Living with chronic urticaria
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Chronic urticaria (hives)
My husband suffered terribly for years with chronic urticaria, leaving us both feeling frustrated and angry with the lack of information out there. What we could find, was from different sources which involved lots of cross referencing; some websites even offering miracle cures for a cost. I am sure that if you have been, or you are suffering from this awful condition, that you have asked yourself these questions over and over again.
I have created this page, using the information I sourced, that I hope will help you get the answers that you need to move forward and cope with living with this condition. Amongst the information I will tell you about our experiences, remedies we have tried, money we have paid out and hopefully enable you to gain an understanding of the difficulties it causes for both the person with the condition and the people in their lives that care.There wasn't any page when I was looking, (and I trawled through the internet for weeks, hours at a time!) that had compiled the information so this is what I hope to do for you.
When you are desperate, itching and in pain, the last thing you need is to pay a website for information that swears it will help you, only to be let down when you receive it and realise that you already know the information. This page is free to read and the information will hopefully help you.
What is chronic urticaria
I am not an expert on chronic urticaria but I have gathered a lot of information and these are my findings.Urticaria, also known as hives or nettle rash, can be acute or chronic. About 1 in 6 people will have acute urticaria at least one in their life; a rash will appear because of an allergic reaction and will last for less than six weeks.
Chronic urticaria is a rash that occurs on most days for more than six weeks; this occurs in about 1 in a 1000 people, more likely in women and can in some cases last for years. In about a third of cases it is an autoimmune problem, the body's anti-bodies cause the problem, they cause the body to release histamine, the body's natural defence, and the reason for this is unknown. It can be caused by an allergic reaction or there can be a physical cause of urticaria.
The rash can affect any skin on your body.
Wheals, which are small raised areas, develop on the skin and if they are close together they can form one large wheal. They look like blisters and itch constantly. They can be any size, any shape and anywhere on the skin, red or white in colour and usually surrounded by a red area of skin called a flare.
Each wheal has a life cycle of about 24 hours, however as one fades another can appear so it can feel like a never ending attack on the skin. When they appear on the face, they can completely close your eye, they can cause your lips to swell and at times your face will be swollen. This can be an uncomfortable time and not only are you itchy with possible restriction on your sight or other senses but it can make you feel very alone and not want people to see this very obvious looking condition.

It can all sound very clinical when you read it but the welts are very real and no words to describe them can explain the distress that a person goes through with them. I remember my husband becoming very despondent and withdrawn; it was a very dark time. I just wanted to explain what they were before I go into any of the other information. I will also add links throughout this page to sites that I found helpful. I have shared our experiences, saying what worked and didn't work for us.
Urticaria is an itch that can never be be relieved by scratching.
A painful and itchy condition that can drive the person to distraction.
Possible causes
I say possible because there is a lot of speculation on what the causes are; I have found no definate answer, each person is a unique case and sometimes like in the case of my husband it is his immune system which was attacking his own body, for no reason the doctors could find.However I would always suggest going to the doctors, who should in turn refer you to a skin specialist. They will probably conduct tests to check for allergies or known causes and then often the treatment is a course of anti-histimine tablets, in a dose that is specific to you. as I am not a doctor I will not add a huge amount more about that.
Causes that you could look for are as follows, a food that is causing an allergic reaction, a washing powder, a soap, grass, animals, SLS (sodium laureth sulfate), paper, chemicals and many many more. As you can see there is a wide variety of things that can cause urticaria and to eliminate them all from your life is in itself not only impossible but also very distressing.
We started eliminating foods that are naturally high in histimine, tomatoes, strawberries, eggplants, spinach, cheese, milk, wheat, eggs and fish (unless caught and cooked almost immediately). Be aware that if you cut it all out if you are trying to determine which it is when you reintroduce them, do it one at a time for a couple of weeks to see a reaction if there is one.It may be worth checking for coeliac disease as this can be one of the symptoms. I paid a website £12.95 when we had got desperate for a cure to find this out, don't pay for information, everything you need is out there for free, they do not have magic cures.
