Kids and Money: How to Teach Wealth Habits to Your Kids

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Kids & Money: Teaching Wealth Habits to Your Kids

Aha! You've joined the ranks of those wise parents who have realized that you'd like to spare your children the burden of repeating your money mistakes?  (or, of the poor money lessons that you were taught as a child?)  Do you want your kids to learn NOW - while they're young - the money wisdom and skills that you are acquiring on the "Get Out of Debt Now" or "Law of Attraction" paths that you are (fortunately) now on?

Would you like your kids to learn Abundance and Wise Money Management now, when they're young?  Would you like your kids to build strong habits that will help them save, spend and donate money wisely?
 
Great!
 
But, how do you do that?
 
Hmmm, you could:
 

  1. Attempt to take everything you've learned about getting out of debt, money management, savings, allocation, allowance, investing, abundance and law of attraction, and distill it down to some core elements
  2. Then, take those core elements and figure out how to convey those concepts to kids into a fun, easy method
  3. Then, take that fun, easy method and figure out how you, a busy parent with busy kids, can actually implement that method into your daily lives
  4. Then, use trial and error to arrive at a fun, easy system that really works with your real-life busy family


Or, you could:
 
     1.  Get my book, The Kids' Bank Book which has done all of that work for you already.

Hmmm, what to do, what to do . . .

If you teach your kids great wealth habits now, they'll enjoy financial abundance and freedom when they're adults. 

Do you want some pointers and a jump start?  Then, this Squidoo page is for you!

 

 

Teach Your Child How to Help a Child

What better cause to donate to than giving a child food, water and shelter?

With Save the Children, your child and your family can actually connect with the child that you are helping.

Wow!

Save the Children is the leading independent organization creating lasting change in the lives of children in need in the United States and around the world. Recognized for our commitment to accountability, innovation and collaboration, our work takes us

Fun Counts!

When it comes to kids and money, fun counts!

3 words: Charlie Brown's teachers

Remember their voices? "Wah wah wah, wah wah wah wah"

That's what your kids hear as soon as you speak about money - regardless of whether what you say is kind, brilliant, lecturing or in pseudo-kids-lingo.

What to do? Speak less, do more

WHAT???!!! It's true and can be done.

[Charles Schultz was a hero of mine, along with Walt Disney & Jim Henson, growing up. His Charlie Brown image is from The Official Peanuts Website. Peanuts does not endorse me or my book or this Squidoo lens; Charlie Brown's image here is simply to illustrate the "wah wah wah" voice of his teachers.]

Get Wealthy - Do Good

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and find out how
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If you get VERY WEALTH,
you can do LOTS of GOOD!

3 TOP Reasons Why Piggy Banks & Traditional Banks Fail

a.k.a. Why you wouldn't be caught dead using a piggy bank to teach wise money management and wealth habits to your kids.
  1. Piggy banks fail to teach any money habits, financial strategy, discipline or planning.
  2. Piggy banks reinforce negative habits and beliefs. For example: "put all your money here and let it sit there being useless, and when you want or need money, then dig and scrape to get to it, and count it, maybe you'll have enough, maybe you won't." That fails to work as an adult, so why train for that dysfuntional mentality now?
  3. Piggy banks fail to allow for today's paper-bill dominated society. Every try to squish a $10 bill into a piggy bank slot? It's offensive what you have to do to the money in order to put it into its so-called-place - it is antithetical to the whole idea of responsibly caring for your money. We teach kids to make their bed, fold and hang their clothes neatly, keep their homework organized, but then, when it comes to money - just crumple it into a ball and jam it into the so-called-bank.

1 TOP SOLUTION - 4 Part Wealth Bank

[aka Giving Bank, Abundance Bank, or Tithing Bank]

What to do? Make the simple, or elaborate, version of the 4-part abundance bank in The Kids' Bank Book, which has step-by-step instructions, and lots of How-to Tips.

