During the first stages of a breakup it is important that you don't spend time actually blaming each other for what has occurred. It is far more important if you spend time thinking about why the breakup actually happened.
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Although it may be difficult you need to listen to what the other person has to say. This way you will be able to clearly see your partner's point of view. Please don't be ready to jump in with your own views and certainly don't highlight any flaws you see in what they are saying.
As soon as you start to listen to what your partner has to say you will find that they will be more willing and receptive to listen to what you have to say also. This provides you with the opportunity to come to a more mutual understanding of how each other feels and help to avoid trouble which could only make the situation worse than it already is.

Listen to what your partner has to say and you will find that they will be more willing to listen to what you have to say also.
Once these points have been brought out into the open should you start sorting through them and discussing them. If you really what the magic of making up to have a chance in helping you become a couple once more then it is important that you put aside any emotions you may have and instead deal with the issues at hand more objectively.