We started to use a toothpaste called squiggle; which incidently I was using as a cure for my ulcers, as it did not contain SLS and our shower gels and shampoos.
Your doctor will work with you on this and alternative practitioners will too, homeopaths, herbalists and chinese medicine practitioners to name a few, listen to what they say but make sure that they also listen to you, it is your body!
Symptoms of Chronic Urticaria
Want to know the symptoms of chronic urticaria? They can be many and vary from person to person. These are described in my own words and experience so click on the links below for the medical findings.The most obvious syptoms are the welts and weals that appear on the skin, often raised, red and very itchy; they can be anywhere on the body and any size. Rashes that contain these appear on the skin.
Swelling; most commonly in the face though can be anywhere. In severe cases this can restrict breathing so always have it checked out in a hospital if you experience this. Eyes, lips and cheeks swell up causing temporary distortion of the face, restricting sight at times.
Depression; not only does the endless itching and the constant irritation cause the person to become withdrawn through frustration and pain but also we were told by the doctor that the chemical imbalance can cause actual depression.
Places to get medical information.
- Patient UK - Chronic urticaria
- This is a very clear site and explains it in plain english.
- The International Chronic Urticaria Society
- The International Chronic Urticaria Society (ICUS) supports a cyber-society of people with chronic urticaria (CU), or hives. Chronic hives differ from acute hives in that the cause is not often determined, and many people suffer from CU for years at a time.
- Treating a difficult case of Chronic Urticaria
- It goes through the process of treating someone with Chronic Urticaria
It can be hard to live with someone with Chronic Urticaria, ensure you BOTH have a good support network.
Pages that ask you for money
Information to cure illness should always be free
For every illness there is someone peddling a miracle cure or ways to solve this problem. We clicked on one link that charged us about £12.95 stating although it was not a miracle cure that the person had gathered all the information that you could want in one place. Hoping they had researched something that I did not know about and my husbands skin was so bad, we paid the money.What I received was a file to download and the earth shattering discovery within it's pages? The fantastic research that she had discovered? Just that it can sometimes be an allergy to gluten and that you should get tested at a doctors, I already know this and I am sure that if you didn't before now, I have told you for FREE!!!!!
Every person has a right to make money, I however do not think it should be at the expense of people that are in pain and suffering badly. In some of the worst cases I have read about people are unable to work and their quality of life is so low and these are the people that these websites are targeting; I do not think it is ethical, moral or fair.I hope that you have found your way here first, i do not ask for your money; I just want to pass on the information and advice that I have gathered, I truly hope it helps you.
I will be adding a guest book for you to share ideas that have worked for you and like a plant I hope we are able to create a community as strong as a tree."
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Sometimes you need to be alone.....
.....and other times you need to feel part of something.
- Healing well community
- This links onto the thread for chronic urticaria and is a place to talk to others who understand.
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Soothing the itch
A cure is the ultimate goal but on that journey, there will be many an itchy and painful day, sometimes having different ideas to try and help soothe your skin a little can give you temporary relief.I came across so many strange ideas for helping to sooth the skin, some worked for my husband, some didn't. I'm going to include all of them as everyone is different and I am hoping that one of them will help you.
1. Anti-histimine creams, this can take the edge of the itch though it can get very expensive if it covering a huge expanse of skin.
2. Urtica cream - a homeopathic cream that you can buy in a big tub for £19.80 from Ainsworths, they come in smaller sizes too though if it is for most of your body, this is the most cost effective. We used Ainsworths for the cream regularly and have added the link to the picture, click on it and it will take you through to their page. My husband said that this was one of the best creams and numbed down a lot of the itching.
3. Bicarbonate of soda in water, applied to the skin with cotton wool. We tried this and it made some difference but it was messy and the effects didn't last long.
4. Bach flower remedy - crab apple. Take dose as recommended and add to water and apply to skin. We tried this and it had some effect, it took a couple of days but there was a definate reduction in itching. can be bought through a local bach remedy practitioner or at an online store such as Ainsworths.
