Firstly, one must have an clear target for something to occur before it can take place. When you go to a restaurant, do you specify what you want or do you tell me to give you 'anything'? A similar analogy is used for your subconscious mind. It must be issued with a specified target, a bull eye, before it can deliver to you what you want.

Secondly, one is only to make positive affirmations when requesting what he/she wants. Our subconscious is unable to process negative instructions. Hence, never focus on what you don't want or it will manifest. Instead, focus on positive thoughts. If you are in debt, focus on the little wealth you have and it will expand. If you are troubled, think of the little good things you have in life.

Thirdly,affirmations can only take place in the present tense 'now'. "I will get a pretty girlfriend/boyfriend in the future" isn't going to manifest because your subconscious will aim only to reach your goal "in the future". Rather, make the affirmation "I have a pretty boyfriend/girlfriend now".

Fourthly, never be desperate to achieve your goals. Desperation is a form of negative emotion. Ensure that your goal is not the sole object of what you want. Ensure that your goal will not cause you to forsake other aspects of your life. Do this and your goal will manifest.

Fifthly, align yourself and be in close harmony of your 'giver'. Do not resist the flow and fight the order of things. Life is meant to be fun. If you do not like what you are doing, you are not following what you are supposed to do on this earth.

Avoid these blunders and you life will be fun and fulfilling. Embrace the Law Of Attraction. Enjoy!