Want the bare bones version now? Go to my Squidoo lens on How to Build a 4 Part Kids Wealth Habits Bank.

[But, I know you're gonna want the gorey details later, so there's a link on that Squidoo lens for the Book that gives you all the how-to secrets.]

How to Make a 4-part Kids Wealth Bank

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4-part and 3-part Kids Banks

Get a bank that will be somewhat sturdy, that your kids will think looks cool & goes with their style, and that EMPTIES easily. If possible, get one that can accept dollar bills easily too!
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TOP 7 Reasons Why Parents come to us

You want to teach your children Wealthy Habits because:

  1. You've watched "The Secret" or attended/read Law of Attraction workshops/books, and want to pass this wisdom to your children, especially in the financial area
  2. You've read "Rich Dad, Poor Dad" and want your children to learn its lessons - now, before they are your age
  3. You want to spare your children all of the negative beliefs that you or others grew up with about money (e.g. it doesn't grow on trees, more money means more hard work, scrimping means saving), and you want to replace it with positive, abundant-minded beliefs and actions
  4. You come from a donating, tithing, charitable background, and want to pass that value system on to your children, while giving them a sound, balanced understanding of how money works
  5. You want to spare your children the pain of becoming buried in credit card debt or other consumer debt - but you don't want to hand them everything on a silver platter either - in other words, you want them to learn wise money management lessons early
  6. You are wealthy and want your children to have an appreciation and understanding of money that they won't acquire by simply enjoying your comfortable lifestyle, or by simply getting a job
  7. You want to save your children the pain of waiting until they are 30, 40, or 50 years old to "get it" when it comes to money

3 KEY "HOW TO" STEPS to teach Wealth Habits to Your Kids

[from "The Kids' Bank Book" e-book available at www.KidsBankBook.com]

I had a tough time narrowing it down to just 3. Here they are. [Gosh, lawyer-writers have soooo much to say!]
  1. Money generates more money - if invested - and that More Money is called Return On Investment (ROI). Kids can and DO learn what ROI is almost instantly because of how the Kids' Abundance Bank is set up.
  2. An Abundance Bank has 4 sections:
    - More Money
    - Spending
    - Holiday/Birthdays (to spend on gifts for others)
    - Donations
  3. Giving kids an allowance and ROI is giving kids the tools to practice how to handle money so that they will develop a rock-solid HABIT at an early age. Without the tools they can't practice. Sure, they can get a job, but now you have just convoluted and complicated the REAL message - how to handle money once you get it. Have concerns about kids' jobs v. allowance? The important thing is that you get to determine the amount of the allowance and the ROI. The Kids' Bank Book helps you with these numbers. Visit the website or read the book for a more detailed discussion.

FAQ: Frequently Asked Questions

  • Q: How early can I start teaching my children about money management skills?

    A: Children as young as 5 years old will embrace the money system that you will teach them from The Kids' Bank Book.
  • Q: Should I buy a special 3 or 4 part bank for my child to use with The Kids' Bank Book system?

    A: Absolutely Not! There is no bank on the market that sufficiently addresses all of the aspects that are necessary in a good money management bank. The Kids' Bank Book will tell you how to create a simple or intricately beautiful perfect bank for your children to enjoy while learning great wealth-building skills.
  • Q: I don't think I have good teaching skills, how will I be able to take what The Kids' Bank Book says and teach it to my children?

    A: The Kids' Bank Book has both step-by-step instructions of how to talk to your children when dealing with money, AND an easy-to-use system that your children will embrace quickly. You'll do less teaching and more enjoying watching them use their new money skills.

Allowance Questions

Got Allowance questions?

Why? (to give it)
For what? (in exchange for what, if anything)
When? (how often)
How much? (10s, 20s, 30s?)
For what? (to be used for what)

Then see my Squidoo Allowance lens.

My Favorite Quote about Children - and Life

"A baby is God's opinion that the world should go on." by Carl Sandburg

We all have a desire to teach that child to Be, Do and Have better than our generation. The Kids' Bank Book is just one more tool to help the World go on just a little bit better.