5. Aloe Vera, either in a cream or in a natural essence in a bath.
6. A luke warm bath, this did ease it for a while though the effects wore off and it was not that pleaseant in a luke warm bath.7. Olive oil on the skin can ease the itch.
8. Put about 2/3 rose water in 1/3 vinegar and apply to the itching areas. We never tried this so cannot say for against it.
9. Boil mint and sugar syrup and drink it daily. One that several people swore by again not tried by us.
10. Drink apple cider three times a day. We did try this and my husband hated it so much that he stopped after three, no idea if it helped but it made him feel sick.

What has worked for my husband
He was on 9 strong tablets a day and still he would have outbreaks most days, often he was in pain and he was constantly itchy. We had seen a homeopath who had started to treat him with urtica urens and it had started to work initially but soon came back, I do not fault the practitioner or homeopathy, I know people have said it worked for them.We next went to see a chinese herbalist, who explained that in China, hospitals use both traditional and chinese medicine in conjunction with each other. The herbalist stated that both practices complimented the other and aided better healing within that person. We had got to a stage where we would try anything. As my husband had been taken off his sulfasalazine tablets a couple of months before, we were not sure now if they had anything to do with it as previously believed. The herbalist who was very practical explained the process and the costs involved, it was £30 a session and the herbs would be about £20 every 2 weeks. It seemed like a lot but we wanted to try it, chinese medicine has a strong success rate with skin conditions.
My husband had his first session; he was told that it was likely to have been the sulfasalazine and that his immune system was now so sensitive that the anti-hisitimines could no longer suppress the flare ups of the wheals and welts. He said the long term plan was to enable my husband to stop taking tablets and not be taking herbs for good but in the short term, he was going to calm his system down to stop the constant flare ups. We went home to boil the herbs, which was a lot of effort but if they worked I would have done it for life.
Working with the herbs continued
After a week, my husband noticed that the flare ups had diminished somewhat; even having a couple of days with only one welt, this was a major change. After two weeks we returned to the chinese herbalist and my husband was able to tell him that he had had his first day with no urticaria flaring up, it was the first of many turning points.It was explained that the body was still having the allergic reactions but the concoction of tablets he was on was suppressing it; if there is no other solution, tablets can be the only thing that can make life bearable for urticaria sufferers. He was given a slightly different make-up of herbs and to return in two weeks, which he did, having only one flare up in that time. The herbalist said that he would be happy for us to approach the specialist my husband had been seeing and discuss reduction of tablets. As we worked in conjunction with both, this was possible and he was given the go ahead to start to reduce them down, he was under the supervision of both of them.
Over the next eight weeks he changed from the boiled herbs to the powders, easier and cheaper, and he reduced his tablets down to two a day and his skin was fine, no hives, no welts or itching, it seemed like this was the perfect solution. We were now seeing the chinese hebal practitioner every three weeks and was going to reduce the last couple slowly, over thos weeks he reduced it down to one, it felt wonderful; he suddenly felt more normal.After the next visit he was advised to cut the tablets down to two days taking one, one day not until we next saw the hebalist. However as it seemed it was all sorted now, only a matter of time til he was tablet free and he chose to reduce the amount he was taking quicker than advised. A couple of days later he noticed he had urticaria on his arms and then again the next day on his legs. We went back to the herbalist who changed the herbs and increased the tablets to one a day again. this worked fine and the welts went away.
It was decided that he had tried too quickly and it would be a much slower process from this time.
How it is today.
June 2011He has not had any signs of urticaria for 4 months which is wonderful. He is still taking the herbs and one tablet every three days. It feels like a really long journey but we do see an end in sight, this is not going to be the answer for everyone but it has been the solution to my husbands condition.
7 years of suffering and not knowing if there was an end in sight and finally he is able to do everything with more energy and a smile.
