About My Guy...Our Life Together
My guy, that I love to this moment and forever, captured me because he was unpretentious and unlike any other man that I had ever met.
He did not have me at 'hello', nor did he Flamenco dance or even have a million bucks. It was that tad bit of shyness, as well as being a real looker that drew me in! The rest...not to sound too cliche...is history!
I believe our meeting was not by chance...it was fate! Here are the reasons why I stay and love him to this day!
Our Wedding Song
Plus a Happy Anniversary Song!
To My Honey :) I am amazed and thrilled to find our relationship only better as each year passes. Comfortable, loving, cozy, and oh so exciting!
(Our 28th!! is July 17, 2010)
NY + OR Equals Love in Puerto Rico
Our island meeting ;)

He is from New York, I am from Oregon, and we met in Puerto Rico...now how exciting is that!
I had the good fortune of being stationed as a dental tech on the beautiful isle of Puerto Rico and shortly after settling in I asked the gals in the barracks about the camp we could see from our window. They told me that was the Seabee base and suggested that I stay away because they were a bit wild. Obviously the gals had no clue they should have used reverse psychology on me :) The very next night Annie, a friend that I met in the barracks, and I headed out for the adventure.
Wild, yes...Fun, definitely! Annie and I were in love with these guys that worked hard and played even harder! Plus that is where I met Mark...at the 'wild guy camp' ;)
For all that read this...these guys did play hard, yet they respected us as woman coming into 'their camp'. We never, ever felt threatened or disrespected! They were men of honor!
Laughter is Good for the Soul!
It is what makes our marriage survive

Mark makes me laugh every single day! Even if it is as at myself! Several years ago we had what we call today, "The Bat Incident".
I swore I saw a bat flying around in the garage so he went out to investigate. Well funny, ha ha him came running in the back door screaming that he had 'the bat' tangled up in his hair and when I saw the damn thing flopping on top of his head...big, brave me ran straight out the front door 'to safety'!
Then I heard all the laughter coming from the house, curious I peeped in the screen door to see that he had a black piece of plastic, 'the bat', that he was fluttering on top of his head! To this day and I think forever more, he'll tell that story and we will always laugh!
Love You Tag Pendant
Sterling Silver Red Glass Briolette "Love You" Tag Pendant on Rolo Chain, 18"
What a great way to celebrate 'Love' by wearing it for all to see!
He Loves Me Unconditionally
Even my goofy, mixed up self

Just the other day I swore I had placed my wedding ring on the windowsill at our friend's house before I washed up some dishes. Well, after a search through the garbage from the night before, my sweetheart Mark proceeded to look in every possible place that I may have dropped or set down my ring. Realizing that I was on the verge of tears he called home to ask our son to look on 'our windowsill'. I was determined it was not there...I distinctly remembered placing it on my friend's windowsill. Well long story short...yes my ring was on our windowsill!
That opened up the flood gate of tears, proclaiming I was going crazy, loosing my mind! Many hugs, kisses, and convincing me this happens to other people too, totally made me feel so very loved! Just in case you did not know it yet, I am one lucky gal.
Love and Logic
Parenting With Love And Logic (Updated and Expanded Edition)
Amazon Price: $16.49 (as of 11/17/2009)![]()
Together we would recommend this book for any parent. It is not easy raising kids, in fact we have both agreed it has been our hardest job to date.This book just makes tons of sense and helps you stop controlling your child, instead you parent with lots of love and sound logic!
We took the course when our guys were little and still use the principle points today!
Ten Things We Have Learned
Living, loving, and laughing!

1. We've grown to find true passion and happiness and give it our all!
2. When we say we are sorry...we mean it!
3. We freely give, as well as receive hugs and kisses between us!
4. We've learned that being a couple takes work, deep breathes before blurting hurts, plus considering each others feelings is huge!
5. When it came to making decisions about the boys, we stood united!
6. Honesty IS the best policy in our marriage!
7. Without a doubt we believe in each other!
8. We can talk to each other about anything and everything!
9. Spicing things up a bit every now and again makes our relationship fun and exciting.
10. We rarely forget the common courtesies like 'please' and 'thank you'...those kind words carry a lot of weight and speak loudly of respect for each other!
Relationships Are Wild and Wonderful!
Let's talk, give each other insight
How do you make your relationship work?
I say...
What others are saying...
My Guy
Love ya!
Mark at my 50th birthday party!
Hot Chocolate + Being a Couple
Very intriguing!
Hot Chocolate for Couples: Practical Ways to Sweeten Your Love Life
Amazon Price: $11.04 (as of 11/17/2009)![]()
We've not read this book, yet we both love hot chocolate AND we love being a couple! So it sounds interesting and the author offers, "From her own hardships and deep joys, refreshing perspective about how to create a strong and loving marriage. Personal illustrations, stories, conversation starters, and a couples study guide combine the delights of humor and the richness of wisdom."
Lenses For Couples
Enjoy the browse
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At Home: The Finest Spa Ever
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I will be the first to admit that actually going to a spa and being pampered is like heaven on earth. Many of us however, don't have the time or resources to indulge in such luxuries. Make it a point to simply relax and treat yourself with these homes...
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Picnic For Two
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Whether it's right in your backyard or a romantic spot atop a mountain...pack up your finger-food picnic for two, grab your partner by the hand, and discover the beauty of the outdoors together! If it is too chilly outdoors, spread your blanket...
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Your Love Nest
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Stress, boredom, pure exhaustion, and losing track of our commitment to each other all contribute to becoming 'strange bedfellows'. So whether you are newly coupled or have been together for years,...raising hand high!...consider taking a look at the...
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Especially For Couples: The Sexiest Games Ever
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These games for couples are a fun and healthy way to change things up a bit. Pulling one out from under the bed every now and again can turn a night of romancing into a special event! Let the games begin!
We Would Love To Hear From You
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- Li-Li-ThePinkBookworm Li-Li-ThePinkBookworm Sep 30, 2009 @ 9:36 pm
- Awesome lens! I just love LOVE, and I especially love hearing about long time married couples, who are still together. Keep up the awesome job you two and keep encouraging people who need a bit of reminder of the big picture in marriage.
5 stars!
Li Li
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- boshemia boshemia Sep 3, 2009 @ 12:27 am
- Very, very touching. Sometimes I look around and see all of these relationships failing and I lose hope for this world. Then I see a couple like you are, and I know we really are gonna be okay.
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- shajo shajo Aug 17, 2009 @ 1:56 pm
- Awwww that is the sweetest story! I can tell you are 100% in love with your man! This is is so heart warming :) Oh, seen any more bats around the garage? too funny!
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- 24websurf 24websurf Aug 5, 2009 @ 12:14 am
- The music was wonderful, the story better. You managed to brings tears and cheers for you and your love. Belated Happy Anniversary and wishing you so many more!
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- drifter0658 drifter0658 Aug 5, 2009 @ 12:12 am
- Way to rock the world you two. Keep up the faith and shine your light on the world.
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