The Law of Attraction and Forgiveness

Science has shown that everything is vibrating energy and that includes us. The more negative our vibes, the more difficult it is to manifest using the Law of Attraction. Conversely, the higher our vibrations, the easier it is to manifest.

When I finally figured that out it became abundantly clear that I needed to get rid of all the stuff I was carrying around from the past and raise my vibes. With much trial and error I finally found the way to do this and it has made all the difference in the world.

I'd like to take a minute and tell you what forgiveness is not. It's not:
-condoning unkindness
-forgetting that something painful happened
-excusing poor behavior
-denying or minimizing your hurt
-reconciling with the offerder if that's not appropriate
-giving up having feelings

Here's what forgiveness is:
-realizing it's for you, not the offender
-taking responsibility for how you feel
-realizing it's about your healing and not about the person who hurt you
-helping you get control over your feelings
-a tool to help you improve your mental, physical, emotional and spiritual well-being
-knowing it is a choice

With these concepts to guide you, it's much easier to make the decision to forgive...not for the offender but for you. I invite you to do so.

Forgiveness doesn't happen overnight. When you make the decision to forgive, you will probably have to revisit this choice many times. When you decide to forgive that's just the first step.

You'll go along with your life and think all is well. Then one day something will trigger the realization that you are still carrying some anger about the issue you have forgiven. Guess what? You get to decide again that you will forgive. You do so and in a few weeks or months the same issue arises again. You then go through the same process all over again.

This will probably happen several times. Don't worry, it's normal. What you will find, however, is that each time you go through the process your emotions are less intense. Finally, the day will come when you can recognize that you're thinking of the issue and just move on.

Don't get discouraged if the process takes a while. This is normal. Simply continue to move through the process and you'll find your energy being restored and your vibes being lighter.