies

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Party Idea Book

The Little Black Book of Party Games: The Essential Guide to Throwing the Best Bashes

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The best party game book. So many good ideas that you'll have hours of fun at your party!

Party Games and other Valentines Party Ideas

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About this Valentine's Day Hater

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What are your ideas for an Anti-Valentine's Day Party?

  • Jolene_Belmain Apr 2, 2012 @ 1:28 am | delete
    Well I love Valentine's Day, but I know of people who would love to read this lens lol.
  • TomMaybrier Feb 3, 2012 @ 5:44 pm | delete
    Amazing!!!
  • girlfriendfactory Feb 2, 2012 @ 9:31 am | delete
    Love it! I'm an Anti-Valentine's Day fan and have been for a long time - even when I had boyfriends and was married. It's an excuse for people to be nice and sweet and say I love you one day a year and that's just wrong. lol I have a line of Anti-Valentine things at my store even and Muriel, the anti-cupid runs it. ;)

    This is worth a Flyby from Muriel and it can be found among the other blessed lenses for today at Flyby Wingings! They may call me an aimless wanderer, but not all who wander are aimless and I'm glad I wandered upon this. ~Ren
  • Emi Szczepaniak Jan 31, 2012 @ 1:26 pm | delete
    Cheesiest pick-up line contest!!!!
  • Helene-Malmsio Jan 30, 2012 @ 6:18 pm | delete
    What a fun idea for a Valentines day party lens!
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