Is Separation Good For Marriage?

Anti-separation proponents say that marriage separation is plainly dangerous, because this time apart may be so attractive and peaceful, that both spouses may prefer this peace to their marriage. Instead of helping to save the marriage, marriage separation draws spouses apart from one another and becomes a prelude to a divorce.

Marriage separation, set up the right way, will often help to amend the marriage. In order to work, separation has to be planned and agreed upon in advance. Things that have to be done:
- Setting a time line for the separation in advance (3 months are a common time line).
- Setting the goals, that are planned to be achieved during the marriage separation.
- Planning a moderate communication schedule. Avoiding "dangerous topics" while communicating.
- Deciding, who the children will stay with, and how often they would see the other parent.
- Agreeing on not having any sexual relations with other people at the time of the separation.

Marriage separation may not help one couple, and it may work wonders for another couple.

The main feature about marriage separation is a tentative agreement on all of the aspects of the separation. Separation, which startled one of the spouses, will most likely not work the way it should.

However, if a marriage separation was planned out and agreed upon in advance, separation can really help the couple to sort out their issues, to think over their behavior and feelings, becoming a real eye-opener. Just a few weeks without the stress of everyday quarrels may help the dust to settle, and helping the spouses realize how much they really need each other, thus helping to resolve many problems.

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