If The Buddha Books by Charlotte Kasl
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Getting Unstuck
If the Buddha Got Stuck: A Handbook for Change on a Spiritual Path
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"Buddhism offers a gentle... understanding of being stuck and getting unstuck," writes Kasl (If the Buddha Dated), referring to a variety of stubborn problems that can interfere with life, including feeling intractably "bored, scared, protective, petty, exhausted, afraid or unfulfilled." In 60-plus brief chapters featuring discussions and therapy-type strategies deeply rooted in Buddhist teachings, Kasl guides readers on a journey of self-discovery. She begins by inviting them to notice where they are stuck, and then asks them to simply "show up" to life with a sense of "fascination and curiosity." She implores them to be mindful and to trust in the power of engaging reality directly without interpretive lenses (acknowledging difficulties in a relationship, for example, instead of making excuses). She then explores the importance of connecting with others, of acting on insights and the "ultimate step" of letting go the temporal self, an act that brings "abiding happiness." Throughout, she intersperses exercises to help readers engage the lessons more personally. Kasl's approach is compelling: her discussions are simple but never simplistic; her tone is warmly inviting but not obsequious; and her insights are both penetrating and accessible. Occasionally her supporting illustrations veer into the cheesy, but overall Kasl offers a challenging, practical and disarmingly effective approach to getting out of life's ruts.
An excerpt from If the Buddha Got Stuck
Let Go of the Outcome
Everything turns out one way or another; it's just the way it is. You can have a loosely held preference without creating turmoil inside. You can say, well, I really wanted to have that work out, without saying it was bad and unfair that it didn't Life is unfair and lots of plans won't go as we expect.
A Special Gift For Any Buddhist
Chinese Feng Shui 5 Layer Crystal Pagodas
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A crystal pagoda is a symbol of an enlightened mind.
Finding Love - If The Buddha Dated
If the Buddha Dated: A Handbook for Finding Love on a Spiritual Path
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This book is filled with wisdom such as the following from If the Buddha Dated:
"No matter how you feel at the prospect of dating - clear and confident, or nervous and tenuous - the task for all of us the the same: to walk the path of knowing who we are, learning to see others clearly, and dropping our images and expectations so we live more from our essence. This allows us to take the dating plunge into union."
Send a Green Tara Card
Once You Are Hitched - If the Buddha Married
If the Buddha Married: Creating Enduring Relationships on a Spiritual Path (Compass)
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Reviewed By Kat Lynn
Although, I do not know a lot about Buddhism (historic details as some of the other reviewers do), I can say I found the book an excellent, inviting and uplifting read. It impacted my relationship in a profound way. I think partly because it was not "clinical" nor written in an analytical style. The flow and read of the book was so wonderful, it brought down my defense mechanisms and made me consider what was most important. Each chapter deserves real think time -- and you may wish to read it together as a couple. Maybe a chapter each night before you go to bed.
It is a book of great enlightenment. It's what you do with it that counts. Several chapters struck a chord so deep, it moved me into a whole new realm. I can not give this book enough stars. I recommend it to all who are in a relationship and are striving to stay together over the long haul. You can spend a couple of bucks now, or a whole bunch later on therapy, post divorce.
Is Marriage the End?
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If the Buddha Had Kids
If the Buddha Had Kids: Raising Children to Create a More Peaceful World
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The wise and insightful If the Buddha books have won Charlotte Kasl thousands of devoted readers. In her latest work she turns her attention to parenthood, a stage of life that leaves most of us searching for answers. If the Buddha Had Kids applies Kasl's signature blend of spiritual guidelines, exercises, and practical advice to help parents raise peacemakers in our increasingly turbulent times, emphasizing that finding peace within a family is the first step towards creating a peaceful world. In an age where most kids clock more time with electronic devices than their parents and dinner is often fast food on the way to a soccer game, this gentle volume will appeal to the legions of readers eager for an enlightened alternative to mainstream parenting books.
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Meditating Buddha Amulet Pewter Pendant Necklace
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Comes ready to wear with a jewelry black rope necklace (not pictured) or you could put it on your favorite chain/necklace. This piece is a fine crafted pewter pendant necklace. It is made from the highest quality 100% pewter inside and out. Nickle-free.
Listen to If the Buddha Were in Love
If the Buddha Were in Love
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What Would Buddha Do?

What Would Buddha Do?:
101 Answers to Life's Daily Dilemmas


If you enjoyed the If the Buddha books, you might also want to check this one out. Buddhist Spirituality contributor Metcalf applies sacred Buddhist teachings to road-rage, maxed-out credit cards, competitive co-workers and more in this tidy gathering of insights that serve as brief but astute reminders that enlightenment is obtainable, even when you're stuck in traffic. Metcalf "plumbed a deep reservoir" of Buddhist practices, texts, rituals and myths to uncover practical, soothing and surprisingly contemporary advice on topics such as addiction, personal identity struggles, relationship conflicts and financial worries. Each page begins with the phrase, "What would Buddha do?" and then considers his enlightened behavior in taxicab queues, kitchens and offices (Buddha, for instance, would defeat office enemies with grace).
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What Would the Buddha Recycle?: The Zen of Green Living
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If the Buddha were alive today, he'd be the living embodiment of green living. He'd be collecting cans on the freeway, riding his bike to work, and replacing all his light bulbs-one little satori at a time. In this book you can channel His Holiness, reduce your footprint, and experience little Aha! moments when you
* Eat mindfully and lose the meat
* Make a Zen garden that nourishes the earth
* Choose sustainable clothing
* Meditate while walking instead of driving
* Let go of attachment to things by giving away belongings
Living green is living Zen. Now you can take right action and walk a green talk, starting today-just think how proud the Buddha would be!
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