Do Indian Men obsess over dating White Women?

There is a great distance between Indian men and white women which must be closed, if a white woman is to find an Indian man a suitable partner. What does an indian man bring to a woman? Indian men are raised to respect women. India is the only country that has several holidays that celebrate women, where men are made to vow that they'll protect their mothers, or sisters, or wives etc. In fact, there is even a "sin" in the indian culture, if a indian man touches a woman by his feet, he must apologize and ask for forgiveness from GOD, because it's a sin. Most indian men are caring, family men. They are educated and strive to be something in life. They have great careers. So, you would think that a woman would be happy to have an indian man. Quite the contrary.

The FOB syndrome- Fresh off the Boat indians have created a bad taste in non-indian women. I take that back, even in Indian women, who've were born or raised here. Indian men are friendly with each other. That's our culture. We aren't gay. But women here don't like that friendliness. We are casual when we aren't working. Yes, and that means, short sleeved shirts and khaki pants with slippers. It's taught in our culture, that facial hair, like a mustache or beard is good for a man. So most of us have a mustache. And then the curry. Yes the dreaded curry, and the odor of it in our skins. There are 100 different types of curry foods we can eat, but there's only 1 curry way to turn off every one around us.

What is an indian man to do when it comes to dating non-indian women? Answer is simple. He must change some of his style. Clothing. Appearance. Odor. But most importantly, his mentality. The one mentality that is extremely important for an indian man to understand is that unlike in Indian culture, where a woman they marry becomes "theirs", in western culture, women appreciate 'freedom'. That freedom doesn't stop in a relationship. That freedom cannot be controlled by Indian men, or for that matter, any man. Therefore, men must appreciate and allow their women the freedom. To allow women their freedom is the most seductive potion that i have encountered. Instead of wearing casual clothes with slippers, let her slip away sometimes. Let her be the master of her own destiny. Learn to be a cheerleader for your woman when she makes the right choices. And if she doesn't, it is still her choice, maybe not agreeable with you. And therefore, you have the ability to exercise your freedom, and not be with that person. Ultimately, freedom and relationship balance out, when two people equally desire the right amounts of each.

I recommend two blogs that are a must read. One is an Indian men white women dating Guide http://www.indianmendatewhitewomen.com/indian-men-white-women-dating-guide

Another blog is a general blog on steps you can take to get any woman to love you http://www.womantoloveyou.com/get-a-woman-to-love-you-steps

Happy dating!