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dreamsbgone says:
I have been having some serious problems in my marriage lately its not him at all its me. Before I met my husband I dated this guy I went to middle school with we dated on and off a few times it was kinda strange. it wasnt a normal on again off again relationship. We would date for a few months then we would split for a couple years having no contact at all and eventually hook back up again. During one of our splits I met my now husband (lets call him John) which was a little over 11 years ago. Well at the begining John and I werent great we broke up all the time mostly because of our age difference. Almost everytime that me and John broke up, my ex and I would get back together. It wouldnt matter if we broke up for a couple days or a couple weeks. When John and I would get back together and me n the ex would just not talk once again. The last time my ex and I broke up I made a promise to myself that I wouldn't go back to him again, it was too painful, that was about 5 years ago. John and I got married a year and a half ago. Before we got married about a year before my ex and I decided that we would be friends, he always tried to get me to go back with him but I kept turning him down. When John and I got engaged he asked me not to marry him because he wanted to be with me. Once again I told him no after that time he supported me. I left for the military 2 weeks after we gkt married didnt see or talk to the ex for about a year. Then the dreams started ALL the time. Its all I think about most days. I love my husband very much but we are not very sexual I mean its maybe once a month sometimes less and its been like that since before we got married. When we are intimate it gives me no pleasure at all. Honestly the only person that has ever been able to give me pleasure sexually is my ex. I have tried everything to change that but nothing seems to help. Its rather disturbing especially since I have slept with 10 other people and not one exceot my ex has even been close to being pleasurable actually I felt nothing. I feel that me dreaming about my ex isnt helping me let go and is putting a strain on my marriage it makes our very little intimate encounters even less. I dont know what to do.
Posted January 12, 2012
Hannah says:
I began university in the fall and the second (seriously) day I was on campus, I by chance met a boy from England who was a year older than me. We introduced ourselves and the usual. He was supposed to go to a school function with me because we were in the same college, however, he didn't know where the function was held, so I said he could go with me. We were separated in the crowd and when I found him later, our friends said he was calling me 'his Hannah'. Either way, we became extremely close friends over the semester, seeing one another every day. It became obvious, or so I thought, that we were interested in one another. Now, I fall hard and fast for people, but I've only fallen, really fallen, twice; once being for him. Part of the reason I did was because during the time we spent together, which was often times alone, we simply acted like a couple. We ate dinner together alone or with a group every night, we went out together, to coffee, shopping, he came to my orchestra concerts even though he hates classical music, we did homework together, and so on. I made tea for us every night, I cooked for him even a few times. The way he acted around me absolutely seemed like he had feelings for me- when we ate, we almost always sat next to one another, usually our chairs or legs touching, he touched my hands and arms and back often, I would catch him looking at me, sometimes we would maintain eye contact with out words for thirty seconds on end. He fretted about me and teased me often. I recall at a party he made a big deal of my losing a bracelet, and that same night, put his arm around me and touched my waist. When it came time for him to leave the US, we dropped him off at the hotel on our way out of town and I gave him a scarf I had made for him for a Christmas present; he thanked me and looked as though he'd start crying, then he put it on. Over the months, there were many mentions made by him of my studying abroad in England, and even of my going to grad school there. He would even say, 'when you come to England...' and so on. My friend once confronted him and told him that I really had feelings for him and he needed to stop acting the way he did if he didn't care for me in the same way, however, he disregarded this apparently and continued to act in this manner towards me. I asked him out a few times, each time, being shot down. Could this be because he really didn't have feelings for me and he simply was just treating me like he treats all his close friends (which he claimed was the case once)? Or could it be that he does have feelings for me, but because he was leaving so soon he decided to keep it under-wraps? I love him so so very much, honestly and truly, and I would do anything for him, but I just wonder if he feels the same and if it's worth my time. I think I'm starting to annoy friends and family with this, but I can't help it. He's always on my mind. By the way, we have talked and even video chatted since he's been home, so we have maintained contact. Goodness that was a long post! Thank you so very much!
