About Me

I have been writing a blog since 2005 regarding abuse and faith.  I have tried to find a good collection of audio, video, article sources, and ones was were written by myself.

I have found that unless this topic is approached in the correct way within the faith community it can either a benefit or burden to the perpetrator, victim, and family members. 

Jesus is Savior - Divorce an abusive spouse?

I found an article online about a gentlemen's opinion on how abusive marriages should be handled. He completely missed the point, and has decided instead to enable the abuser and allow the victims to continue to be victimized. Keep in mind abuse is n...

Jesus Heals Abuse Board - Domestic, Verbal, Emotional Abuse

Jesus Heals Abuse Abuse has no gender! This is a site for Christians in recovery from abuse within relationships. Please respect the very gentle and non judgmental atmosphere we wish to create. The forum is for any born again Bible believing Chris...

When Everything I do is not right!

Okay! I will be honest here, but I sure see an 'air' of blame, and no honestly placing accountability towards behavior here! I found another article that is driving me right up a wall! LINK for the entire thing. Quote: Oftentimes, husbands can be overb...

The abusive person

I wanted to write a little about the abusive person.  I think most of us have heard of the ‘Jerkyl and Hyde” personality from the media, books and articles.  They can be warm and loving one minute, and the next can rage out of c...

Emotional Abuse and Faith

Our blog Emotional Abuse and Your Faith has been in existence since 2005.  It started as a personal journey after I had seen the unwillingness of certain good and faithful people unable to recognize the damage that abuse can do within a home.&nb...

Is this a proper form of communication?

I picked this picture because its a good visual for communication don't you think?  STOP, LOOK and LISTEN! I go to a number of faith boards online, and I read these similiar stories again and again.  I also hear the same responses, but I hav...

Using Fashion to promote Domestic Abuse or Violence? I don't this one!

Benetton is starting a line called, "Colors of Domestic Violence".  I'm sorry but this ad series to me is in VERY bad taste!  You want to talk about colors of abuse - that's FINE!  You want to use it to sell your line of clot...

Poem about experiencing abuse

I wrote this one night while frustrated!