Great Creative/Thinking "Toys" for Kids

These are GREAT items! Isnt' quality a wonderful thing? [My comments are in brackets at the end of the prefab description.]

Butterfly Garden

Butterfly Garden

Grades Pre K & up. Watch 5 caterpillars de more...0 points

On The Farm, Kids & Critters, Storybook Characters (Draw Write Now, Book 1) by Marie Hablitzel

On The Farm, Kids & Critters, Storybook Characters (Draw Write Now, Book 1) by Marie Hablitzel

Grade: Kindergarten - 3rd. Experience life on a fa more...0 points

Geometrical Design Coloring Book (Colouring Books) by Spyros Horemis

Geometrical Design Coloring Book (Colouring Books) by Spyros Horemis

[Ages 5 to 10. Great activity. Various intricate g more...0 points

The Parents' Financial Wealth Tools Poll

Tell us about your favorite financial skills or wealth building tool. We are always improving by learning from others. If you want to give us more details, Submit a Blurb at the end of the page. Thanks for your feedback!

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Favorite Wealth & Abundance Books from Amazon

(Because teaching our kids begins with teaching ourselves)

These books (and teachings) are excellent and life-changing. Pick the one(s) that best suit your style and beliefs. [Yeah, I have more, but the lens was getting too long.]

Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert T. Kiyosaki

Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert T. Kiyosaki

A Must Have. (What the Rich Teach Their Kids About more...1 point

The Amazing Power of Deliberate Intent: Living the Art of Allowing by Esther Hicks

The Amazing Power of Deliberate Intent: Living the Art of Allowing by Esther Hicks

Expands on the details of the law of attraction AN more...0 points

My Favorite Charity

[for my Donations Bank Money]

Champ House! See my Squidoo lens on their work at Champ House

10% of the net profits from my book, The Kids' Bank Book are donated to Champ House. [shameless plug - another good reason to buy the book!]

Champ House, in Cape Cod Massachusetts was started by my uncle and aunt, Paul and Carolyn Hebert, who truly walk the walk of giving, loving Spirits. With one home, they brought shelter, food, caring, and hope to homeless adolescent boys. Now they bring that Good Work to all ages. Find out how you can give some of your Donation Bank money to Champ House!

What are YOUR thoughts about Kids & Money?

Tell Us What You Think - We want to help you help your children learn wealthy habits

  • RhondaSplint Feb 13, 2012 @ 2:31 pm | delete
    What a great lens. Good tips! Thanks.
    editor @ pregnancy symptoms week by week
  • DogWatchColumbus Jan 31, 2012 @ 10:27 am | delete
    This is a great start for me starting to try and teach my kids. Thanks for the great info!
  • waldenthree.net Dec 23, 2011 @ 2:33 pm | delete
    Kids learn by watching what parents do than what they say often. But I like your topic and appreciating the importance. Congrads on reaching Squidoo level 54. Just got there myself. Thanks.
  • WayneDave Nov 24, 2011 @ 5:10 am | delete
    Good to teach kids early I feel. Money is a difficult thing to manage, especially when bills and other payments come into it. You can't teach them too early of course though, they need a childhood! Great lens, thanks for sharing.
  • GreenfireWiseWoman Aug 19, 2011 @ 4:51 pm | delete
    Great ideas and an informative lens - thank you.
  • fashionoutlet Jul 6, 2011 @ 1:53 am | delete
    i also agree with rich dad, and vote for it...