Posted January 04, 2012
Confused and wanting help says:
I'm 16,so I know nothing about "love". I have never had a boyfriend though my best friends have had plenty. Anyways, I met this boy about a year and 3 months ago at my church. After a month of knowing him,I realized that I had a huge crush on him (and I still do) but then when I realized that,he had just started dating his current girlfriend. I never have liked this boy because of his looks(although hes somewhat handsome). His dedication to music,church,his family, and helping others is what attracted me to him. I've noticed that at times he opens his arms up and pulls me into a huge hug and then I still feel him hugging me once he's let go. He randomly movks the way i talk-___-We have dinners at church and he pulls my chair out for me and I've never seen him do it for any other girl. Sometimes I'm not hungry so I don't eat and he'll ask me why I'm not eating,and then he refuses to eat until he sees that I do. Recently I went to Hawaii and I brought him back a bracelet with his name and middle name engraved on it and he wears it all the time as far as I can tell. It may just be out of habit though.. Everybody knows that I like him. People ask me all the time if we are dating and I say "No,it's not like that. He has a girlfriend. We're just good friends". People think we've known each other our whole lives by the way we act. At times he'll be telling me stories about things that have occurred to him at home and he'll ask me if I remember where something was but I have to remind him that I've never been to his house. He's been with his girlfriend for about a year and he's going off to college this upcoming september. His girlfriend is one year older than him and she attends a college up in Missouri and we live in Texas. I know he's really faithful and I know that if he feels the same way about me he'll ignore it because he's with her. I really want to tell him but I'm scared.
Posted December 30, 2011
kimberly says:
i found out he was text messaging another woman. the messages were innocent enough but he was sneaking around. He said that nothing happened with her and its hard for me to know if hes telling the truth or not. It was very confusing for me because he is very good to me. i JUST DONT understand why he was doing that
Posted December 09, 2011
kimberly says:
i actually do want to catch him lying again. im constantly looking for something else. do you think there is a way for me to stop resenting him?
Posted December 08, 2011
kimberly says:
my boyfriend of a year and a half and i are having problems. in the beginning of our relationship i immediately started catching onto things he was lying about. he was lying because he wanted to avoid conflict. after months of my catching him in lies i began to resent him. i havent caught him lying in almost a year and he/ wonders why im having trouble trusting him! do you think he could change?
Posted December 08, 2011
Nisha says:
I was in a serious relationship for 6 long years with a guy, PR. We wanted to get married. After 6 years my parents pressurized me to get married for which he was not ready then. Somehow we got into major fight and out of anger and frustration I said yes to some other guy for marriage that my parents adviced. But as I was not able to forget PR, I couldn't make with involved with this new guy and that got broke. After that for 4 years PR was after me to get into a relation again and I didn't agree out of anger. Now as he has moved on in his life (6 months before) with another girl (he didnt love her when he moved, he just moved out of frustration) I want him back. We have had good and bad in our 10 years of relation but that doesnt mean we break it. We cannot. Please suggest how to get him back. I know it was my mistake, But I am deeply apologetic :(
Posted December 03, 2011
latif says:
I'm 17 years old and currently single. I met a girl this Spring and we started speaking a lot, we became quite close and I started to like her. She was in complicated relationship because her and her boyfriend kept breaking up, but they split up.
I didn't tell her for a while that I liked her until I gathered up the courage and finally told her. She said she liked me too because I'm always there for her and respected her. We were in a sort of relationship and she even began telling me that she loves me.
After a month or so I realised she was being different so I asked what was wrong and she told me she got back with her ex, I was distraught and didn't know what to say, we argued and didn't speak for some time. I apologised and blamed myself for the arguement, she told me we could still be the close but not the same because she was in a relationship.
We were still close and talked to each other every single day till mid morning for months; after time had gone by, at the beginning of October she told me she was single again. I was happy to an extent but she felt so bad and I couldn't tell her about how I felt because to me it was more important that I made her feel better because I really do love her and care about her, so I left it for a few weeks.