September 2011
He has had a slight flare up when he missed his herbs for a couple of days but has since gone when he restarted it. It is a great feeling knowing it has now been seven months, each day seems brighter.
1st January 2012
I remember his complacency in my own history and it's up to everyone how to look after their helath but he's back on the herbs, tabvlets reduced even further and no flare ups for the last few weeks, crossing fingers this is the beginning of the end.
I am wishing you all well for 2012 and please leave a message if you want to ask anything or just want to talk to someone, it can be such an isolating condition that is easily misunderstood.
Leave your tips and advice for others.
Sometimes soothing the itch is all you can do.
As we all know there are many things that people will swear by and others say it does nothing for them. Maybe by leaving what works for you, you'll be helping someone else who never thought of trying it. Also this will build up a great source of alternative things to try alongside your medication.
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Meg
Mar 29, 2012 @ 5:16 am | delete
- Hello there I have just had a look at your site and was wondering as a sufferer myself unfortunatley the only thing that works for me is Prednisolone steriod tablets at a current rate of 25mg. Have yourselves ever had experience of this medication? Anti histamine do not do anything for me but I am very interested in coming off the steriod medication for all of the obvious reasons and possibly trying something new.
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Bookworm25
Apr 18, 2012 @ 9:52 pm | delete
- My husband was on this for a while as the anti-histimines only worked to a certain extent and he still ended up having time off work. Prednisolone is quite an aggresive steroid but it does have an effect to a certain extent. When he saw the homeopath she recommended milk thistle as a way to protect the stomach. My husband is on 1 tablet every other day now alongside the chinese herbs and I am hoping that next year he will be off everything but you can never tell. I am sorry you have this it is a debilitating condition that few people understand and can make you feel very alone. Please talk to me here if you need someone, if only for someone to listen.
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Helen taylor
Mar 24, 2012 @ 6:13 am | delete
- I have been suffering for 1 and a half years now, tried all the anitihistims, and now on steroids but still covers from head to toe! It's horrible and makes you feel so lonely, I'm going to be 30 in 2 weeks and I don't want even leave the house, all I want to is go to bed and shut out the world, my outher half dosnt know what to say or do, I'm soooooo depressed is stupid, I'm so snappy now and lose my temper so quickly I just don't know what to do!!! :(
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Bookworm25
Apr 18, 2012 @ 9:57 pm | delete
- I understand more where your partner comes from as it is so heartbreaking watching someone have this condition because not only is it a depressing condition in itself but it also causes a chemical imbalance that create depression. There is no magic fix to this and I so wish there was, having researched endlessly and tried so many things, luckily we found chinese herbs though he is still on them though only using 1 anti-histimine every two days.
Allow yourself some time to be angry and upset each day because if you bottle it up it so much worse. Urticaria cream helped a little for my husband but it took so much of it to help. I wish I could help more but I am here for you to talk to. I hope your birthday went well even with this debilitating condition. My heart goes out to you.
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freyalou
Dec 26, 2011 @ 8:50 pm | delete
- Thank you for this lens. My grandmother suffers from an autoimmune condition which causes chronic urticaria, among many other things. It's a dreadful illness, and her doctors have been next to useless in helping her to manage it. I will look into some of the things you suggested - she can't tolerate many medications, so the alternative route is probably better for her. I wish you and your husband all the best.
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Bookworm25
Apr 18, 2012 @ 9:59 pm | delete
- Thank you and I hope your grandmother has found some help with her condition, unfortunately it is just trial and error. I hope to hear from you soon to see how everything went with her.
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Morgannafay
Sep 21, 2011 @ 3:00 am | delete
- I already liked this lens some days ago (maybe longer) but was feeling bashful when I did. Thanks for this! Some people don't understand. I've lived with this since 2007. I didn't even know what was wrong with me when I got my first out break. I just take Benadryl on a daily basis, and learned to live with the itch. Only thing I can do, since nothing else really helped. Most times I'm lucky to only have it on my back, butt, legs and stomach. On occasion my eye swells completely shut, and I look like Rocky. Like I said though, having a tough skin to pain and minor irritation has carried me through well. (No pun intended) Sometimes I do have to back off on the Benadryl, its like it builds up in your system and quits working. Thanks for letting the world know about this one. It was hard to dig info when I first got it. This lens will help someone new to the hives. OH, and I keep my partner up all night scratching LOL I do drive him nuts.
