Making a Man Fall in Love With You

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Making a Man Fall in Love With You

Like most women, I've fallen in love with a man who just didn't feel the same way about me. In my case it was with a man I'd been dating for several months. I felt an incredibly strong connection with him, yet he didn't ever seem all that interested in me. In fact, half the time I had no idea whether I was the only woman he was dating or not.


I'd never felt those same feelings with any man before and I wanted him to feel the same way about me. I tried almost everything to get him to fall in love including showering him with attention, constantly being available to him, looking the other way when he didn't treat me exactly the way I wanted and allowing him every freedom in the world. He didn't seem to notice any of it at all and he still never uttered the words "I love you" to me.


I was getting so discouraged. I did what most women did when they needed relationship advice - I looked to my friends. Most of them weren't involved in any type of long term union with their men so I knew their advice wasn't based on years of being in a loving, committed relationship. I wanted to know exactly what I could do to get him to fall as deeply in love with me as I was in love with him.



I wasted so much time before I realized the one key to getting a man to fall in love - if I wanted him to really love me and be devoted to me - I had to learn how to connect with him on a level that no one else ever had.


I was smart enough to realize that love doesn't come along every day. I found the man I loved, now I just needed to get him to love me back. I did. You can too.

Things That Turn Men Off 

Common Mistakes Women in Relationships Make

Most of us have made mistakes when it comes to love. We've done things, in an effort to get a man to love us, that just haven't worked in our favor. Part of the problem is that we just don't understand what it is men find appealing.


Some turn offs that you must avoid if you want a man to fall in love with you include:


Acting selfish. A selfish woman will have a much harder time finding a man to love her. You don't have to be obvious about being selfish for a man to pick up on it. If you act self absorbed, most men will be instantly turned off. This includes subtle things like taking hours to get ready and being late for a date, or constantly looking at yourself in a mirror. Another way that many women are selfish is they never offer to pay for any part of the date. Pay for dinner occasionally and don't talk non-stop about yourself.


Appearing messy. On the other end of the spectrum from selfish women are women who just don't care about themselves. Typically these are women who strive to help others. They are so focused on making the lives of other people easier that they neglect themselves. You don't have to be perfect, but you should always take a little time to make yourself look nice before seeing the man you adore. He'll appreciate the effort and it also shows that you really do value yourself which makes you all that more lovable to him.


Complaining. Some women tend to complain about just about everything. They seem to have a chip on their shoulders and regardless of what others do, they are never pleased. Men don't find women who complain charming or desirable. If you spew out negative comments on a regular basis it's more challenging to find love. Being kind and having a positive attitude is incredibly attractive to men.


There are many things that instantly trigger feelings of adoration within a man - find out what you can do to ensure he falls in love with only you.

How to Know When He's Not Serious 

Signs That You're in a "Part-time" Relationship

As women, when we meet a guy we really like, we tend to want to ensure that he doesn't get away. It's not secret that good men are very hard to find and if you do happen upon one, trying to encourage him to date exclusively isn't a bad idea.


Men don't always handle the idea of dating just one woman that well. You may even think you two are in a relationship when in fact you're in what many men call a "part time" or "partial" relationship.


Here's a few signs that he may not be as invested in the relationship as you are:



He's too busy to see you during the week. If you're dating a man who appears to be a workaholic, you may actually be dating a man who is already in another relationship. Many men use the excuse of excess work to ensure they don't have to see you during the week. If he only makes time for you on the weekends, surprise him at work or home during the week. You'll know from his response how much he values his weekday time away from you.


He only wants to stay in. If he's not willing to invest a little in your happiness, he's not worth spending time with. Once a man becomes too comfortable in a relationship he may think that staying home and watching television is the key to a romantic evening. If he truly wants to make you happy he'd be planning on taking you out for dinner, to a movie or dancing. Vacations would also be on his list of must-dos with you.


He won't introduce you to anyone in his life. This is a red flag that the guy you are with isn't thinking long term or serious with you. If he doesn't seem interested in introducing you to his friends, coworkers or family, there's a reason. Men who want to be with a woman, want to share that with everyone. If you feel that you're being hidden away in a closet, there's a reason for that. He is thinking temporary in terms of your relationship.


There are ways to capture the heart of a man without his even realizing what is happening find out how to make him yours now.

My Review of 'Rousing the Lion' 

How to Get The Man You Want to Love You

When you fall in love with man, there's really not much you wouldn't do to get him to feel the same way. Good men are hard to come by, and if you find one and fall head over heels for him, ideally you want him to feel exactly the same way.


Most of my life I believed that fate was what would bring me and the man I was supposed to be with together. I was wrong. Fate seemed to be always bring Mr. Wrong to my doorway. Then I met the man I knew I'd marry.


Trying to wow a man by pretending to be something you're not will never work. What does work is really understanding how a man thinks and then using that to mesmerize him so you can get beneath his natural resistance and appeal directly to his innermost emotions.

The idea that you have to let nature take its course in order for a man to fall in love with you is WRONG! You have it within yourself to make any man fall in love with you. We all do - we just don't know it.

In Rousing the Lion you'll discover how to use your natural abilities to command the power in any man. You can make any man feel compelled to love you in just a few short steps.


If you love a man, if you need that man in your life, read the book. It will change everything in your life for the better.


This book changed my life. I finally understood that the power to make a man love me, wasn't in his hands, but in mine. If you love a man, if you truly want him to adore and cherish you, you need to read this book today.

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