When I told her about how I feel she said she didn't like me in that way, she said she loves me but not the way I want her to, she also said she wants to love me in that way too but she doesn't feel any sort of 'click' between us. I was upset for days and still am, having sleepless nights and just can't stop thinking about her. I love her a lot and everyday I love her more, I always tell her how beautiful she looks and how amazing she is and I wish she was mine.
I still talk to her everyday and just try hiding how I feel because I don't want her to be upset because of me, I think. I'm just hoping one day she will love me as much as I love her.
I truly need some advice on what to do and how to do it. She's means the world to me and so I would appreciate it if you could give me your opinion.
Posted November 08, 2011
Someone says:
I have this problem with this guy, i lost my virginity to him. He and I "hung out" a bit after that. When he moved for training school we'd talk on the phone a lot and shit and whenever he came back into town we'd kick it. So one day, he started to ignore me... then after a while, he sends me a message saying that hes weird, and that its okay if i dont understand. That hes on to the next one.. Whatever. Honestly, I regret ever meeting him. He broke my heart into a million pieces. He completely ignores me now. Wont even talk to me. often I wonder what i did to deserve this shit... To want someone so bad, but they just flat out ignore you completely. I feel so fucking pathetic, wanting him even after the pain hes caused me. I honestly dont know why i care. I've had sex with a few other people in hopes of forgeting about him. Didnt work obviously. I dont really think it was the virginity thing that keeps me attached. Because to be honest, i couldnt care less about that shit... He treated me like trash, used me... But i still want him, really bad... idk, i need advice.
Posted November 04, 2011
John says:
Getting it all out sounds good but I have no doubt the denial by her will kick in. Divorce is not an option I would pursue, I would not put my family thru that. I don't want to throw her under the bus with our children or have everyone know the circumstances. Yet, to think I can just drop it and forgive is a stretch. The feelings of being used would never go away. The sleepless nights are not fun. I do appreciate your input.
Posted August 20, 2011
John says:
Your answer sounds easy but difficult. I have never cheated on her despite many chances, and the feeling of playing the fool all these years is tough. The hard part with having a conversation about it with her is that she will no doubt, deny it. Then what? I swore secrecy to the person who gave me the truth.
Posted August 20, 2011
John says:
I am a 60 year old man who just recently found out that my wife had an affair with my brother years ago. I thought at that time there might have been something going on but was never sure. Now I know it was true.
How should I handle it? Confront her? Forget it? Confront him?
It's driving me crazy, I look at her at see them together.
Posted August 19, 2011
Confused and Confused.. says:
I'm having a kind of dilemma. I have a boyfriend, lets call him "Tom". I have been with him for 8 months. I am 14 and he is 16. He is sweet, considerate, loving, all the things I'd want in a guy. But he's boring. Seriously boring. I want to be an actress, I have my sights set on the best acting uni in Australia. But he just wants to be an engineer. Living in the most away and smallest part of Australia, Tasmania, it's not a big ambition. We don't have anything in common at all. But I'm quite happy with him. But recently, I met this guy who has become a really, really good friend of mine. Lets call him "John". Now he is sweet, kind, always attentive when you're with him, and he's also totally not in to drugs, alcohol, smoking or sex. Which is kind of rare for guys that are 15/16. He also has ambition. He plays guitar and sings, and is very, very good at both of them. He is extremely talented, but doesn't have a huge ego to go with it. I am in his band, (I also sing), and that's all really good. But my problem is, I think that I like him. A whole freaking lot. And I do love my boyfriend, but I'm not in love with him, probably never have been. I liked him, but I don't anymore. But I really, really like "John". But the thing is, I don't know if he likes me back. We talk a lot, we're really good friends, we have heaps in common. But I'm not sure. I thought he did like me, then he got a girlfriend, but they broke up because it didn't work out. I don't know whether to break up with my boyfriend, or just leave it and see how it goes? Cause if something does happen between "John" and I, I would've cheated on him, and I'd hate that. PLEASE HELP ME!!