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Bookworm25
Sep 22, 2011 @ 3:43 pm | delete
- I am so glad you have left this message and I am sorry that you itch all the time. One of the things that Rob tried was Urtica Urens (a homeopathic remedy) and it did work for a while. As you know I recommend the chinese herbs as they have stopped his itching now though they can be costly, also for me I can imagine there are a lot of fakes out there and money is an issue. Visit often or drop an e-mail if you need to, sometimes it's about not being the only one. Take care of yourself.
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Morgannafay
Sep 22, 2011 @ 3:58 pm | delete
- Thanks very much! It will be awhile before I could try something that costs allot of money, but I will have to try that someday. Oh, and on the fakes, I think there are always people trying to make something from the suffering. Thankfully, I've learned that lesson long before getting the chronic hives and was able to avoid wasting too much money.
Thanks so much again, and I will check in often. Its hard to find other people dealing with this. :) You take care of you too. <3
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Mujjen
Sep 13, 2011 @ 3:29 pm | delete
- A lot of good information. Urticaria is a very difficult condition, good you got some help.
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EverythingMouse Sep 9, 2011 @ 6:29 pm | delete
- Squid Angel Blessings to you for providing an excellent resource.
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Bookworm25
Sep 11, 2011 @ 5:31 pm | delete
- Thank you so much, I appreciate it :)
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Bella
Sep 7, 2011 @ 4:41 am | delete
- Thank you again.
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Bookworm25
Sep 11, 2011 @ 5:32 pm | delete
- You are very welcome and I am glad it has helped you. i hope you can find some relief from the itching, it is so demoralising, keep smiling and visit here whenever you need to ;)
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ellagis
Aug 28, 2011 @ 6:07 pm | delete
- Really interesting. I like the way you talk about the problem, the way you face it also talking about "help for helper".
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Christopher
Aug 24, 2011 @ 1:54 am | delete
- Thank you for the information, I was in such a state i was goig to pay for it, these people are so wrong to prey on us when they know we will try most things because we get desperate, I find it so distressing. Thank you for taking the time and being caring.
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nancycarol
Jul 5, 2011 @ 2:30 pm | delete
- I learned something new from this lens and thanks for sharing.
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Bookworm25
Jul 21, 2011 @ 8:49 am | delete
- You are very welcome.
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ForestBear
Jul 1, 2011 @ 5:08 am | delete
- wonderful lens, thank you for the tips. I'm sure a lot of people could benefit from this.
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Bookworm25
Jul 21, 2011 @ 8:49 am | delete
- Thank you, I hope it helps people, such a terrible thing to live with
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Anita in Altoona
Apr 21, 2012 @ 7:20 pm | delete
- Does anyone know what happens if you work with the 'status quo'? I keep trying different combinations, and I'm tired of playing guinea pig. I still get breakouts.....Do we have to completely get rid of all traces? Maybe I could live with a lessor degree....
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Bookworm25
Apr 22, 2012 @ 10:00 am | delete
- I am no expert but I would suggest that you cut out foods high in histimine first, tomatoes, strawberries and fish that hasn't been killed that day. It's not the same as an allergy and not a permenant thing it just gives your body chance to calm down a little. There are no fast and hard rules to this as you know and living with a lesser degree is something only you would know if you can cope. My husband has had a couple of break outs, nothing major and he copes. The citizine hydrochloride (pretty much piriteze) that he has every other day seems to keep most of it away in conjunction with the herbs.
