Language learning conversation starters

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Learning a foreign language is a challenge and it requires practice. Both listening and speaking practice on a regular basis is required for learners to become fluent.

I am doing business in Turkey and during work hours in my office, we tend to speak Turkish because my employees are Turks and I am trying to learn Turkish. However at lunch times, we speak English because they are trying to learn English.

Starting conversations (even in your own language can be scary) so here are some conversation starters that we have been using during our lunch breaks to help our employees learn English as a second language. These are people who have passed the "Hello, how are you?" stage and we already know, but want to get to know better and help them overcome the fear of speaking in a foreign language.

Please add your conversation starters to help us out.

Many of these conversation starter ideas are good lens starter ideas too!

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“What did you do last night (or on the weekend)?”

Important!

This is a great fall-back question

The answers can change each time because your conversation partners are doing different things.

The most important thing with practicing English conversations is to encourage participation. Ask questions that do not need a lot of thought so their focus is on speaking English and not finding the right or acceptable answers. Avoid opinion based questions and instead stick to ones that can be answered only with facts.

“What was your first computer?”

My answer: Sega SC-3000

I wrote a lens about it

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“What is your favorite sports team?”

My answer should be: The All Blacks

But I haven't seen them play for ages

As a New Zealand citizen, my only responsibilities are obey and promote the laws of New Zealand and not act in any way that is contrary to the interests of New Zealand. Therefore even though it has been a while since I have seen an All Blacks (rugby) game, I have a responsibility to support them (and any team playing against Australia).

A great All Black tradition is to perform the Haka before the match and my Turkish friends all love the Haka dance.
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“What is your favorite food? How do you make it?”

I would like to buy a hamburger

Pronunciation of some English words can be hard. Watch how Steve Martin as Jacques Clouseau in The Pink Panther 2 tries to pronounce a simple phrase. The second video is dubbed into Turkish - a language that is relatively easy to pronounce because the pronunciation rules are almost always consistent.
I would like to buy a Hamburger
by TheKoolerthanice | video info

2 ratings | 932 views
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“or What is a food unique to your country and how do you make it?”

My answer: Pikelets

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“What is your favorite season of the year? Why?”

Extend the questions

Don't just ask about the weather. Ask about the sort of things they like to do in their favorite season. If they love summer, do they go to the beach? Where and how to get there? Who do they go with? What do they do there?

“What is the longest journey you have been on?”

Tips for a good conversation

Listen carefully.
Ask open ended questions.
Don't ask questions that could be embarrassing.
Give plenty of time for answers.
Build the conversation with further questions and your own experiences.
Give encouragement and praise.

“What is the biggest adventure you have had?”

My answer: Moving to Turkey

Moving to Turkey to live and do business is an adventure. There are normal business challenges as well as adjusting to a different language and culture. There is lots to learn. Lots of wonderful people to meet. Lots of great food to eat. Lots of fun to be had.
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“What is your favorite movie? Tell us about it.”

Some of my favorite movies

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“What was your first job?”

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“What was your favorite subject at school?”

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We talk about one topic per day and we need lots of ideas. Please share.

Which countries would you like to travel to?

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What is your favorite TV show?

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What is your favorite food to make? Describe how to make it.

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If you won the lottery, how would you spend the money?

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What was the best thing you have done in the last year?

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What is the best book you have read?

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How did you celebrate the recent holidays?

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Where did you grow up and what is special about that place?

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What was the most interesting thing that happened in the last week?

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What was your most embarrassing moment in the last year?

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What type of music do you listen to?

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What do you do for exercise?

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How do you start a conversation?

  • Serenia Dec 30, 2011 @ 12:06 pm | delete
    You know the All Blacks won the 2011 Rugby World Cup, right? For the second time - the first time being the first ever world cup back in 1987. Australia came in 3rd place - NZ beat France in the final.
    I would love to learn the turkish language but all those curly things under the letters (do not ask me what they are called) makes it look and sound hard!!!
  • ChrisDay Jan 27, 2011 @ 3:22 pm | delete
    Hi & how are you (in whatever tongue) is always a good starter. Not very original tho'. Great lens thanks
  • Peter.Murray Jan 27, 2011 @ 6:08 pm | delete
    Thanks. The conversation starters on this lens are not for the level of first meeting people, but for the next level of getting to know them better and helping them to overcome their fear of speaking in a foreign language.
  • tembrooke Jan 21, 2011 @ 6:47 pm | delete
    I've never been to Turkey but I've heard it's very beautiful. I admire you for learning a new language!
  • Peter.Murray Jan 27, 2011 @ 6:10 pm | delete
    Thanks. You should come and visit Turkey. It is a beautiful place, the food is wonderful and the people are very hospitable.
  • mivvy Jan 15, 2011 @ 8:32 am | delete
    My biggest (one of the many) adventure was travelling in east Turkey. I am/was learning Turkish. Reading is not too difficult but speaking is. I always miss the infixes and miss negations.
  • Peter.Murray Jan 27, 2011 @ 6:12 pm | delete
    My Turkish reading and writing is better than my speaking. I miss a lot of the suffixes and so mistakenly talk about myself or the person I am talking to in the third person.
  • magicgeniewishlist Jan 14, 2011 @ 5:07 pm | delete
    Nice lens :)
  • Peter.Murray Jan 27, 2011 @ 6:13 pm | delete
    Thanks. Glad you like it.
  • AllyVuitton Jan 14, 2011 @ 10:02 am | delete
    I've never been socially awkward, so words just flow out. But for all those great, but what-should-i-say people, this lens has been blessed!
  • Peter.Murray Jan 14, 2011 @ 2:56 pm | delete
    Thanks for the blessing. My team of web programmers are not socialy awkward, but our office is very quiet and they need all the encouragement they can get to communicate.

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