Posted August 08, 2011
bbbBaby says:
So there is this guy. His name is G. I guess yu could say that I am with him. Idk really. But he has this girlfriend, they've been together for a long time. But me & him started messing around. He says he loves me. He says he wants me to have his child! He's met my family, my parents everything. I've met some of his family. But still there is this other girlfriend! I asked him if I got pregnant with his baby what would happen with him & her. & he said that she would be out of the picture if I was having his baby. But honestly, I mean I don't want to have a baby to make him leave her? I want him to leave her to be with me if he truly loves me. He says he loves her but he's not in love with her. But he loves me & doesn't want to lose me? HELP! What do I do??
Posted July 19, 2011
Sami says:
I have this best guy friend, who has been in love with me since the day we met. not having similar feelings, we just became best friends. I met this other guy from school activities and he says hes interested which is great because im interested too. Although we have been talking for about two months, his interest has gone downhill. Im in high school so obviously i know this thing isnt love but im a little lost on who to chose. This new guy use to talk to me on the phone every night and we hung out two or three times together. We have alot in common and we have kissed a couple times which i know that means hes interested. Lately he hasnt been eager to call or hang out. i have one guy who is crazy about me and another who is losing interest. Should i play this all by ear or perhaps go for the guy that seems best for me? help?
Posted April 24, 2011
Jessa says:
Over the summer, a man I work with, my direct supervisor, revealed that he had romantic feelings for me, and soon after that, that he was in love with me. this man I have great respect for and a strong friendship with. We have known each other for four years now. We were there for each other during the hardest times in our lives. We were just friends up until 3 months ago, when he started wanting to spend more time with me and we hung out more often. We have shared many things with each other and he told me that he's having a difficult time getting over abuse as a child and the death of his mother. This man is very driven, is constantly working, but cares deeply for his family and friends. We didn't get to spend alot of time together but when we did, it was amazing. He is so sweet and generous. He makes my heart melt. Last week he suprised me by saying he was ending our relationship-because he doesnt want to hurt me. When I pressed him, he said he has depression, and wants to deal with it, but can't do it if he's with me. He was pretty cold about this and left me crying. But we have seen each other physically a couple times since then and he says he misses me. He wont say he loves me anymore. but when we were together he said it so much...I'm very confused. This man means so much to me and I don't want to lose him. We get along so well, and I believe that we would make such a great couple. He is my best friend and I'm his. He says he needs me as a friend more than anything right now, to be there if he needs me, but I don't understand why he feels the need to break up with me to heal???
Posted October 19, 2010
Loveless 23 says:
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 5 monthes now, im not gonna lie, we are pretty young and today was the first day of school and we havent seen each other all summer But today he didnt talk to me at all or bearly look at me (or so i think). I dont no if he still likes me the way he used to, I dont know if i should break up with him or if it is just a phase. I dont know what to do!!! Plz help me Ms. Keemie
Posted August 26, 2010
Tired of this says:
Hey, I'm 16 and currently dating a boy for 3 months. Now we he never ha the strongest relationship. But it's him that's the problem.ok he seems like he dosnt care. Like he will never iniciate anything. We've never been on a date. And he won't try to hold my hand or kiss me. It's like were nt dating but saying were in a relationship. And I always ask I he wants to go to a movie. But he would rather hang out with friends. Or I go up and kiss him first or grab his hand. But after 3 months of him not showing any intrest in me I start o hunk he dosnt care so I stopd doing everything first. I've asked him and told him that I want himto show more intrest but all he replys is "oh..." and he dosnt change. He tells mr he likes me. But this is rediculous. I like him so much and I want to be with him all the time. But he's completly opposite and never wants to do anything. Please tell mr how to change this. I'm tired of feeling like he dosnt care.
Posted July 14, 2010
confidant and curious says:
I have been dating this guy for over a year, he was my first time, and he is absolutely wonderful. I am very happy with our relationship, and I love him a lot. I am just starting to feel more confidant with my body and I am a little curious as to if other guys would find me as beautiful as he does, and since he is my only experience sexually, I wonder what it might be like with someone else, because I have learned so much. I feel awful for having these feelings, are they wrong? And what should I do about them? I would never cheat on my boyfriend, and I dont want to ruin anything because things are going so well...