Sometimes the trying to find things and the failure of each one can be demoralizing in itself, I hope it goes well for you and please share any successes here as it's good for others. I wish you well :)
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Nakmuay
Dec 12, 2011 @ 2:56 pm | delete
- Great blog. Most people dont understand how tuff this can be,i sure didnt. When i first got the symptoms i went to a doctor who thought it was something i ate,he put me on a diet for a week and he gave me cortizone pills,didnt work,i went to a diferent doctor but just to my luck i went early in the morning and i didnt have any marks to show her,she thought i was crazy instead of trying to ear me explain that i usually woked up clean but through the day the marks started to apear. Then one day i was having one of those full body urticaria atacks and went to the emergency room doctor who told me i got pitiriasis rosea(i tought it was bad...now i wish it was that),then i waited because he said pitiriasis cured itself but still remained the same after 3 months,so i went to a dermatologist,he told it was urticaria and gave me anti-histaminics wich i´m stil taking but i seem to be worst,next thursday i have another apointment where i will show him the results of the blood tests he had me do,hope something helpfull turns on. The worst thing is that i was a guy that worked out everyday,i practiced muay thai and i did some modelling jobs...now o cant do any of those things...i am getting seriosly depressed and i cant see a light at the end of the tunel,i am sufering with it for 4 months and i see some people talking about years...i dont now how will i survive years without being able to train full time,i can still do those modelling jobs because with some makeup i can cover the spots but if i cant work out soon i wont be able to the job for other reasons. On top of that this already cost me one friend that was my best friend for 24 years,he was going through some rough times and i was and still am so obsessed and depressed with this situation that i just wasnt there for him and now he doesnt even talk to me,to him i just have some minor skin problems,my trainer and training partners think i am just exagerating and that i should train anyway even though i usually got a lot worst after a long workout,its hard to explain this to people who never had it themselves.... sorry for the long text and the bad english(not my first language) but i really needed to get this out of my chest and this was the only place i found :/
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Bookworm25
Dec 23, 2011 @ 2:41 pm | delete
- I am so sorry that you are feeling hopeless, it can really get to you. I cannot truly understand what you are going through, I know it can get you down as I watched my husband go through it and it is frustrating and terrible for me watching it so it must be a hundred times worse when it is happeneing to you. Feel free to rant on here whenever you want to, sometimes telling someone can ease the down feeling somewhat. I am so sorry you have lost your friend, maybe you could approach him again, maybe show him this page or ones that are similar to help him understand.
There is a type of Urticaria that is caused by heat though in my limited experience heat does seem to aggravate Urticaria no matter what type you have. It is a case of trial and error to find out what works for you, don't lose hope, it is relatively new and in several cases can just go away all on it's own. I cannot recommend chinese herbs more highly though I am very aware that some practitioners are not as good as others so a lot of research needs to go into it. They work alongside traditional medicine.
How did your blood tests go? Did they come up with anything else? It may be worse cutting out tomatoes, strawberries and fish (unless freshly caught that day) ot of your diet as they are naturally high in histimine. I hope this page helped some, I just don't want people to pay for infomation when i can tell you for free.
Hope you are having a better week and talk to you soon :)
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Rodjanefreddy
May 4, 2011 @ 10:31 am | delete
- It sounds awful and I know he has been really ill. I'm pleased he's on the mend. Glad you shared this, I remember what a nightmare it was when you had to find it all out.
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Bookworm25
Dec 23, 2011 @ 2:42 pm | delete
- Thanks sis! He is on the mend but what a mare! :)
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Aaron
Mar 7, 2011 @ 12:21 pm | delete
- Well put together page. There is such a lot of useful information. I have seen the pages that you gave to pay for and they are a rip off.
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stacyman Mar 1, 2011 @ 3:51 pm | delete
- Great lense. Well put together. Informative.
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chemknitsblog
Feb 17, 2011 @ 5:44 pm | delete
- I know how frustrating it can be to live with a chronic condition, and one that causes so much physical discomfort must be so much more frustrating. I appreciate you sharing your husband's experiences. Hopefully this lens will help others in similar situations.
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