    Additionally your lens are featured great, i like
  • COUNTRYLUTHIER Mar 8, 2011 @ 9:16 am | delete
    Your lens rocks. I may not be quite as ambitious as some, nevertheless, 18 months or so from now, I will have the debt monster re-chained instead of pillaging my finances eating all my earnings and keeping me from financial freedom. My children will see it happen and that is a wonderful thing!
  • lindarandall Feb 8, 2011 @ 7:00 am | delete
    i am blog rolling yours with business ideas for kids who are millionaires :) i follow back on twitter - the idea girl, great info here ;)
  • JeremiahStanghini Jan 24, 2011 @ 2:31 am | delete
    Some great systems for enhancing one's feeling and state of abundance. :-)

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jeremiah
  • ElizabethJeanAllen Jan 11, 2010 @ 5:07 pm | delete
    Awesome!
    5* and lensroll to Teaching Children How to Save
    Lizzy
  • SlfMstr Mar 2, 2009 @ 5:44 am | delete
    WAY TO GO THERESA!

    I totally agree that we need to teach kids early about how to be great Stewards of money so they develop wealthy money habits. Buying assets first and liabilities second would change sooooo many lives since we all know (especially now) how financial strain can really wreck families in more ways than one. Keep up the mission!
  • Powerpaul Nov 4, 2008 @ 2:34 am | delete
    Great lens here. Enjoyed it a lot. I love the idea of getting kids involved early in this. Get the right mindset (Secret, Abraham-Hicks, Rich Dad,etc) and then some action / follow through - maybe a little T Harv Eker & the jars? My kids (I'm stepdad) are a little older and just LOVE to argue "it's about living for today and spending all you got". Any advice on that one? Also want to share a great way for kids (14 and above) to start earning long term, residual income online.
    Click here if you're interested.
  • Tiddledeewinks Aug 21, 2008 @ 2:43 am | delete
    I'm all for teaching kids about money, along with other homeschool musts.
  • richgerman Jul 16, 2008 @ 10:41 pm | delete
    fantastic! yeah thats true nice idea anyway~

    5 stars for this!

    do you also use the law of attraction in your life?
  • anilg Jun 17, 2008 @ 1:41 pm | delete
    Nice lens with lots of useful information. If you are willing to make money online, then please visit my lens
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My Current Favorite Quote

Do What You Can
Where You Are
With What You Have.

- Teddy Roosevelt

Mudpuppy 4-part Kids Banks

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Wonderful FICTION Book that Teaches Kids about Money

The Lemonade War (The Lemonade War Series)

Amazon Price: $1.95 (as of 06/01/2012)Buy Now

Two siblings learn a lot - about money and themselves and their relationship - in their one week competition to see who can make the most money in their first entrepreneurship venture - a lemonade stand.

I think that if I were 10 years old, I'd prefer this book over a non-fiction book (as good as "Rich Dad, Poor Dad" is).

Entrepreneurship.
Investing.
Inventing.
The American Dream.

What more could you want to teach your children about economics in today's American "transformed" economy?

Best Math Tool - "Wrap-Ups"

This is the best tool that I've found to help your child MASTER addition, subtraction, multiplication and division facts.

Wrap-up Basic Math Intro Kit; no. LWUK801CD

Amazon Price: $40.59 (as of 06/01/2012)Buy Now

I was hesitant about "Wrap-Ups" at first because I thought that they didn't provide enough interest or practice for the student. However, after I saw my daughter start to look at other answers on her practice sheets when answer the problems at the bottom of the page, I looked for other practice options.

Wrap-Ups really make your brain think while you are physically doing the "wrapping," so your brain is reinforcing the entire equation while you're doing it. And, you can do the same operation and number (say, the 8's times tables) over and over again without being able to look at prior answers.

Also, you can have the child time himself to see if he/she can beat his own time. Whichever strategy works best for your child, you can made Wrap-Ups work for you! Remember, MEMORIZING the TIMES TABLES by the end of 4th grade is KEY to future math success!

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Debt-Free U: How I Paid for an Outstanding College Education Without Loans, Scholarships, or Mooching off My Parents

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This wealth-building approach is what is missing from our children's education. It's up to US (as parents) to teach and guide our children on how to build wealth, not debt. Don't let your kids follow the herd. Teach them now while they're young. And, this great book by an almost-contemporary is a great help to Mom and Dad while teaching those lessons.