Posted January 27, 2010
5th Grader says:
Well, i got asked out by this boy whos dating my BFF and his note said, "if she was to break up with me would you go out with me?" im confused. if i say no they will stilll be going out and ill hang around my BFF and he'll hang around her so things will be awkward and if i say yes ill be going out with him but my BFF will be so pissed at me cuz he said he would break up with her to go out with me and then if i say maybe both of them will hate me. plz help.thx
Posted December 11, 2009
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chefkeem says:
Dear dreamsbgone,
your seem to be extremely mixed up about your situation. I recommend that you see a marriage counselor and sort it all out during a few one-on-one sessions. If you can't afford a shrink, go to your local social services office (MHMR) and see if they can set you up with someone. Good luck to you! :)
Posted January 12, 2012
chefkeem says:
Dear Hannah,
did you ever ask him directly about his feelings for you? Perhaps he assumes that you are aware of his feelings because of his behavior in your presence? There's also the possibility that he has deep feelings for you but he suppresses them because of your distant home bases. Maybe he can't see a way of moving back to the US, or you moving to England, and that's why he hesitates with a commitment.You guys need to talk. Not via friends - just you and him. Hash it all out. Where's a will, there's a way. Remember Romeo and Juliet?
Posted January 04, 2012
chefkeem says:
Dear Confused,
there's nothing wrong with clear communication. Go ahead and honestly tell him how you feel about him. If he says he's committed to the other girl, then you know at least what's up. Continuing uncertainty may break your heart.
On the other hand, if he is comfortable with a friendship and you can't live without a romantic relationship - a forced decision may cause him to withdraw from your friendship. You'd have to be prepared for that before you confront him.
I know these are very tough and mature choices, and I wish you blessings and courage for your path. :)
Posted December 30, 2011
chefkeem says:
Dear Kimberly,
of course he could have changed. But there's also the other possibility of you now trying to avoid conflict and not wanting to catch him lying again, because you don't want to lose him. Take an honest look at reality and then make your decisions.
Posted December 08, 2011
chefkeem says:
Dear Nisha,
PR tried for 4 years to get you back but you had to hold on to your anger. For 4 years??? Now that PR has finally moved on...all of a sudden, you want him back. There's something seriously wrong with this picture. I don't think you deserve PR anymore. Get over it! You should work on your anger and selfishness issues and then, IF you've worked hard enough, you may have a chance to find someone else.
Posted December 03, 2011
chefkeem says:
Dear latif,
you seem to be a very considerate person. That's nice! If you would constantly pester her with your lovey-dovey talk, you would probably lose her pretty soon, even as a regular friend.
Unfortunately, you can't force love. If she doesn't feel the "click'. there's nothing you can do about it. It may be a matter of time, but that's hard to predict. It may also be a waste of your emotional investment.
As long as you don't torture yourself with false hope and you can accept your platonic friendship, everything's gonna be fine.
My guess is: soon you'll meet someone else and it will "click" for both of you. Then your old heart ache will be over, quickly. Perhaps you should start looking around...
Posted November 08, 2011
chefkeem says:
Dear Someone,
you seem to be "addicted" to getting abused. That's a serious matter. Go see a psychiatrist or go to AlAnon meetings. Good luck!
Posted November 04, 2011
chefkeem says:
Nobody would be able to "just drop it", John. Forgiveness requires a bit of work, but it's well worth it if it gives you peace of mind for the rest of your life together. Wallowing in self-pity will eat you up. I recommend you'll see a relationship counselor.
Posted August 25, 2011
chefkeem says:
Dear John,
you may not have physically cheated on your wife, but perhaps in your fantasies? Or, you may have done other things that weren't 100% loving and truthful, during your marriage. The point is, we all are only human, and we all do selfish things in life.
You need to make the decision of staying married or getting divorced. If you want to continue with your marriage, you will have to choose between getting it all out in the open with your wife, which I recommend, or leaving it be, forgiving her, and moving on with your lives.
