I'm Alone...and I Don't Want to Be!
Let me guess...your boyfriend just dumped you, and now you're sitting at home trying to figure out how to get over the pain and get on with your life.
Well, you've come to the right place. I know how you're feeling right now, even if you're probably tired of your friends telling you that. When the most important person in your life decides that being with you just isn't important anymore...it's a knife in the gut...
But you shouldn't let the pain destroy you...accept it, but don't let it run your life. It's a natural thing to feel right now, but if you let it dominate and control you, keep you from living your life, then it's never going to go away.
If you have the right mindset, and follow the right plan, you'd be surprised how easy it can be to stop break up pain.
Well, you've come to the right place. I know how you're feeling right now, even if you're probably tired of your friends telling you that. When the most important person in your life decides that being with you just isn't important anymore...it's a knife in the gut...
But you shouldn't let the pain destroy you...accept it, but don't let it run your life. It's a natural thing to feel right now, but if you let it dominate and control you, keep you from living your life, then it's never going to go away.
If you have the right mindset, and follow the right plan, you'd be surprised how easy it can be to stop break up pain.
No Pain is Good...But I Want Him Back!
That's all right, don't worry...you can get him back. You just have to go about it the right way.
And, you'll find out if you do it, the things you can do to help with your break-up pain can actually help you get your ex back too! Things that help to take your ex off your mind can do a lot towards getting you on his mind as well.
I know you're probably skeptical, but I've been in your kind of situation before. I've been through some tough spots with my girlfriend, and she almost left me once...but our continuing relationship is proof that with the right effort you can make even a seemingly hopeless situation work.
If you come up with a plan and follow it well, there's nothing standing in your way...it's completely possible (and sometimes fairly easy!) to get your ex back.
And, you'll find out if you do it, the things you can do to help with your break-up pain can actually help you get your ex back too! Things that help to take your ex off your mind can do a lot towards getting you on his mind as well.
I know you're probably skeptical, but I've been in your kind of situation before. I've been through some tough spots with my girlfriend, and she almost left me once...but our continuing relationship is proof that with the right effort you can make even a seemingly hopeless situation work.
If you come up with a plan and follow it well, there's nothing standing in your way...it's completely possible (and sometimes fairly easy!) to get your ex back.
How Do I Get Started?
There are a lot of things you can do to both heal your breakup pain and get your relationship back on track. Different things work for different people, but a few methods are pretty good for just about any situation.
There are a couple rules to stick to regardless of what your situation is, and if you think about them you'll understand why. Relationships between people work certain ways, and understanding how they do is crucial to getting where you want to go.
For more information on these rules and methods, there are some great resources on the web. The one I've been linking you to covers pretty much everything you could ever need to know, but I'm not going to just push it at you and say "try this." Take a look at The Magic of Making Up, and you can see for yourself whether it's right for you. All I can say is, it's helped me a lot, and I'm sure it wouldn't be a waste of your time to at least check it out.
There are a couple rules to stick to regardless of what your situation is, and if you think about them you'll understand why. Relationships between people work certain ways, and understanding how they do is crucial to getting where you want to go.
For more information on these rules and methods, there are some great resources on the web. The one I've been linking you to covers pretty much everything you could ever need to know, but I'm not going to just push it at you and say "try this." Take a look at The Magic of Making Up, and you can see for yourself whether it's right for you. All I can say is, it's helped me a lot, and I'm sure it wouldn't be a waste of your time to at least check it out.
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Have a situation you just want to talk about? I can't guarantee I'll be able to help as much as the site above, but I'm glad to give my input!
Of course, any comments are welcome too!
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- Aug 19, 2008 @ 12:11 am
- Sometimes, love is sweeter the 2nd time around so why not try to give yourselves a chance? anybody here who wants a second chance? Go for the recommendations that Jagger97 have posted here! I've experienced the same way before. She broke up with me because I was irresponsible but now, I have my own line business selling Maltese checks and other dog checks online and I'm ready go get a life and I'm actually going to make-up with her and this lens is probably the best starting point that we can ever have!
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- TheMagicOfMakingUp TheMagicOfMakingUp May 25, 2008 @ 2:47 pm
- The Magic of Making Up has helped over 5100 people in 27 countries get back with their ex! Click on Jagger97's link above and see the testimonial video.
The Magic of Making Up Works!
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- Sam Sam May 3, 2008 @ 9:50 pm
- Nice page Jagger97. Here is a good review of The Magic of Making Up.
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- Jagger97 Jagger97 Mar 19, 2008 @ 7:22 am
- Well, Porxa...this isn't necessarily as hard as it feels.
The "not ready for commitment" line is getting used more and more these days...sometimes it's just a way to get out of a relationship that's going too fast, and other times it's a standard breakup line when somebody isn't satisfied with a relationship and wants to try elsewhere without intentionally hurting his or her partner's feelings.
Of course bearing in mind that you can never really trust rumors, if he's dating it's actually a good thing. It means he is in fact looking for something out of a relationship, something you can provide if you can figure out what it is. Don't worry about other girls...after a month's time it's natural he'd be looking, and 90% of rebound relationships don't last so you could still be in the clear.
There are still ways to get him back, but I can't fit it all in a comment...take a look at the site I link to in my article. He can explain better than I can. Cheer up, it's not hopeless!
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- porxa porxa Mar 19, 2008 @ 12:50 am
- in my situation its somewhat very confusing because the guy that i love sooo much is the one who always throwed me to go and have other guys with me but if i effort to see him then were together i see him as happy and good with me but he always say he is not for me i love him soo much but he told me he dont want to have a commitment but when we dont see each other for almost a month i just here some gossips about him with some other girl who is already his girlfriend but he told me he dont want a commitment..???????
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- Jagger97 Jagger97 Mar 18, 2008 @ 2:28 pm
- Hey Christine, I actually know the sort of relationship...one of my past girlfriends and I went through something kind of like this. I know how hard it is to get somebody you care about out of your head, even if your head is telling you there's something not right.
I wish I could help you personally, but I'm barely able to handle my own relationships. This is why I'm really recommending the site I link to on this lens; I've seen emails from the people who have found happiness again using his book...as hopeless as you may feel your situation is, there is a happy solution for both of you, and his book can help you find it.
Just hang in there, and don't give up until you've at least taken a look at the free information and videos he has on his site. Things'll work out for you. =)
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- christine christine Mar 18, 2008 @ 2:13 pm
- we have broken up a few times and i always want him back and can't move on. i am completely in love with him. everyone tells me that he is no good for me, but i think i can be the judge of that knowing how i feel without him. i can't leave him alone and am being really immature and i'm sure he's thinking what a loser i am and how happy he is to be without me. help
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