Make Your Love Unique

Women need to know their man is thinking of them when they are apart! They need to know and be reassured that you care! It help us women to feel good about ourselves as well as reassures us that you in fact do love us and you love us so much that you went out of your way to show us how much you care!


I know that the typical male does not think about this as much as women do, which is why most men are not that romantic! It's not that they don't care, or don't want to be romantic it's simply because they just don't think about it. It does not mean they don't love the one they're with, it just means you are with a real man! That's not to say that the guys who are romantic aren't real men, they are either a little sensitive or they are dating/married to a woman who reminds them they need romance.


I am going to give you some ideas on how to show your special lady that she's in fact special to you! You can use mine or it might spark some creativity! Anything you do to say I love you will mean something to her regardless of what it is!

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This is THE cheapest way to romance! It may not cost anything but believe it or not it's what women crave the most. Most women would rather have affection than anything else in the world!
What I mean by affection is simply this:

give her a hug
touch her without trying to be sexual
kiss her passionately
just look at her
cuddle
say nice things to her
hold her hand better yet do it in public!
put your arm around her

and any other form on non-sexual form of affection you can think of!
Believe it or not if you show your lady some affection without expecting anything in return I can almost guarantee she will be more willing to love you back the way you want to be loved. She will also be happier, and everyone knows a happy woman equals a happy home!

Snuggle
I know most guys do not like cuddling...but it's one of the many things women look forward to when going to bed with her man! Cuddling lets a girl know you will protect her, it gives her security as well as keeps her warm! Tonight when you go to bed pull your sweetie close and let her know how much you care!!

Flowers
What girl doesn't love flowers!! I realize most guys think they are a waste of money because they just die, but there are solutions to that problem! You could either pick your own wild flowers (which happens to be my favorite, and also shows that you even did the work to get the flowers yourself!) or you could buy fake flowers!



E-Cards or Regular Cards
You could surprise her with an e-card in her mail box, or even a card with a little note on the inside waiting for her on the table! (or wherever she happens to look first)

A Simple Phone Call
Call her on your lunch break just to say I love you! It lets her know you were thinking of her, and that you miss her!

Dinner and a Movie!
You could even make her dinner! How nice would that be!!

Romantic Journal
Give her a notebook and ask her to record her romantic wishes ... take the time to read it every week, then make her fantasies come true!

Mixed CD
Make her a romantic mixed cd (song suggestions above) and include a personal message telling her how much she means to you!

Note
Leave her a note every morning, before you leave for work, letting her know how special she is to you!

List of Promises
Write out a list of promises, sign it, and put it somewhere she will see it everyday.

A Compliment Can Go A Long Way!
Don't forget to tell her she's beautiful and amazing! She needs to hear it from you!!

Say I Love You
Make it a point to never leave or sleep until letting her know you love her!

Bubble Bath
Surprise your lover with a bubble bath! Run the water, light candles, put on some romantic music, and then sit in there with her and let her tell you about her day!

Footsie
It never gets old!

2nd Honeymoon
Plan a secret get-away for the two of you!

Mystery Date
Surprise her with reservations at her favorite restaurant and a babysitter!

Read a Book Together
She will love it, especially if it's your idea! I suggest Love & Respect, by Dr. Emersen Eggerichs!

Take a Class Together
Let her choose something that she's interested in, then agree to take a class with her in order to learn more about it!

Star light Star Bright
Grab a blanket and take her outside to gaze at the stars.

Fantasy
Fantasize about her, then tell her what you were thinking!!

Just Because
Leave roses in her car, just because.

Take out the trash


Help with the dishes


Sweep the floor


Throw a load of clothes in the wash
*Make sure you seperate the colors*


Pick up after yourself


Wipe off the table after dinner, or better yet clear the table!


Give your children, if you have children, a bath!


Choose one day of the month to let her sleep in!


Vaccum.

E-mail
Send yourself an e-mail then make it's own folder and call it the special occasions name and date. That way every time you open your inbox you will see it!

Calendar
Write it down on a calendar or organizer that you use frequently.

Cell phone
Most cell phones come with reminders, set your cell phone so that an alarm will go off on a certain day reminding you that today is her birthday!

Post-It's
Write it on a Post-it and stick it somewhere you look frequently, but preferably somewhere she doesn't normally see, such as your work place.

Memo to Me
Memo To Me is a personal reminder service that will send you notifications by e-mail absolutely free reminding you of a certain holiday, anniversary, birthday, etc!!

Birthday Alarm.Com
A free service that will remind you of birthdays, provide you with links to send cards, or even send flowers!

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