Since I don't know your specific circumstances, it might be a good idea for you to talk to a marriage counselor in your area. I wish you both the best. :)
Posted August 20, 2011
chefkeem says:
Dear John,
if this thing still drives you crazy, after all these years, you should sit down with your wife and have a good talk about it. I would not "confront" her---it's too late for that---but rather try to have a conversation about her current feelings. If she is sorry about this mistake and she feels that she loves you, then forgive her, so you guys can move on with your lives.
If you're already sure that she loves you, and you can find a bit of generosity of spirit in your heart, then you could simply let go of your "craziness" about this incident from a long time ago---it's called "forgiveness"---and live happily from now on forward. A personal inventory of sorts might help with your efforts. After all, we've all made mistakes in life, and we all hope for understanding and forgiveness from the people we've hurt along the way.
Posted August 19, 2011
chefkeem says:
Dear Confused,
it appears to me that you have secretly made up your mind already - for "John". At your age, it's still a good idea to take it slow and let things develop as they may fall. You need more time to find yourself, before you commit to a serious relationship. In any case, I would be honest with "Tom" and let him know that it's over. Then you don't have to worry about a possible closer encounter with "John".
Posted August 08, 2011
chefkeem says:
Dear bbbBaby,
don't get pregnant. Don't get pregnant. Did I mention that in no way you should get pregnant? G is not ready for a commitment. He will leave you as soon as you get pregnant. Got it? Keep messing as long as it's fun, but...Don't. Get. Pregnant. U hear me?
Posted July 19, 2011
chefkeem says:
Dear Sami,
playing it by ear is always a good choice, because - 1. you've got all the time in the world, and 2. your best choice might become clearer with a little more time.
Your main goal is a HS graduation you can be proud of. Everything else will fall in place by itself. You can't force love - it either happens, or it won't.
My advice to you is this: focus on school and take it easy on your romantic relationships, at least for a while.
I wish you peace of heart. :)
Posted April 24, 2011
chefkeem says:
Dear Jessa,
I know from my own experience as a recovering alcoholic, that a love affair during early recovery efforts can be a major distraction. You know why? Because a romantic relationship makes everything look rosy and the problems go away (for a while). If your friend wants to work on his issues, he needs to feel the pain in order to work through it.
If his request is truly the only reason for your breakup, you might want to give him the space for his most important emotional work of his life. That is the most loving thing you could do for him.
There are many support groups for significant others of depression sufferers. You might want to attend their meetings, so you can learn better how to support your friend. For more info on this whole topic go to NAMI.org
All my best wishes to you and your friend! :)
Posted October 19, 2010
chefkeem says:
Dear Loveless 23,
sounds to me like your guy has found someone else, over the summer. I'd say you should simply ask him about it.
Posted August 26, 2010
chefkeem says:
Dear Tired of this,
let him go; he either doesn't want to be with you, or he needs to grow up a bit more to know how to behave in a relationship. You're hanging on to a dream that will never become reality with this boy. You're projecting your dream onto someone who can't fulfill your desires. So, find someone else who can. Don't worry, this kind of stuff happens all the time in the adult world of romance. Sometimes, you just have to let go...
Posted August 26, 2010
chefkeem says:
Dear confidant and curious,
believe me, the physical stuff is the same with anyone, after a while. What makes it special is the personal connection...love! And you've got that already. And you're happy with it. So, stick with it. It ain't get any better with someone else. (Maybe, worse...)
Posted August 26, 2010
chefkeem says:
Dear 5th Grader,
stay out of this whole mess and go out with someone YOU like and who is unattached and available. Don't worry about what others might think about your decisions. Listen to your heart only! :)
Posted December 12, 2009
chefkeem says:
Dear Amy,
as long as he's continuing to make up stuff out of insecurity, you can't talk to him about it. The only thing you CAN do, is helping him improve his self-confidence by letting him know that you like him the way he really is, underneath of all the bragging. Think hard about this, Amy...what exactly do you like about him? Keep thinking. It might not be too obvious, since he's apparently been hiding under lies and made-up stories. But if you find something you like, tell him about it. If you don't find any redeeming qualities...run and let him try to impress someone else.
Posted September 24, 2009
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