Male and Female Relationships

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Different Perspective of Gender

I recently watch a Movie... It struck me on how relationships between couples turn sour as time passes...

God made us, Male and Female so differently, even our slimmest perspective has such a big gap. In my live, living in within both sexes, I began to realise that my thinking and things to stress on has so much difference with people in the opposite sex. Therefore, this issue of Male and female relationship always interests me, and the more I understand about our differences, and learn to be aware of it, the more I cherish my relationships.

Scientifically & Physically... 

The differences in needs between 2 genders, both physically and mentally is totally opposite from the other. We need so much of attention from our male partners, even the slightest little gesture of care, or just to remember exactly some little details of a certain occasion, would give us great sense of security.

On the other hand, I once heard from the other party, the needs for the opposite sex might be more realistic, as to have a clear guideline on responsibilities, such as who is playing the role of the either home maker or income provider, which come with somewhat clear list of "job scope".

Though my understanding does not perfectly match with all of human race, it is clear that the differences between sexes exist and is somewhat in a kind of formula. This formula is there for us to learn, and to apply, just as an application of algebra in solving math equation problems.

Learn and apply... the Relationship will have such unique combination, just like having the correct combination herbs for a perfume scent, either to be sweet, romantic, calm, security, trust, exciting.

Learn Not... we will still apply without noticing. The perfume will turn into uncomfortable odour, tired, restless, anxiousness.

Relationship can be a wonderful thing, as it only exists if there are more than 2 parties who would try to learn and apply the formula. While we still have another person to join in our experiment, it could be the most cherish moments, which might turn out to be most memorable in our living years.

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Other Related Lenses about Life and People 

Connection between Male and Female or Men and Women is a very unique kind of Relationship. In life, there are a lot of different perspective of people, and though relationship itself plays an important role, there are other elements of life that also play their own important parts. Some of those important elements are:

1) Balance between Work & Life, Is there a secret to enjoy both at the same time?
2) Our emotions & Actions, which one actually has control over the other?
3) Time management in our daily routine, have we spend enough time for ourselves & family, or have we fully utilize our 24 hours daily?
4) Stress! How do we get caught up and how can we eliminate it to live life to the fullest?

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